If a relationship is destined to be long distance before it starts, will it still start?

Updated on society 2024-05-10
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't, the future is too uncertain.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    We're the same.,I'm depressed.。。。

    I don't know what to do when I go back...

    If both parties have an emotional foundation, then you can try, if it is irrelevant, then forget it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you love, love deeply.

    If you don't want to love, don't start.

    Since you are here to ask, it means that you are very distressed.

    Calm down and think about it, if you start, what results can it bring you, and what results can it bring you if you don't start, many things have to be solved by yourself, and others can't help you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it is sincere, no matter how far away it is, it is equivalent to being around, and no matter how long the difference is, it is instantaneous;

    If you don't have the intention, you will be on the edge of the cape in front of you, and a second is too long;

    The landlord has already had feelings when he asks like this, if he is an emotionless person, why does the landlord ask?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you like it to a certain extent, you will start.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If there is fate, thousands of mountains and rivers will eventually meet.

    If you don't have a chance, it's close at hand, and it's in vain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Distance. Produce beauty?

    Distance Produces distance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not that you can't take people. It's no way to take the distance..

    It is recommended to scatter.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Who is saying that distance produces beauty.

    I p him. Relying on people is fickle.

    The distance is followed by the farther distance.

    Separation is a matter of time.

    With its painful lovesickness.

    It's better to break off happily than to be good for everyone.

    Forever and forever only on **.

    The earth is just a lover's promise.

    Once separated in many promises it is also in vain.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're so lucky to have someone you like and a goal. I didn't. Alas.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm also suffering from similar problems as you, so it's better to be selfish and give yourself a place to retreat.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is love between you, what is distance, distance produces beauty.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm the same as you, and maybe I'm more than two years, but I'm very happy, this kind of thing varies from person to person, no one can give an answer, it all depends on fate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Playing ambiguous with you is destined to be no fun.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Being in love is a beautiful thing that can bring us happiness and joy. But sometimes, we will also know that this relationship will not last long, but we will still choose to fall in love. In this case, how should we face this relationship, is it worth trying?

    First of all, we need to understand why we are in this relationship. Is it because of loneliness, wanting someone to accompany you, or because of your liking and love for each other. If you just fall in love because of loneliness, then such a relationship is meaningless, and it will only make you more lost.

    However, if it's because of the liking and love for the other person, it's worth trying even knowing that you'll end up breaking up.

    Second, we need to be clear about our own position and the other person's position and ideas. Before starting a relationship, we need to have a clear understanding of the other person's views and expectations of the relationship, as well as our own attitudes and thoughts about the relationship. If the other party also makes it clear that he only wants a short-term relationship, then we Senchang need to seriously consider whether we can accept such conditions.

    Finally, we need to have a clear understanding of our bottom line and patience. Before talking about such a relationship that we know we are going to break up, we need to clearly understand our bottom line and patience. If the other person has done something beyond their bottom line in a relationship, we need to end the relationship decisively to avoid hurting ourselves.

    In summary, having a relationship that you know you're going to break up is not something you don't want to try at all. If we can clearly understand our position and thoughts with each other, and be clear about our bottom line and patience, then even if we finally break up, we can get some good memories and experiences in this relationship. However, before starting such a relationship, we need to think carefully and weigh it to avoid being hurt too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no need to persist in a love that has no results, because there are rational people in our society, and some things are clearly known to have no good results, so don't fight for them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's best not to start, since you are destined to break up, don't dwell on it anymore, so as not to hurt yourself and the other party and cause unnecessary trouble.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Now that I have seen that love is fruitless, I personally think that there is no need for everyone to waste each other's feelings and waste each other's time. If it ends early, there will be a lot of emotional entanglements in the later stage.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I think it is necessary, and I don't mean to be a hooligan, I just think that don't leave regrets for yourself, give each other a chance to have a memory and a relationship, and make yourself more mature and stable, which will be of great help to your future life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no need, instead of two people being together in pain, it is better to cut off this thought as soon as possible and start a new life as soon as possible.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it's all doomed to be fruitless, why start it? It's better to be chic and let it go! There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, go and find a person who is suitable for you!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Not necessarily, some people don't want to miss every relationship, and a love that is destined to be fruitless is not something that cannot be changed, what can't be started.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When you know that a relationship has no results, you have no heart for yourself. It's very difficult to look at the person in front of you who makes you let go of the person in front of you, but if you think about it, if you don't let it go now, you may suddenly figure it out when you want to let go in the future. If I meet another person in my life, I think it is very difficult to tell her all the secrets that I don't want others to know, and let the relationship between two people reach a level that others can't reach.

