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Anonymous users2024-02-10Phobias Mental illness caused by some kind of shadow or psychological suggestion, Mental illness that makes a marked resistance to something or behavior, Evasion, and even physical problems, Severe phobias can cause nausea, dizziness, and even vomiting and acute diarrhea.
Good based on the above information the strategy is:
1. Collect the necessary information from the boy's friends, family or classmates as follows: 1. Whether the boy has phobia in his eyes 2. The boy's symptoms 3. Whether the boy has a history of love If so, why did he break up? From the above information, analyze what kind of girl the boy likes.
2. According to the intelligence, move closer to the type that the boy likes, pay attention, you can't imitate everything, you only need to do one or two key points, otherwise it will appear deliberately blunt, and it will also be the target alert.
3. After contact, start to hint that the other person has a crush on him, and most importantly, show dependence on the boy's specialty or skill in a certain area, remember not to overdo it, just let the other person know that there is something wrong with me, and the first one will think of you.
4. After doing the above, you can basically determine that you have entered a "quasi-love environment", in such an environment, the contact between the two parties will induce the boy's love phobia, if he starts to have a rejection reaction according to the information collected in advance, it proves that he likes you, and it also proves that he is not cheating.
5. If it doesn't work, as long as you are sure that you are in a normal relationship, it means that the other party may not have a love phobia at all.
Note that love phobia is not the fear of falling in love with someone, but the fear of being in love.
Hope these are helpful to you above.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Heart, small movements, eyes, actions, attitudes.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Falling in love is a very happy thing, but some boys are afraid of falling in love, what's going on? Is this what people often call love phobia, many boys who are not in love wonder if they have love phobia, so what are the characteristics of love phobia boys? Why do some people get love phobia, let's learn about love phobia.
Are you not in love because of it?
What is the disease of boys being afraid of love?
Boys' fear of falling in love is a mental illness, which is what people often call love phobia. As the name suggests, love phobia is the fear of falling in love, some boys or girls will get this disease, but there is no need to worry if you have love phobia, as long as you relax your mind and start a relationship bravely, your love phobia will disappear. So what is the reason why boys are afraid of falling in love?
There are many reasons for love phobia, everyone's situation is different, some people may have been hurt in the previous relationship, so they are psychologically afraid of being hurt again, so they don't want to fall in love! There are also family reasons, seeing that my parents are unhappy in marriage, or the relationship status of my friends is very bad, and I am afraid of love and love, so I am afraid of falling in love!
Characteristics of love-phobic boys:
1. I am especially afraid of falling in love with someone
In this case, most of the reason is that this boy has low self-esteem and has no confidence in himself, he is afraid that he will not be able to give the other party happiness, and he is afraid that after he has given all his feelings, others will not be able to reciprocate with the same feelings!
2. Stupid finches are afraid of other people's rejection
Some boys are eager to fall in love, but he is always worried that after his confession fails, the other party does not love him, or does not give him the response he wants. Even if he has a crush, he doesn't dare to confess, which reflects from the side that this boy is not confident in himself.
3. I am afraid that my freedom will be gone after falling in love
Some people like to live a life of one person very much, but sometimes they want to find someone to accompany them, but they are afraid that after falling in love, they will think about each other everywhere, and their time and freedom will be gone, so they don't want to be in love.
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Anonymous users2024-02-071 Japan** did a survey and found that most single men are single because they think: too lucky Kai is troublesome! With the continuous development of social software, we can communicate with the opposite sex in a virtual cyberspace, and even confess to the opposite sex through social software.
This kind of virtual relationship will damage the establishment of real relationships in reality.
2. Boys with love phobia are generally not confident enough, think that they are not good enough, no one else will like them, dare not take the initiative to chase girls, and even be chased by girls, they will feel afraid and think that they are not worthy.
3 Boys who suffer from paraphobia tend to divert their energy to other matters. The more common ones in life include being addicted to online games, indulging in the two-dimensional world, or crazy chasing stars. In essence, the demand for love has been transferred to the rolling star.
4 Boys with love phobia are very afraid of rejection, they may have experienced emotional trauma, but psychologically, they have not yet come out of the memory of the past and dare not move forward.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06<> What will be the manifestation of love phobia?
1. Do not search for codes and tremble and actively interact with the opposite sex, and the sense of boundary is very defeated;
2. If there is active contact with the opposite sex, it will stay away immediately;
3. Living alone for a long time, and only going out with friends of the same sex.
Why is there a "phobia of love"?
1. I have been seriously hurt emotionally, and I haven't let go of it, and I haven't come out of my last relationship;
2. Seeing that the love affair of the friends around me is not going well, I feel that more things are better than less things;
3. I live well, have my own goals to pursue, and am very comfortable in my own living habits.
How to get rid of "love phobia"?
1. Try to open your heart to a new relationship;
2. Don't be overly pessimistic, don't be overly optimistic, and treat the development of a relationship rationally;
3. Don't think that feelings are dispensable, it's always good to have someone to take care of yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05When it comes to the age of love, there are some boys and girls, they don't want to be in love, and they don't like to make friends with a group of people. They really hate dating, resisting, and having too much unnecessary contact with foreigners. They prefer to curl up in a safe and unsafe way than to socialize.
In an impetuous world, we call this phenomenon "lovephobia".
Being in love is a very beautiful thing, maybe it means that you and I are sick when we are sick. “"Love phobia" has different manifestations in different men and women, because each person is unique, but the fear of love and the resistance to intimacy of the opposite sex are similar, mainly related to a person's experience, such as receiving emotional trauma or lack of family love, etc.
What is it like to have a phobia in love? For example, when you reach a certain age, but you are at home every day, you will be urged to get married by your family and relatives after a long time, and you will be forced to go on a blind date. The more the family pushes, the less motivation there is to fall in love, and the less fun it is to fall in love first, so this is also one of the root causes.
In fact, everyone wants to have a sweet love, but the time has not yet come, and we have not met the person who belongs to us, we can try to make ourselves better in the process, so as to meet better people. Don't be discouraged, because good people are behind. That's it, I hope it will help you in your relationship.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04If you have the following characteristics, you have a "phobia of love".
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Anonymous users2024-02-03It's just that I can't imagine myself in love at all.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02It's just that when I think about falling in love, I feel troublesome.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01It's a terrible fear of being hurt.
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Anonymous users2024-01-31It's unfortunate to feel like and don't want to be in love.
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