The girl is very easy to chase, if you resist at the beginning, it s basically no fun? 50

Hello, this friend gave you a question, let me tell you my opinion.

Girls are more shy and reserved in pursuit of the first place, and in the case of boys chasing, there are two possibilities if you start to choose to escape this way.

First, she wants to test you to see if you can persevere, if you are determined and sincere. In this way, she will judge whether the person she will follow in the future will be good to her, if this is the case, there is no doubt that persistence is victory.

The second point is that she doesn't like you very much, and you can't immediately conclude that she doesn't like it at all, maybe she has her own ideas about life, or feels that it is not suitable for a partner or marriage now, and has more life pursuits. When my aunt joked that I would marry her to you, she laughed, which does not mean that she acquiesces, but that it is not good to say anything too straightforward and explicit in front of the elders.

If you really like her, it is advisable to be bold and confess, and then ask her what she thinks and concerns to see if you can provide what she wants. For the person you really like, my advice is not to give up easily, and avoid regrets in the future.

It's too tight...

You can be ordinary friends with her first and cultivate a relationship. She's not in a hurry to get married, you can pretend that you've found a girlfriend to get married, and if she's interested in you, she'll make a statement.

It feels like you messed up at the beginning, most of the girls are in love for a long time, not to mention this kind of girl who has some ideas of her own, you shouldn't tell her that she is not young, she should marry or something, now it seems that you are imprisoned for her, even if she wants to talk to you about friends first, she doesn't dare to take her time, be a friend first.

You find a way to approach him and ask him what he thinks. Explain what you think. Hope.

You're pushing too hard. Give her some space.

You look like she wants to do something to someone else if she doesn't agree to marry you.

Everybody has to run.

When a boy is chasing a girl, he is actually testing the girl's heart, so during this time, he always has expectations in his heart and is afraid that he will be rejected. Some girls may not be able to say no directly out of thin face, but some actions have already shown their thoughts. When a boy is chasing a girl, if he finds that the girl usually replies to messages very slowly, and the messages are very short, the tone is not very kind, and she is always impatient, and she is always expressionless when she goes out on a date with you, it means that the two of them are basically no play.

Slow to reply to messages. In today's society, everyone basically keeps their mobile phones in their hands, and it's like they can't see information for a while, and it's impossible to not see information every time. If the boy finds that the girl usually replies to messages very slowly in the process of chasing girls, and the messages returned are basically one or two words, there is no interest in asking, what to answer, and will not take the initiative to find a topic, it means that this girl has no interest in you, and it is difficult to succeed in chasing again.

Observe the girl's tone. In the process of chasing the girl, the boy found that the girl's tone of voice was very gentle, and it was normal to chat with you, and if the word count was not bad, it means that the girl at least did not reject you. But if the tone of conversation with you is always not too annoying, and she always wants to escape and refuse your date request as much as possible, it means that this girl has no feelings for you and does not want to continue.

Boys should also be interesting at this time, and they should retreat from the difficulties. <>

When dating, if the guy finds that the girl is always coquettish in front of you, or joking with you, it means that the girl at least has a good impression of you, and the two of them may be able to go further, because the girl will only play a tantrum in front of the people she trusts. If this girl doesn't care about anything when dating, doesn't talk to you, just plays with her mobile phone immediately, the whole process is very boring, and the two people don't have any common topics, it means that the other party is not interested in you.

When pursuing girls, he behaves very pompously, always embarrassing girls, always forcing girls to date or doing something during pursuit, making girls very embarrassed, which will not succeed.

If a girl doesn't want to deal with you at all, will always cheat on you, will always find a way to refuse, doesn't want to go out with you, doesn't want to talk to you, then it means that it can't be successful.

Girls ignore you, don't pay attention to you, don't like you, often avoid you, refuse all your dates, and make it clear that they don't like you.

When I was in college, I chased a girl, but I didn't catch it. At that time, I felt a little embarrassed and embarrassed.

Of course, there is nothing embarrassing about it, I chased many girls in college and didn't catch ......In fact, before I chased this girl again, I made ordinary friends with her based on the principle of understanding each other.

The two of them usually chatted with each other, and during this time, she told me that there was a senior chasing her. I knew that senior, so I used all the "basic deduction methods" I could think of to analyze, from height analysis to body shape, from personality analysis to family environment analysis to future children's education issues. After a few weeks of diligent education and careful observation, I concluded that I had tactically knocked out this competitor.

After making sure that there were no other contenders, I began to launch a general offensive - confession. And then there is the previous story ......And in fact, half a month later, she fell in love with that senior. If you think this is the most embarrassing thing for me, you can't help but underestimate my intimidation.

In fact, after we graduated, we went to the same unit, but in different branches. Not long after, the senior went to another city, and it was really as I analyzed at the time, and the two of them were separated like this. However, due to the severe psychological trauma I had suffered before, I no longer had the courage to chase her.

As long as you're not embarrassed, it's someone else who is embarrassed.