What do you think about same sex love?

Your question is indeed very poignant! Love is beautiful, and its definition is heterosexual love as we all know, but it's more troublesome for you to change to the same sex, otherwise how can we classify homosexuality as a wrong sexual orientation? There doesn't seem to be any discussion in Principles of Aesthetics, so your discussion may indeed have a groundbreaking significance.

In addition, I highly respect the ancient Chinese aesthetic theory, which emphasizes a kind of harmonious beauty, that is, the correspondence and encouragement of a series of dialectical and mutually reinforcing categories, such as yin and yang, strength and weakness, rigidity and softness, and taking. Homogeneity cannot metamorphose, so there is no development and new things produced, right? Think about it, if homosexuality is based on qualitative sameness, then one of them does not need to be transgendered, and now transgender people often want to be different from the object of their hearts, what do you say?

Some girls are masculine, and the object she likes happens to be very gentle and coquettish girls, while some boys grow up in a family that is prosperous and yang, and they are very feminine, and he likes boys who are masculine and powerful and have the ability to protect him, I think this should explain the problem.

So from another point of view, the beauty of your same-sex love can actually be the inevitability and rationality of the beauty of the opposite sex anyway, what do you say? As for the topic and theme, how you formulate it is up to you. Think of the great scientist Turing, who really wished he wasn't gay; And look at the writer Bai Xianyong, if he is not gay, it seems difficult for him to write a series of popular gay themes!

I hope to see your unique ** as soon as possible!

If you like him, confess because he already knows you're gay.

I've written many articles, none of which are for friends of the same sex, and as I get in touch with more and more friends of the same sex, I want to write an article about them. The same feelings, after all, are still different, just like the same love, but everyone behaves and does it differently, and problems arise.

A girl's heart lives a boy's personality, a boy's heart lives a girl's delicateness, it is natural to be attracted to people of the same sex, girls are eager to have a man's shoulders, men want to be like a woman's protection and care, and feelings arise because of this. In fact, there is nothing special about the state of talking about feelings, it's just that the person around you is the same gender as you, which is not only out of the world's vision, but also breaks through the traditional concept.

There are any reasons for encountering some cases of the same sex, and there is no difference between them and the problems caused by heterosexuals, but the only thing that cannot be solved is: he is in love with someone else, and he is still of the opposite sex; Many of my friends have asked me what to do? The first thing I said after talking to the person asking for help was:

Is the other person heterosexual? This question can be said to be the key to whether your relationship can continue.

When talking to other friends who have generally lost their feelings, I will ask to be attentive, and the meaning of "attentiveness" is very deep, not what you think: I treat him very carefully, I care very hard to maintain my feelings, I pay attention to his state...This, I think, is not the deepest meaning of intentions. To put it simply, it's true that you love him very much, but your love can be given by others, that is, others can replace it, and others have what you have, so how do you stand out?

That's how you have to find your own path.

And same-sex friends, the same, what you can give, others can also give, the difference is in your goodness, whether he has deep feelings in his heart, the most realistic point, is sexual characteristics. Why do the other person have feelings with the opposite sex? Of course, it's not all for **, but, what the opposite sex gives, you may not be able to give, this is the innate difference.

The advantage of the same sex is that the same sex understands the same sex, can empathize with the same sex the most, and get along much happier. When I walked to the back, I changed my tune, and girls like men were either not confident in themselves, or boys like women didn't trust their other half. Isn't it just in your own heart?

Same-sex relationship problems, in fact, will not be as difficult to deal with as a different **, everyone is the same, are unwilling to adjust their mentality, and change their minds, they all want to tightly grasp the relationship between the two, the smartest way is to be his best friend, like a good sister, good brother, you don't want to start here, it is doomed to all kinds of difficulties and hardships, because you are the same gender as him, his thoughts and feelings, you can understand, but you don't want to be friends with his thoughts and feelings, but in a way he doesn't want to be enemies with him, A heterosexual friend, who does not have such an advantage as you, has become good friends with him. Don't think about how bad your situation is, compared to other friends, your situation is really much better than other friends, it's just that you don't want to accept the reality.

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I have never met or met any friends or classmates with same-sex tendencies before work, so I can say that the world of the same sex is far away from me.

It's not like there are a lot of campuses now, maybe I'm too focused on studying and haven't noticed.

Later, I worked, I wanted to learn English systematically and practice speaking, I went to EF Education, and I came into close contact with some classmates who clearly stated that they were homosexually inclined at EF, but there were still obvious spines on the surface but still deep cabinets and did not recognize them. There are gays, lesbians, and doubles.

A few of my female friends made it clear that they had been to the place where I lived with the same sex, because I lived close to the school at that time, and I lived near the Tianhe Bus Station. EF Education First has many points in Guangzhou, and other points will also go to the channel, not many.

One of the O blood balance especially likes to talk to me about her heart, she has loved a few, each of them is serious, she has a very lack of security, and often confides in me and is entangled. She was in a relationship with one of the long-distance relationships.

The feeling I felt, staring my squint into a lantern eye, was incredible! It's a pity that the other party is very young and double, so he can't give her enough security.

I've never opened the door to this new world, so I've just spied on it at the door. They have a stairwell, and many of my classmates go there to smoke, so I just passed by when I went to the bathroom, and I was still serious about my studies, so I didn't know much.

At that time, I also had someone I liked, but it didn't work, so I had to try to move forward. Rather lack than indiscriminate, until now there are still peonies. Because I have always been thoughtful and cautious, the crush and observation phase is relatively long and slow.

I myself often joke: love is to take advantage of the moonlight to jump.

The two are happy, the probability is really not high, and you really have to cherish it.

In the process of growing up, there have been men and women who have been moved, but girls will be more intense, probably because girls are more gentle and considerate, because I like to be gentle and considerate. But I also like gentle, sensitive and delicate boys, that is, there will be no smell of sweat on the body.

But in the end, that is, I only like the person I like, who is gentle, considerate, delicate and sensitive.

Opposite sex or same-sex I don't think I have much physical rejection, but the distance is always well maintained, I will have men and women to kiss boys, and I also feel this way for girls, so I don't have the kind of girlfriends who can kiss and hug and hug high.

My sense of touch is too sensitive and I can only give it to people I like.

I feel that I am missing someone who knows and loves me, and the appearance of this person will define my sexuality.

It's a bit off topic to say too much. Overall, when I first knew, I was a little surprised and unexpected, and then I slowly understood and understood, well, it is the same as universal heterosexualism, love at first sight, love over time, change of mind, betrayal and hurt, love but not, forbearance and trade-off, and finally love each other in order to achieve positive results.