How do you dare to get along with others?

It's best to get along with others and don't care about anything.

After all, people are different, and whether they can get along well or not has something to do with the nature of the two parties.

Even if the results are not ideal, don't feel that you are doing a bad job.

Go with the flow, be yourself, and if you want to get along with them, just talk a lot, and it's the same for boys and girls.

As long as it's not a topic that will embarrass others, say whatever you want and don't care.

You can't be too inhibited, you don't have to deliberately find topics that other people like, you just have to be yourself.

It's hard to say what relationships are going to be, so don't worry too much about the outcome.

Will it be liked? Or is it hated? Was this exchange considered a success? These are the answers that cannot be considered.

Just don't think about it, just forget if you succeed or not, you can't think too much.

You have to have this mentality, you want to be with me, I'm happy, I don't want to, that's nothing.

Let your mind relax.

Hope it helps.

Start with the discussion topic, for example, there are multiple ways to solve problems in mathematics, you want to communicate with your classmates, if you are a girl, you may wish to solve problems with them, or you can take the initiative to solve problems for them, so that you can open up the circle of communication, it is always right to help others, and it is normal to learn to communicate, don't care what others say.

Smile when you see people Keep your mind, I don't owe you. Why be afraid! I don't want you. Why be nervous! How about chatting with this rapidly developing society!!

Personally, I think that this Hulan can win the championship of the fifth season is a very strong proof and deserved.

This just shows that as long as we work hard, learn more from professional teachers, and strive to improve our comprehensive quality ability and professional knowledge, we will be able to make ourselves excellent talents, learn from teachers, and pay attention to respectful communication methods.

1.Learn to understand others more.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Be appropriately silent and respectful.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Communicate more about positive topics that the other person is interested in.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen humbly and carefully.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Learn to praise others.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

Check. As long as you live, there will always be people and things that make you worry about them; As long as you get along with people, there will always be times when you are angry and sad.

People often say that you make me worried, make me angry, make me sad, but in fact, no one makes you unhappy, and it is because what others do not meet the standards in your heart.

For fear of offending people, you suppress yourself, and after a long backlog, you will be angry over a trivial matter, which makes people feel inexplicable. Getting along is simple: check.

Ask yourself what you should be.

If you ask more about yourself than others when you get along with others, you will have a lot more wisdom and ability, less disputes with others, and more importantly, more peace and harmony with others.

Don't expect feedback.

We often do a lot of things for others, and after doing them, we consciously or unconsciously want them to show respect and gratitude, and when we don't receive feedback, we feel unhappy.

In work and life, the unhappiness that stems from this kind of scene is not earth-shattering, but it can make people feel bad. In fact, we can never control what others do, but we can control our own expectations and actions. Don't expect feedback, just do your best to help others, and you won't be disturbed.

No judgment and no accusation.

When you feel that your lover, colleague, neighbor, teacher, or stranger on the bus, shop assistant, or teahouse guy are distant, angular, and a little cold, it must be that they have been hurt and hurt in their lives, they may have been hurt, or they have experienced too many disappointments, pains, and cold receptions because they have been hurt, or because they have been lonely and have no one to protect them.

So, instead of judging and blaming, with a sense of understanding, silently pray for their peace.

Let go of yourself. After the quarrel between lovers and lovers, they are obviously uncomfortable, but no one pays attention to anyone, unwilling to take the initiative to alleviate it, and would rather start a cold war, thinking that taking the initiative to communicate fiercely is a price drop, and taking the initiative to admit mistakes will be flattened by the other party.

Home is not a battlefield, nor a arena, but a place to feel warmth and freedom.

Here, it is important to let go of yourself, it is not important to be active and passive, warmth and happiness are king, and everything must make way for it. Life is the result of choices, either passive suffering or active happiness.

Listen to each other. Many people think that they have said what they want to say, and the tantrum they want to have is communication, and when listening to others, a lot of thoughts are put on how to refute the other party, and without waiting for the other party to finish, they immediately talk about their own reasoning, and the more they talk, the more angry they become, and then they break up unhappily, and then say that they can't communicate.

Real communication is to listen to the other person's heart attentively, feel the other person's feelings, understand the other party, and then check whether you really understand, and the other party thinks that you understand is called communication.

Take care of yourself. In fact, in this life, if you are not happy, it is not because of other reasons, but because you have never been satisfied with yourself.

The ruler is short, the inch is long, and no one is perfect.

There are no perfect people and things in the world, if you think others are perfect, it is because you are too far away. Seeing that you are dissatisfied, you are too close. You're not as bad as you think, and others aren't as perfect as you think. Take care of yourself!

1. Have a sense of boundaries and do not cross the line.

The sense of boundaries refers to the degree of judgment or importance of boundaries when a person lacks them.

With a sense of boundaries, he often entrusts his affairs to others and invites others to step in.

Their own boundaries are often imposed on others and forcibly stepped into.