    So while you can still accept these things, you have to do them as soon as possible.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm going to keep going. Because I think that if I work hard, I won't let myself have regrets.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A love affair if it doesn't work out. Then I'll give up, because I can't wait, I can't bear it all the time, I have to fight back and be flexible.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Actually, I still want to continue, because if I'm very happy now, it's okay, and one step at a time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's going to be separated. When two people choose a foreign relationship, they may be full of confidence or helpless, but the final result is unsatisfactory. If life can choose its own character setting, who would choose long-distance love?

    In a long-distance relationship, distance is the biggest problem.

    As an extra-emotional person, whether it is a family member or a friend, when you hear that someone is in a long-distance relationship, you will have more or less persuasive thoughts. The first is that I don't believe that anyone is willing to wait, and the second is that I start to say something that the speaker has no intention of listening to. And these can be reasons to break up.

    Long-distance love can easily amplify small emotions. Especially these casual words of others, it is very likely to cause you to lose your temper inexplicably, making the other party at a distance feel wronged. Even if you are in a long-distance relationship, you may have sad and unhappy moments.

    What kind of relationship will be sweet every day without quarrels? Especially long-distance love, you can't kiss or hug, and there is a time difference.

    I don't care if you're happy or not, "think" that you should find a better one by your side, persuade you to break up, and make you sad. Boys who lack love experience often make girls angry unconsciously because they don't understand the needs of girls. Coupled with the hindrance of long-distance relationships to communication, improper conflict handling leads girls to feel more strongly that boys "don't understand themselves" and "don't love each other" and then break up.

    I've seen a lot of cases where I can't say what useful advice I can give about their long-distance relationship, but the premise of my reply is always that you are happy, and the most important thing is to be happy. In a relationship, whether you are happy or not, whether you are wronged or not, others will never be as clear as yourself. If it is really not a love affair that can lead to marriage, it is useless to persuade others more.

    I always wait until a moment when my heart dies before I let go.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Long-distance love is not destined to separate.

    Some people say that the truest portrayal of a long-distance relationship is probably that it rains in the city where you live, and I want to ask if you have an umbrella. But I held back. Because I'm afraid that you won't bring it, and I can't do anything about it.

    In the flowery world of love, long-distance love seems to be a more poignant word than a single dog, full of gentle words, **worthy of the warmth of a real embrace.

    Most of the love in the world can't reach the distance, many people believe in this sentence, saying that they should stay together for a long time, and in the end they must go their separate ways, just like yesterday in the elevator. I heard that a girl was calling her long-distance boyfriend, and another girl was muttering to her next to her, long-distance relationship still takes less energy, and sooner or later they will break up anyway.

    In the cognition of ordinary people, love is inherently suspicious, not to mention the insurmountable distance, it is indeed very abrasive - but have you ever thought that the fragility of love depends entirely on whether you are firm or not to each other, whether the other party is 3000 kilometers away, or every day with you as the center of the 5-meter range, unfirm and distrustful love will not go far.

    Instead of attributing all the responsibilities to a different place, it is better to take a good look at your own problems, if you don't love, you don't love, why make any excuses, the long place is never the reason for the end of a relationship, the really right people, even if the distance is far, will choose to trust each other, support each other, be the guiding light in each other's spiritual world, love needs companionship, not only you are by my side.

    Therefore, whether a long-distance relationship has a result or not is not in the distance, but in the person. In fact, many times long-distance relationships are a last resort. Who doesn't want to be by each other's side, who doesn't want to wake up and see each other's sweet sleeping face, but since they are already in a different place and want to fall in love, they must work hard.

