How do you tell if a man really loves you, let s talk about it?

People are selfish, and if you want others to love you, you have to love yourself more.

The money is given to the woman's management, listen to the woman's opinion, do her best to meet the woman's requirements, will not be tempted by other women, single-minded, responsible, give women a stable sense of security, almost, there is only so much to think about, I have never met this kind of man.

Love has to be given and tolerated.

Wind and rain for a lifetime! Willing to accompany you!

Those who have no money are willing to spend money on you, those who have money and no time are willing to give you time, and those who love face are not ...... for youIsn't that enough to test?

Gives you enough security.

A man who is willing to spend money on you may not love you, and a man who is not willing to spend money on you must not love you!

The man who loves you will quickly change his WeChat name to the one you like because you say that you don't like his WeChat name, without hesitation to talk about the conditions, otherwise it will be hypocritical to you. How can a person who doesn't even want to change his WeChat name for you really love you! I won't get all you have, I accidentally sent a red envelope, I didn't even send 200 yuan, and I didn't transfer money to you and say "baby, buy a few more clothes you like", and I won't be reluctant to spend money on you, otherwise I just fake love you.

The man who really loves you doesn't necessarily say but will do a lot for you, and the man who doesn't love says that he feels sorry for you, and even he himself is touched, but in fact he won't do anything.

Spend money, spend money, spend money, never give up, never leave it, never leave it, it's important to say it three times.

I don't want to spend money on you.

You don't even know my personality and the color I like, do you??

In addition to time, it cannot be proved that a day's love is not love, nor is it a year, and what can be separated is not love, but being together is love.

How can there be true love for a long time. Don't be too naïve and naïve, I've heard that it's always true at first, and then it slowly turns into a fake.

Willing to spend money, I can do what I promised, and I will never let go of your hand and marry you.

will silently remember what you have said inadvertently, and if you are talking about his shortcomings, he will correct them immediately; If you are talking about one of your wishes, he will surprise you at the right time.

It is impossible for someone who truly loves you to care about what his parents, friends, and people close to him say about you, because in his eyes, you are perfect. But he cares a lot about what your family and friends think of him, and he's trying to change their opinion of him. He does this because he thinks he loves you, and he doesn't want to put any pressure on you because of his love.

The man who loves you has always wanted to do something for you, no matter how much it costs him, he will not hesitate to do it. He doesn't ask for anything in return for anything he does for you, because being able to help you do things is his greatest joy in itself.

A man who really loves you, if you ask him why he loves you, he can't say why, because you don't need a reason to love someone, he already loves everything about you, including your strengths and weaknesses. If he can make the reason for loving you very clear, then it proves that his love is conditional and purposeful. Once these conditions are gone, he can walk away without any concern.

There's no reason to love you, there's no reason not to love you! Maybe there are many reasons, too much talk, annoying.

A person who truly loves you will not easily say that he loves you because he values your presence by his side as important. He is worried that once he says he loves you and you don't accept it, he won't be able to be a friend in the end.

If a man really loves you, when you deliberately say that he wants to leave, he will not part with you, and when you really want to leave, he will let you go, even if he is really unwilling to let go. Because he loves you and wants nothing more than your happiness.

I'd rather believe that there are ghosts in the world than in men's mouths. It may be seen from this sentence that women nowadays are quite confused about men's words, and they don't know which words men say are true and which ones are false, especially in love.

He doesn't want to disappoint you, and he doesn't want you to doubt his character. Your happiness is important to him, but he will never try to please you in order to make you happy.

Transparent in front of you, he will tell you everything about him without reservation, including his successes and failures, joys and helplessness. He will take you to meet all his friends and will proudly introduce me to his friends and colleagues. He wants you to be in his social circle.

Willing to spend time for you, willing to spend money for you, will tolerate your willfulness, he will want to participate in your life to help you solve it, and things you don't like will be introduced to chat with you.

Look at this man's attitude towards you, look at your eyes, whether he will take you home, whether he will introduce you to friends, whether he is particularly good to you, so that the judgment is more accurate.

If a man really loves you, he will be willing to give you a lot of things, will not make you unhappy, will also back down when quarreling, and will care about your feelings.

This is your own feeling, if you are already an adult, you can feel whether he really loves you Hui Shen Sui, for example, I am willing to spend money on you, I am willing to spend more time with you, I am willing to make you happy, I am willing to take care of you, etc.

The real relationship is that two people are together, there must be a feeling, a sense of intimacy, men can not be handsome, women can not be beautiful, but each other Kira looks pleasing to the eye, and feels cordial to each other, just like family, in front of each other, they can completely relax, willing to open their hearts, willing to expose their vulnerability.

