What is family affection and mutual assistance, and should brothers help each other?

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Mutual aid groups, family and mutual support.

Although you are not at home, I am not afraid, and the support group makes me no longer helpless; Although you are not at home, I am not alone, and the support group is harmonious and warm......These are the heartfelt words of the members of the left-behind women's mutual aid group in Tuchengzi Village, Xiqiao Town, Karaqin Banner.

Tuchengzi Village is an administrative village in Xiqiao Town, with a population of 3,520 people and a per capita cultivated land of just over two acres. In recent years, the export of labor services has become the main pillar of the village's economic income, and more people have gone out and peasants' incomes have increased. However, with this, there are more women left at home, the burden on their shoulders is heavier, the smile on their faces is lighter, and there are more helpless tears.

In the face of practical difficulties in production and life, a group of women led by villager Chen Caiyun came together to form the first left-behind women's mutual aid group in Tuchengzi Village.

Chen Caiyun: [There are 10 little sisters in our group, and our husbands are not at home, so the burden of the family is on us. When I was working, I called these sisters together, chattered while working, and said some interesting things, so I felt that I was not tired from working, I was very happy, and my life was also enjoyable.

Spring planting, summer ploughing and autumn harvesting, heavy agricultural production has made the left-behind women busy and dizzy in the past. This year, the members of the mutual aid group have formulated a detailed joint farming plan according to the actual situation of each family, and help each other. Working together makes farming no longer a simple manual labor, and it also becomes a carrier of emotional relief and a platform for resolving loneliness.

Chen Caiyun's husband, Bi Mingguang, rushes home every year during the autumn harvest to help the family harvest the crops. When I came back this year, I saw that the autumn harvest was over: [Since I have a mutual aid group at home, I am relieved to work outside and don't have to worry about my family all day.] ]

Mutual aid group activities are usually held in the evening, and the location is also nearby, sometimes at the village committee, sometimes at the home of the group members. The content of the activities is determined by the group members, from production and labor, to children's education, beauty knowledge, etc., which are always changing. Every time there is a slack season, everyone will discuss the way to make a fortune, you say an idea, I say a message, and gradually the goal will be clear.

Villager Liu Xiumei wanted to open a clothing store, but the money was not enough, and as soon as she told everyone, the sisters collectively went to the credit union to guarantee and borrowed 20,000 yuan for her. ]

Driven by Chen Caiyun's left-behind women's mutual aid group, mutual aid groups are now blooming everywhere in Tuchengzi Village. Zhang Guojing, director of the Tuchengzi Village Women's Congress: [There are more than 900 left-behind women in Tuchengzi Village, and according to the actual situation, we have formed 8 left-behind women's mutual aid groups.

Every month, carry out a concentrated activity, let these sisters sit together, talk about their hearts, learn some scientific planting knowledge, exchange feelings, the sisters' mood is comfortable, so that the husband is not at home, less lonely, less lonely, more happy. Wang Zhongge.

To put it simply, it is to use your heart to warm the hearts of others.

Logically speaking, of course, a family should help each other, but the reality is very complicated, and sometimes relatives are not as good as strangers. When family members are in trouble, I think I should help if I can. Of course, it also depends on what the difficulties encountered by family members, if it is the difficulties caused by the lack of some emergencies in life, it must be helped, but if it is an individual who spends ahead of time or overspends regardless of his economic strength, then these are necessary to have restraint to remind him.

In fact, as a family, especially siblings together, it must be to support each other, discuss with each other, if there is a sudden emergency situation among family members, such as some big things or to purchase some large items, then as other members of the family should also take the initiative to help, after all, a person lives in the world, more or rely on relatives and friends around him, especially his siblings. Only when everyone is filial piety and shouts that the cover is really good together will they be happier and happy, otherwise the conditions of the family are too different, and if they have dinner together, it may also seem a little embarrassing. Therefore, if your siblings encounter difficulties in life, especially financially, then you will definitely do your best to help them tide over the difficulties if you can, or you will try your best to improve their lives.

I don't know if you're in your own house or at your mother-in-law's house.

I think the family should be able to help. First of all, as a family, there is a sense of security, whenever there is a difficulty, the family sits down to discuss, "three stinkers top Zhuge Liang" all problems can be easily solved.

Family affection is that the family thinks about it, and when you encounter something, you will discuss it together, and sit down to eat together during the New Year's holidays. Family affection is a family mutual understanding and tolerance, mutual tolerance and accommodation, only think of everyone, in order to make the family harmonious, then this big family will live happily and prosperously.

Since our business has not been going well in the past two years, there is a problem with funds, and I am worried about this matter every day, at this time, it is my two younger brothers who came out to give me financial and moral support, so that we have the confidence to get out of the predicament.

Family affection is a field, plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans. Understanding is sown, tolerance is reaped; planted understanding, reaped harmony with Changcha; planted pickiness and grew complaints; Accusations were sown, and banes grew.

Family affection is to always lend a helping hand when there are difficulties; With the same thing in my heart, if I am in trouble, I can always help in time. You don't need to say a lot of good Wu Tong words, you don't have to make a lot of effort, you are sincerely helping yourself, and you are really looking forward to your own well!

I think that a family should be able to help and help, a family is related by blood, don't expect others to help if your family doesn't help, and your family should do what you can to help your brothers and sisters.

So, how can a family help each other?

Clause. 1. Help to the point.

It is said that blood is thicker than water, and relatives must help each other to have a better relationship. To help the idea, one party should observe carefully to see what difficulties the other party has encountered and how to help him to really solve the problem. It is necessary to have a comprehensive understanding, and you can't help with kindness.

The first day is noisy. Second, let the other party feel your sincerity in helping.

Between relatives, look down and don't look up, especially men, good face. If you offer him help, be sure to be sincere, try to take care of his face, and keep your posture low.

In short, in this life, people will always encounter big and small things, and sometimes they also need the help of others, especially the help of relatives. Maybe one of your gestures can make someone else's life. Give people roses, and leave a lingering fragrance in your hands. If you help your loved ones, you will feel happy.