My boyfriend told me to marry him later, but I didn t want to talk about it. So what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Well, there are some things that don't like you, and you don't want to look at them, but I still want to say them.

    You're a girl, and you're not very old, and you still have too little social experience for an 18-year-old boy. If possible, think about such a thing: he and I have only been together for a month, and he is going to marry me, is he playing with me?

    Well, it's really hard to hear what I say, sorry, sorry! Go on.

    Love is hard-won, yes, but your age is really too young, and it's really a bit early for you to get married. Some people may say that you are in early love. I'm against that.

    Feelings are not easy to come by, there are other ways to go besides marriage, continue to develop, if you feel that this person is really worthy of you to marry, you can. It's only been a month, and it's really a little too fast

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Dear Every girl will have such a sweet experience, he may love you very much, you are still young, you don't know how to love, you cherish the present, because love at this age is the most beautiful, because you are all simple.

    I've had that experience too, and it's beautiful. So you cherish the present and talk about it later.

    I wish you all happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's think about it first, if he's really good to you, and no one compares him better, then you can talk to your parents first, and then I think that's not good, you're all still very young, it's not good to talk about it so early.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're too young, you're far away from getting married, and it's not nice to say it, and it's useless to talk about it now, so it's better to break it off early.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can say but I would love to marry you because I love you so much and the two are really a good fit. At this time, he will give you a reason, even if you don't get married in the end, at least you know the reason.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can ask your boyfriend, you don't want to marry me, who do you want to marry, so it's a relationship, I've never considered getting married, why do you want to talk about it together, you can try to chat with your boyfriend openly, understand what he thinks in his heart, and if he also has his own difficulties, you can find a way to solve them together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can take the initiative to agree to each other, or you can take the initiative to accept each other, since two people have no feelings, they should break up, there is no need to settle for marriage, and they will be emotional.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can ask him if he loves you or not, and if the other person hesitates, I suggest you break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, I'll tell you what I think:

    First of all, when you ask this question, you must have expectations in your heart, but you don't know when you will get married, the relationship is indeed a matter for both parties, and it takes a lot of run-in before marriage, and it takes time and each other's state.

    You should find the answer from your relationship, even if he has you, you believe in the answer, but it still takes time to verify and implement this answer, it takes the two of you to run in, and you need to have a common life plan.

    You need to go through all kinds of problems together, and you create the result together, so you can't say that he doesn't want to, and he doesn't think about whether it makes sense, maybe you want an attitude, but he is very sincere, and he is afraid to draw conclusions about the future.

    In fact, you don't care too much, everyone aspires to the best result together, right, two people must want to get married together, the meaning of the expression has been expressed, or you have to manage your feelings well, don't misunderstand that you don't want to, now the pressure of society is so great, two people face family, work, planning, interpersonal relationships.

    And so on, so getting married is more about coordinating a lot of things and dealing with a lot of things.

    I wish you all happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    All relationships that don't aim to get married are hooligans. Since he is not even sure whether he will marry you in the future, then why are you still following him? A scumbag.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It should be that your boyfriend has no bottom in his heart, and at the same time, your status in his heart is not so high, so it is recommended to see clearly before dating.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What's so bad about it, I'm embarrassed, it should be your boyfriend....I've said it all, there's nothing wrong with you wanting to marry, it's him who is at fault....There is something wrong with the mind.

    At the very least, it should be made clear that it hangs you unclearly....What's going on?

    The girls all spoke, and if they wanted, they agreed directly, and then proposed to prepare...If you don't want to, you have to say it, what do you think....

    He may have changed his mind, or he has a girlfriend here...He's swaying in the middle.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't want to, it's not necessarily that I don't want to or don't love it, or I just haven't thought about it yet, I haven't thought about it, or it depends on how you feel about getting along every day, if you feel that each other is a good person, take your time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The reason why he doesn't like you is that he hasn't decided to grow old with you, that is, he is very likely to break up with you when he meets someone he thinks is better than you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then he must not have this plan in his heart, you have to be prepared, you may not be suitable, so your boyfriend did not have you at the first time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not to the point of talking about marriage, so he shows that he is not ready and needs time.

    It's come to this point, if he still says so, break up early.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why did I ask my boyfriend if he would go over, and I said he didn't want to, and now I'm embarrassed to say, that only proves that he doesn't love you enough and doesn't want to marry you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, just because he doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Because it's not time to talk about marriage yet.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't want to, you won't, he's probably just playing, and he's probably tired of playing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why did you ask my boyfriend if he would marry me in the future, and he said no, I'm embarrassed to talk to him now.

    That is to say, he has not yet considered whether he will be able to get married in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The meaning of not wanting to be is very clear. It's that he's not ready to marry you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He hasn't decided whether he wants to continue with you yet!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe my boyfriend has been asked too many questions like this, and he is not ready yet.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He didn't want to deceive you. No one can predict what will happen in the future, and it hurts if you can't keep your promise.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This situation is a bit complicated, everything that is not for the purpose of marriage is a, the girl carefully considers it, unless he just has something at the time and has no heart to talk about it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he says this, it means that he doesn't like you at all, and he doesn't have you in his heart, so why do you care about him?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    That means your boyfriend won't spend the same life with you, so it's better to split up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It shows that your boyfriend can't talk and doesn't love you very much, and he doesn't even give a girl room to imagine.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No one can say for sure, he should have another woman now, how about you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't want to marry you now, and I won't want to marry you in the future, you have thought about it yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It seems that now it is just love, and both parties have no economic basis. I'm still thinking about my future life.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Oh, he, stay, more:

    In fact, many people have the psychology of Liang trembling.

    I think there are two possibilities:

    One is that you don't really love him, that is, you like him just for a good feeling.

    The second is that you are worried that he will not love you as much as he does now after marrying you.

    If it's the first one.

    You have to ask yourself if you love him.

    If you don't really love him, break it up.

    If it's the second one.

    What you need is to take a good look at your boyfriend to see if he has a crush on you.

    One thing to keep in mind.

    Although there are a lot of boys who are very interested now.

    So like girls, there will be a kind of uncertainty about love.

    Other words. A guy who really likes you doesn't necessarily (and very rarely) always talk sweetly to you on the surface.

    It seems that the boys nowadays are more wooden) and there is.

    After getting married, how much will the relationship fade.

    This is true of everyone who gets married.

    So you should be prepared to become less affectionate after marriage.

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