01 I care about the other person getting too close to others.

will care about the other party getting too close to other members of the opposite sex, and then he will also write jealousy on his face, this is the possessiveness of the lover, I don't want the other party to chat with other members of the opposite sex, and I will also be afraid that the other party will run away with others. It's just that I'm jealous when I care about it.,It's probably painful and happy.。

02 Appreciate and motivate each other.

On the road of love between two people, it will always be full of pure positive energy, originally a person is moving forward aimlessly, after meeting the other half, he began to have a goal in life, instead of becoming decadent together, two people who really want to live a better life can feel the pressure of life, so they also know how to work harder.

He shows caring, supportive, and understanding: He is able to show genuine caring, support, and understanding when I experience challenges, anxiety, or difficulties.

I feel warm and respected when he is willing to put time and energy into his daily life to help the family with certain tasks, prepare certain things, or plan certain arrangements.

He gives surprises or gifts: Giving unexpected surprises or thoughtful gifts is one of the Fangzhen clan styles to express love. These small gestures can make me feel loved and cherished from the bottom of my heart.

He listens and builds good communication: Building good communication is the cornerstone of a good relationship.

He listened to me, showed genuine interest and shared his feelings and thoughts with me, making me feel understood and accepted.

He puts energy into relationships: Building and maintaining a healthy and beautiful relationship requires an investment of energy and time, which makes me feel extremely happy and fulfilled.

From the tens of thousands of cases I have consulted, I have summarized 3 types of men who pretend to love you, you must be careful.

Clause. 1. A man who is in control.

They often say, "You can't live without me."

He will make you feel very pampered at first, he will arrange everything for you, you will eat, wear, and use him, and you will feel that he loves you more than anyone else. In fact, the reason why I do so much for you is so that you can never leave him. So slowly, you will feel more and more suffocated, because you have to live according to his will, and eventually you will feel like a canary locked in a cage and just want to escape.

Clause. Second, exempt men.

At the beginning of the relationship, they will tell you clearly that there is something wrong with my family of origin or that I have been hurt by my ex and am sensitive to feelings, so I can't promise you a future.

If you have a love brain attack and hear a man so honest, instead of wanting to run, your heart is stimulated, and you try to warm up this ice cube through your own body heat.

But it turns out that they are just giving themselves an exemption clause, and their biggest problem is that they don't want to pay for anyone, because they are simply disheartened and don't believe that others will really love him, and he doesn't have the energy to love others. They are only capable of running a short-term relationship.

Clause. Second, the calculating man.

They often say a sentence, why, such a man is like a calculator, when looking for a partner, there will be a lot of criteria, appearance, education, family background, background, career, savings, age, height, personality, constellation, etc.

Living with such a man is like buying vegetables in the vegetable market, always calculating and bargaining.

They seem to be born with a characteristic that they are afraid that they will suffer losses and be taken advantage of by you.

Finally, I would like to remind you that as the saying goes, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time. The 3 types of men I just mentioned may have shown a lot of love to you at the beginning, but after getting along for a long time, they slowly revealed their true nature. So you have to give the relationship a period of time to go through the test and keep the false from the true.

Also, you must not be naïve enough to think that you can change him, but you can't. What you can change is your choice, in the world of feelings, everyone must remember a sentence: choice is more important than hard work.

Of course, it can be seen from the surrounding examples that he still has a considerable impact on you, after all, it is the past, and it will also make you have some good memories. We always think of our ex when we start a new relationship, so will the ex affect your criteria for choosing a mate? In fact, the ex will more or less affect his mate selection criteria, especially those who have been hurt by the ex.

The ex is a past that cannot be mentioned for everyone, if you can, please don't miss that failed relationship too much, let yourself withdraw as soon as possible, and naturally there will be a different life.

To experience a good relationship, unless you are particularly lucky, you must be prepared for psychological growth, because many people, the first love is ignorant and naïve, and they often become the one who feels hurt.

For example, as the relationship develops, your expectations of the relationship may be inconsistent, which can also become contradictory**. Some people feel that their other half is perfect at first, and they also want to have a beautiful relationship in their fantasy, but after experiencing many conflicts and even breaking up.

It is reasonable that his expectations for the next relationship will be much lower. Sometimes when you meet an ex who is not good to you, you can also make yourself more vigilant, knowing that no matter what, you should not be too centered on your own feelings, and sometimes reasonable doubts will make you more able to grasp happiness.