Do you consider yourself a more popular person?

I don't think so. On the one hand, I belong to the slow-burning type, I will only play with those friends who have been with me for a long time, and I don't take the initiative, as long as others don't play with me, I hide in my own small world and don't play with him. On the other hand, I feel that I lack talking and chatting skills, and I don't know how to comfort others when my friends are sad, and I only know how to solve it with companionship.

So I feel that I have no sense of existence in the crowd, and sometimes the more people I feel, the more lonely I feel, the more unsociable I look.

I think there are generally two kinds of popular people: one is valuable and can help others; On the other hand, it is a person who has a pleasing appearance and takes the initiative to communicate with others. For the first type, it is also very common in life, like two friends around me are like this, one is a top student, especially when the final exam is bonus, there will be many classmates to borrow a note, borrow a key point, and ask some questions about learning.

The other is that she knows everything and can give some useful ideas when appropriate, so there are some people who like to come to her to talk about something, which is more popular. In fact, the fact is also the case, the friendship between people is also established in the back and forth between you helping him and helping you, if you want to be welcomed by everyone, to be loved by everyone, you must have value, you must be useful, a bad sentence to describe: others want to use you, you must also have something worth using.

The second one, I can't say anything, after all, people are born with an undeniable advantage, just like those beautiful women with good looks will be approached even if they are cold.

Although he knows his own shortcomings, his slow-burning personality is not easy to change, so he can only slowly adjust himself, slowly enrich himself, and make himself a capable and powerful person, more hoping that others can see what he does rather than what others say.

1. I am a more helpful person. Everyone knows that I am helpful, and helping everyone is also helping themselves and making progress together, so I have helped many people improve their grades, and they also expressed their gratitude, and they will not take some knowledge for themselves like some people.

2 Personally, I am more humorous and funny, and I am more gregarious. I love to learn, but I don't just study, I will participate in class activities such as tug-of-war, basketball games, etc., and entertaining activities to barbecue KTV, etc. are also very crazy and hilarious, I think when studying must have a learning attitude, work when there is seriousness at work, play must also be fun, let others also have fun, at home when I go out with classmates in the class I will tell jokes from time to time to ease the atmosphere. Because I think that people live in this world to be happy, and isn't it better to make others happy when they are happy?

Then people will meet all kinds of people in society, everyone has their own characteristics, don't force others to live according to their own way of thinking, but you can blend in with others and make yourself gregarious, and I am the same, so it is more popular.

3 I am a good listener and a good suggestor. Actually, I don't think it's a matter of saying that I'm popular, but that's what my friends do. My friends have any worries or troubles I like to talk to me, and I will listen patiently, and analyze whether it is right or wrong, what solutions can be taken, and more often in the position of friends for her consideration, so I have received more praise in this area.

In fact, it is not difficult to be a popular person, as long as your three views are correct enough, the world view is correct, and you can become a popular person by comparing your heart to your heart, and consider it for others in the position of others.

1. What kind of species are humans?

Humans are social species, what is the biggest difference between us and other social species? We've got very developed brains, we've got very rich language, as a tool to capture opportunities to collaborate with people anytime, anywhere, and we've done somebody a favor, and we've invested a little bit more in them and they've built up a little bit more trust with them, and our instinctive impulse is to help them a little bit more, which is often overlooked. We produce a product that I respect you, and under such a mechanism, under such a market, we can exchange.

Reciprocity is one of the instinctive human impulses.

2. Life is an infinite game.

For us, it's not about success or failure, it's about moving life into the game of life, because we never know who can help us when it comes to expanding the world.

3. Lost people and gaffes.

It is possible to lose people with words but not with words.

Don't talk about it.

4. How to show respect to a person?

1. Be sure to express sincerity in person;

Show respect for a specific person, always in person.

2. Treat others equally to express their respect;

Ignore social resources and identity backgrounds, and treat everyone fairly and justly.

If you want to make a friend, ask him for a small favor.

After a small favor is done by a person, they will be more willing to do you a bigger favor.

Example: The sales trilogy of the vacuum cleaner sales champion.

a. Hello wife, I happened to pass by;

b. Your garden is well tied;

c. I happen to be thirsty, can you please do me a favor and give me a glass of water?

