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From a parent's point of view, who doesn't want their child to have a better and easier life. In their eyes, only those with good economic conditions can be considered to be doing well. This is also normal, because it is you who is dating your boyfriend, not your mother, so she does not feel the happiness that your boyfriend gives you outside of the economy.
Don't measure whether a man is worth marrying in front of money, for example, if you are given a rich boyfriend, and your mother supports you, will you dare to marry? Judging from your narrative, he is a very good man, he has changed his mind, whether it is worth it or not, only time will know the result. Sometimes happiness comes from gambling, just like doing business, the higher the risk, the higher the reward, and the higher the loss.
But don't dare to take the risk, no matter what the end result, you will regret it. You always feel that if you had gambled in the first place, maybe the outcome would have been better.
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Do you think you are married, or are you marrying a house or a car?
If that person has a house and a car, but you don't like it at all, will you get married?
Of course, marriage cannot be a mirage, it must have a certain material foundation! You can't just focus on matter, right?
I can see that you are a very sensible girl, knowledgeable and thoughtful, looking at people and things, and having your own insights! I haven't met your boyfriend, but as you can tell from your description, he's a good man who deserves to be promised! Although he doesn't have this or that for the time being, he is a potential stock, and you are a virtuous helper, are you afraid that you will not have a good life in the future?!
Parents want their children to be in place in one step, without having to work hard, and directly enjoy a happy life in the future! There is nothing wrong with wishes, but it is not easy to do! Haha、、、
In a marriage, the most important thing is people, not things! As the saying goes: men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man!
In fact, as long as you stick to each other, it will be your parents who will compromise in the end!
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Let's put off on getting married.
What you need to do now is work hard with him to make money ......Whether it's for your mother's strict demand for money, or for you to get married, buy a house, and have children in the future, you need money ......
Mom actually wants your life to be better after leaving them, don't blame her for being too realistic In the end, it's for your own ......good
5 years, 8 years, 10 years of lovers There are many things, and you are only two years old, and you really need to test ......
Only when the road is far away can we know the strength of the horse, and only when the days are long can we see the good and bad ...... people's hearts
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Congratulations on finding a good man, don't say much, don't give up on him, giving up on him may be your only regret in this life.
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The foundation of money marriage. And it's not the same before and after marriage. If the parents do not agree. It is advisable not to rush to get married.
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It's hard to find a man like you now, I really envy you, and you also find an honest, honest, filial, responsible, and motivated person, and you will definitely achieve success in the future.
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In the eyes of parents, they always want to find a child who is both able to keep home and can make money, that kind of person is there but not everyone can meet, and besides, you are still young, what does it matter if you have no money for the time being, however, if you are not so anxious, don't rush to get married, the words of parents always make sense.
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Let your boyfriend prove it to your mom.
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Woooooooo We're having the same issue. Have you solved it now?
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Caring, trusting, preference, understanding, respect, tolerance, taking care of me, don't be around when I'm sick, and when I'm in trouble, show up to me in time, I will want to marry each other immediately after I know.
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Being able to leave work and take care of me when I am not feeling well will be very touching, and when I need money, it will be delivered to me as soon as possible, and I will especially want to marry him.
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The boyfriend will hand over his salary, and the boyfriend will defend himself everywhere, think about himself, consider the problem from his own point of view, listen to his own ideas first when he encounters things, and prepare romantic surprises for himself.
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He was very good to me, cared about me, took care of me, solved my difficulties in a timely manner when I was in trouble, spent money on me, gave me gifts, and handed me my salary card.
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When he goes out shopping on weekends and takes the bus, as long as there are elderly people or children in his arms, he will definitely give up his seat. I thought it was worth marrying a boy who was so kind to me and so good, and then we got married. After getting married, he still held me in the palm of his hand.
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Once I had a high fever, the whole person was unconscious, I didn't tell him, he called ** to my house to find me, knew that I was sick, guarded me for a few days and nights, when I woke up, I found him by my side, I was very moved at that moment, and I wanted to marry him at that moment.