    If both parties are working hard for the future blueprint with each other, there is a determination to be together against all odds. Then the other place is just a short stretch of muddy land on this road.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, you have to learn how to maintain a long-distance relationship.

    1. Trust each other.

    Trust is very important for love to keep it fresh. Low self-esteem and lack of trust can hurt your perfect love. A long-distance relationship gives each other room for reverie, but at the same time, it also makes the other party insecure and suspicious, and the love slowly dissolves.

    Trust is the embodiment of mutual respect and equality between lovers, and building a bridge of trust is the most effective way to consolidate a long-distance relationship. And love that lacks trust will only become vulnerable in mutual suspicion.

    2. Both sides have the same goal.

    A long-distance relationship should lock in a goal, and the ultimate goal of a long-distance relationship is to create the same conditions for life. This is very important, some relationships can't be managed, only two people have the same goal, and management is the communication between two people, not a person's bitter unrequited love.

    3. Cherish dating interactions.

    When you go on a date or communicate with the other person**, plan your next date with great interest and let the excitement and anticipation surround you. Based on the heart of love dedication, just add a little love details, and the feelings can always be fresh and desirable. By completing the date, the two can achieve perfect interaction and alleviate a little lovesickness.

    In the process of dating, you can also make yourself grow.

    4. Never guess or doubt.

    Never speculate about how your partner feels about you and then vent your emotions. Guessing will kill your love, and clear conversation and communication will keep your love fresh.

    5. Understand free space.

    Whether he is right or wrong, we must give support and opinions, tolerate and understand the mistakes he has made, and do not blindly complain and blame. Give him free space and don't let him feel like marriage is a bondage.

    6. Learn to endure loneliness.

    Long-distance relationships wait longer than companionship, both of them have to endure loneliness, endure the cold without hugging, and endure the anxiety that can only count down every day. But a long-distance relationship is a race against time, and if you are defeated by time, you will miss that person.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, as long as both parties can hold on, I believe that in the end love will blossom and bear fruit. Only those who can't hold on may be separated, in fact, the traffic is very convenient now, and distance is not a reason to separate.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The final result is not destined to separate, long-distance love is a real test of the love of both parties, maybe when you really meet the right person, all the hardships are worth it, and the future is destined to give sweet returns.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not necessarily, if both parties love each other enough and stick to being together, love can still blossom and bear fruit.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you want to be together, you will definitely not, both of you are working towards the portrayed future, the distance will gradually shorten, and the relationship between the two people will be deeper in the process.

    Because distance produces beauty, keeping a little distance appropriately will make the two people full of freshness, so that it is not easy to consume feelings, but in this process, we must communicate more to avoid misunderstandings.

    Whether a long-distance relationship is separated depends on the needs of two people to be together. If the needs of both parties together are to warm each other and solve loneliness. Well, destined to separate. If both sides have a long-term plan, a greater ideal. Distance is not an issue.

    A lot of long-distance lovers have not broken up, but the distance back and forth is not convenient at their own doorstep, but it can't stop the desire in my heart, I can go to his and her place every once in a while, miss each other, love each other, so I can't worry about it.

    Regardless of whether the boy or the girl discusses going to the girl's or boy's place, so that they can be together every day, and they also avoid the pain of lovesickness, I want people who really love each other, they don't care about long-distance relationships, if they care, then they still don't love deep enough, they have a lot of concerns, and there are many excuses, as long as the family does not object, they will overcome the contradictions in their hearts and be brave together.

    Talking about love is too far away for me, it's a thing of the past. Love is when two people appreciate and attract each other, and when they see the advantages of both parties and are often together, there is nothing inseparable, and they never give up.

    It's hard to say from a distance, people have feelings, although now in the era of communication and networking, it is fatal to fall in love. The two have limited time to meet, can't see people, and can't grasp the inner world. The distance is far away, the relationship is long, and it is only a matter of time before outsiders break up.

    It depends on the relationship between the two people. If you really love each other, you will never be separated.

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