5. To whom can a person never forgive?

Not a person who had a conflict of interest with him, not someone who had beaten him and scolded him, not someone who didn't like him, but someone who despised him. Never disrespect or overtly despise a person, because he will never forgive you.

6. Everyone has a need to be liked.

If you want others to do to you, the best way is to take the initiative to do to others first.

7. Force yourself to make 3 moves.

a. Design environment;

b. Seek supervision;

c. Uncertain feedback;

d. Choose a career with endless promotion.

For example: doctors, cooks.

1. Integrity, with clear criteria for judging right and wrong. Integrity is the most basic moral quality, and an upright person has his own halo and is respected in the group. Because of this respect, most people are willing to associate with him and hope that he will "do justice" at some point.

And those "good old people" who are submissive and have no position seem to offend people on the surface, but in fact they are not popular.

2. Professional, with a high level of business. A master in the business, showing a talent that is different. The admiration of his colleagues will also be converted into liking. Colleagues may need to learn from him, ask him for advice, or become dependent on him for his business skills.

3. Enthusiastic and willing to help others. This type of person is good at observing the needs of colleagues, enthusiastic, proactive, dedicated, and willing to provide help to others as much as they can. Whoever doesn't like the "Bushu enthusiast" may be able to help himself one day.

Fourth, humor, bring quick and bad fun to the group. Humor is actually an ability, which depends on the activity and resourcefulness of the person's thinking. An action can bring a burst of laughter when everyone is tired, and in a word, it can resolve the embarrassment caused by colleagues' mistakes.

People with a sense of humor are charismatic and approachable.

5. Listen and know how to pay attention to the hearts of others. Listening makes the other party feel valued, and people who are good at listening must also be good at communicating. Grasp the scale, listen to the ideas of colleagues, pay attention to the hearts of each other, and give rational analysis and suggestions.

This kind of person is called a "warm-hearted person" by his colleagues.

6. Tolerance, being able to face the shortcomings of others correctly. Everyone will have shortcomings, a tolerant person, with a very big heart, does not care about trivial things, is good at understanding others, and gives the impression of being reliable and safe.

All in all, the above are the most popular people in the author's opinion, and with the above conditions, I am sure that you will become more popular as well.

1. Decent appearance, appropriate words and deeds. A clean and upright appearance will give a good impression.

2. Be polite and polite, which is the basic cultivation of life. Rude people are not welcome.

3. Seehong is steady, and strives to do the best in any problem; Have a calm attitude.

4. Give more praise to others, say more good things, and handle interpersonal relationships well.

5. Maintain a modest and cautious style of searching and shouting, be modest, and express yourself appropriately; Boast less about yourself.

6. Be a successful person. Career success and financial abundance are always important factors in a person's popularity.

Summary. More understanding, more tolerant, more encouraging, praise, easy to mingle with everyone is more popular, on the contrary, always say slanderous words about others, selfish, unwilling to give people are annoying. Getting along with others is a relatively deep knowledge, first of all, we are sincere to people, sincere for sincere.

Self-righteous people are the least popular, and kind, honest people are the most popular. Also, optimistic, cheerful and easy-going people are the most popular, and selfish, narrow-minded, withdrawn and arrogant are the least popular!

What kind of people are popular and what kind of people are not?

Good evening, what is your situation and what problems are you experiencing.

More understanding, more tolerant, more encouraging, praise, easy to mingle with everyone is more popular, on the contrary, always say slanderous words about others, selfish, unwilling to give people are annoying. Getting along with others is a relatively deep knowledge, first of all, we are sincere to people, sincere for sincere. Self-righteous people are the least popular, and kind, honest people are the most popular.

Also, optimistic, cheerful and easy-going people are the most popular, and selfish, narrow-minded, withdrawn and arrogant are the least popular!

Summary. Kiss, because only by being a popular person can you be easily accepted by society.

Kiss, because only by being a popular person can you be easily accepted by society.

So as to get better support and favorable conditions from the society.

Secondly, popular people are more conducive to a success. Third, to be a popular person is to live a more fulfilling and happier life, everyone will need to reflect their own value through the recognition of others, a person who is happy to welcome the lead and welcome the ant luck can feel the value of self-boring, feel more fulfilled and happy. Popularity is very important for personal development, and popularity is very closely related to personal cultivation.

Therefore, we should strive to improve our personal cultivation and cultivate sincerity, friendliness, and civilized morality.