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My boyfriend is trying to earn money every day, I asked him why he was working so hard, he said he wanted to give me a stable future, and at that moment I knew that he was worth entrusting. In this instant, I feel that he is the right person and that I am going to marry him.
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On Chinese New Year's Eve in 2012, I was in love with you for 2 months, all working in other provinces and couldn't go home, we New Year's Eve together, watching the Spring Festival Gala together, when I saw the sketch home, you cried, very homesick, I saw a man crying for the first time, at that moment I decided that it was you, the man I had followed all my life, your tears told me that you are a filial person, a person with a family, and then we got married, very happy.
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My husband and I didn't get married in a flash, and we didn't get married after knowing each other for a short time. We seem to have been talking for five or six years before getting married, and I think that it is not an instant decision to be with a person for a lifetime to support each other and tolerate each other, it should be that two people have seen a person clearly bit by bit together, so there is so much determination.
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One is when eating. Beads of sweat slipped down his forehead. Then he used a towel from the student's house.
Wiped the beads of sweat off my head. I think he's very cute and simple. It is particularly simple and does not pay attention to any form.
From that moment, I felt that his love for me was genuine. Rustic mine. Unabashedly.
I'll definitely marry him.
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There is one thing that has been going on for years, but I still remember it vividly. When I was in high school in the county seat before, when I was in college, I saw the nutrition express and said, this looks very delicious, at that time I remember that it was three yuan and five a bottle, which is still quite expensive for us rural children. In the summer of that year, he was working in the university's academic office, and one day they were cleaning and selling a lot of cardboard newspapers, and the teacher on duty said to invite them to drinks, and he picked out the nutrition express.
In the evening, he brought me the nutrition express and told me that the teacher bought it for me, and that was the first time I drank it. I saw that he seemed to have only taken one sip or two sips of that bottle. I was very moved at the time, but now that I write it, I actually cry, hey!
Many years have passed, and I have forgotten the taste of the first time I drank Nutrition Express, but my heart is still sweet when I think about it.
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I married my husband in the moment I was moved. Once, I just got off work and my husband called me to chat and asked me if I had eaten, I said I hadn't eaten, he said what time it was and hadn't eaten yet, I said that this is what I do, I'll eat in a while. Half an hour later, my husband came to me and suddenly appeared in front of me and bought me a lot of things to eat, so that I could eat when I was hungry at night.
From that moment on, I was very moved, so I later married my husband who loved me.
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We were introduced through a matchmaker, and at the beginning, everyone thought that the eye was good, and we started dating! Not long after dating, I was ready to get married in 3 months. Because the second year was my natal year, I was under a lot of pressure at that time, and I was a little afraid, after all, I didn't know each other for a long time!
Although I was still happy at the time! We are also silent in happiness!
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I was touched by the fact that he never wavered despite his family's opposition, which made me believe in him very much.
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Every time I quarrel, I know to bow my head first and admit my mistakes, and never quarrel with me.
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In fact, I feel that when he is desperate for me, I feel like I want to marry him.
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Once, he took a bus to the door of the company and waited for me to get off work. I was riding a bike, so he rode me home. I was bumped into by my colleagues and said that we were bicycle lovers.
I felt like I was just living a normal life, just like coming home from work every day, but with someone else on the way. I sat on the back of my bicycle and walked for a while, passing by a nearby park, and suddenly I had a very familiar feeling, which I had when I was very young, when my father took me on a bicycle on a field road to the hospital to see a doctor. The bike was steady, slow, with both arms holding on to the handlebars, and now my boyfriend was taking me down the city road home for dinner.
It makes me feel the same way that the cyclist is my mountain, my dependence. It was this moment on the way home that strengthened my confidence. I feel that he will devote all his energy to building our family, and I believe in him, and he deserves my life.
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