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Zhang Qiang and his wife, who come from the countryside, are a prime example of how they can change their fate by studying. At that time, the two had excellent grades and were admitted to a prestigious university in a big city. After graduating, both stayed in their big cities.
Strangely, Zhang Qiang and his wife are both acute children, but their six-year-old child is not like them at all. On the contrary, children are slow and leisurely, and their style of speaking and doing things is more like that of older people. It turned out that Zhang Qiang and his wife were busy with work, so after having a child, they asked their grandmother to come over to help take care of the baby.
Why is whoever has more children like whom? Because according to scientific research, before the age of three is a critical period for the development of a child's personality.
During this time, the child learns a lot about personality traits and how things happened from the people around them. Therefore, whoever brings more, the child will learn more from whom, of course, will be more like whom.
Many people around me feel the same way. Children brought up by grandparents and children brought up by their parents are not at all the same person. This is because the temperament and living habits of the elderly are very different from those of young parents, so they will be very different in terms of bringing up a baby.
Because of this, many children brought up by older people do have certain characteristics of the elderly in various aspects. Some parents have a lot of opinions about this, complaining that their children are not like themselves, and even have some problems. In fact, there are two main factors that parents must seriously consider when it comes to raising children.
1. Raising children requires considerable educational knowledge, and some elderly people are lacking.
With the development of the times, we pay more and more attention to children's education, and the future social competition is becoming more and more fierce, and the requirements for talents are getting higher and higher. Therefore, it is true that the standard should be raised when it comes to bringing a baby. According to expert research, at least those who take care of children must have a certain level of educational knowledge and cannot mislead children with outdated and backward ideas.
Otherwise, it will be troublesome to grow up in the future, and the older you get, the more difficult it will be to correct.
Some parents also pointed out that some elderly people are influenced by the concept of preference for sons over daughters or some traditional customs in their hometowns, which leads them to spoil their children too much, give them whatever they want, and finally raise bear children.
Second, many parents are in charge of the shopkeeper and fail to fulfill their responsibilities with their children.
But then again, parents are the first responsible for their children's education. After giving birth to a child, you must teach him well, and you can't throw it to the old man, not only is he not grateful, but he also dislikes the old man for not bringing it well.
Of course, it's understandable to be busy at work, but it's always okay to take a little time out of your day or week to spend with your children. At this time, parents should communicate well with their children. According to scientific research, every parent dedicates more than half an hour a day to accompany their children wholeheartedly in order for them to grow up healthy and strong.
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This is indeed true. Because babies before the age of three will have a similar personality to the person who brings them, and they will also have similar living habits.
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Fake, unreasonable. I think who a child looks like should have something to do with genetics and how long he lives with whom.
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There is a certain reasonableness, because the child's imitation learning ability is very strong, and whoever follows for a long time will imitate the person's character.
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This statement is true. Because before the child's age of three is a stage of character formation. And whoever brings the most children will be like whose character they are.
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Yes. Because as the saying goes, when you look old at the age of three, you can see the child's personality by the child's performance at the age of three, so you can really see it at the age of three.
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I think so, it is said that Huai Kuan is three years old and looks small, and it is said that since ancient times, heroes have come out of youth, and a capable person will inevitably show a different side from others when he is very young.
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I don't think it can be, as the child grows up, there may be a lot of trillions of changes, an excellent child will become degenerate, and a child who is not excellent will become very good.
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I don't think so, it's because children at this age are not mentally mature, and it's the result of them learning things.
Three-year-old baby's play, building blocks, mushroom nail boards, puzzles, beads, etc. are very intellectual, but mushroom nail boards and beads should be accompanied by adults. In order to avoid accidental ingestion by the baby and cause injury.
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