Someone else's borders.

People often think that good friendships should be inseparable from each other, regardless of principle.

On the other hand, we should share joy and sorrow and weal and woe. Actually, this kind of camaraderie looks at the table.

It is a kind of friendship that has no sense of boundaries and is immature. In such a camaraderie.

, there is often excessive emotional attachment to each other.

In adult friendships, it is not the case that emotional support or emotional sustenance is given to friends.

It means that all the joys and sorrows must be shared with friends. If you're maintaining friendships.

In the process, there is no sense of boundaries, and he wantonly relies on his emotions on his friends.

, then it is likely to bring the other person the feeling and emotion of being disturbed.

on fatigue. Therefore, adults should have a sense of boundaries when making friends, and not cross the line, or.

You need to communicate with your friends so that you both know each other's boundaries.

can make both parties more comfortable to get along. Relaxed and natural atmosphere: When it comes to socializing quietly, people usually want to be able to let go naturally.

Loose, unconstrained, can express their views and ideas to their heart's content. Therefore, the best social model should be a relaxed and natural atmosphere, very close to the usual.

Chat mode, without too many rules and constraints.

Respectful communication: Mutual respect is very important in the process of socializing.

Target. No matter what topic is discussed, it should be polite and respectful. Especially.

When discussing some sensitive issues, it is necessary to pay more attention to the choice of words and think about Week 4Respect personal space.

I believe that people should respect each other and respect each other's personal space and.

Privacy. In socializing, everyone should have their own independence and should not.

Forced or forced participation. I like the kind of respect for personal space.

Socializing can make people feel more at ease. 1.Know your preferences and boundaries: Know your own preferences in social activities.

Good and needed are important. If you don't want to sit in a noisy place, just.

Don't go to a party in that environment. If you don't want to be in public.

Talk to strangers, then look for smaller, more personal social activities.

Move. 2.Find like-minded people: Networking isn't something everyone enjoys.

Feeling. Finding a group of people who share common interests and hobbies will often make the club scumbag active.

More enjoyable and meaningful.

3Learn to relax: If you're feeling restless or nervous, try practicing some relaxation.

skill, and be somewhat tolerant of yourself. Don't push yourself too hard and try.

Something to make yourself comfortable.

Yes, I feel that when I first stepped into college, I was very excited, very happy, very excited.

In college life, for example, if you actively join the student union, it means that you are a positive and excellent student, which is very valuable, but will your roommates have opinions about you because of your pursuits? You have to know that human nature is like this, most people want everyone to have fun together, and they don't want anyone to be particularly motivated and excellent, because it will seem that they are not good. You have two ways to cope:

1.Continue to be motivated, schedule your time tightly, spend your energy on what you think is worthwhile, make yourself better and better, and don't waste time worrying about roommate relationships. 2.

If you want to have a harmonious roommate relationship, you have to "loose on the outside and tight on the inside", or pursue progress, but don't show it particularly obviously, for example, before the exam, everyone says "I'm satisfied with the test of 60 points", although you work hard to review the goal of 90 points, don't be serious and say "I want to get 90 points", just laugh and laugh with everyone. If you don't believe it, no one will only score 60 points in the end, everyone just wants that "low standards, wide requirements" atmosphere.

In addition, you evaluate yourself as having a rich heart, but you don't talk much and are more honest. To put it simply, you will be very sensitive to what other people say to you, what they do, their expressions, etc., and you will think a lot, but you are not good at expressing them. The suggestion is to watch more chat variety talk shows, familiarize yourself with the speaking rhythm, question and answer methods, and funny skills inside, and chat with different classmates and friends at the same time to practice speaking.

People's hearts are mutual, if you play with your heart's eye, you have to play routines, no matter how good your friends are, they will be farther and farther away from you, get along with others, be sincere, be attentive.

In the interaction between people, who can be infallible? Therefore, it is said that people are tolerant, inclusive, tolerant and tolerant when they get along with others. To achieve mental compatibility, attention should be paid to increasing the frequency of communication and finding common ground.

Distance is a shield that protects our inner world.

As long as your nature is not bad, then no one will refuse to make friends with you, and I think it's better to explore it yourself, after all, your own method is the most suitable for you. As for the mentality, it's good to be peaceful and friendly.

I also don't think I'm good at communicating with people, I usually do what I want to do in school, and I don't like to get out of my seat and run around to find people to play with, but I don't say I don't have friends. If you get along with them a lot, you'll always get to know them.

Of course, when I was in the first year of junior high school, I only chose some of the stupidest ways when everyone didn't know me, borrowing a pen from someone else or something, and then I would have the opportunity to be friends when I was familiar with it, but there were also some more self-acquainted, they directly said that I was from somewhere, and then asked me where I came from and then it naturally got better.

Don't be too nervous, it will make people think that you are weird, and only girls are malicious to think that you are strange, and boys will definitely not, how can any boy be malicious to girls? Do you say yes?