Timid, afraid to do what they want to do like others. How to correct it?

Like before, the director is not confident, afraid of being laughed at by others, cowering all day long, envious of others, and at the same time secretly worried about his "unwillingness", in fact, this is a matter of self-confidence and their own attitude, the more so, the more you have no opportunity to cultivate your own shining point, which leads to the courage that you have not appeared in front of everyone, let alone in front of everyone, in fact, this is a terrible vicious circle, should be found and solved early, bravely take the first stepOnly when you take the first step will you have the courage and confidence to take the second step! Life is a very real problem, if you ignore your weaknesses, or look for ease, then sooner or later you will be eliminated, the world is busy, no one will pay attention to your departure! There are some things that you can't just do if you want to; There are some things that you don't want to do, so you can not do them!

Hopefully, when the sun climbs the hill again, I'll see a sunny ...... you

Find a famous person from history to idol.

Face up to life, everyone is equal.

First of all, you don't want to do bad things, and the rest is for you to try something that you don't dare to do, try what you think is simpler, and then do the difficult things when you get used to this feeling. It's as simple as that.

Failure is the mother of success, if you don't succeed, you will become benevolent, the most important thing is that you try, when you harvest the first bucket of life, you are not afraid of anything! From now on, let go of the baggage and do it, hesitation and wandering will only make you miss the opportunity!

Give the Spiritual Power Cultivation Method a try.

I'm just like you, born. I've practiced sanda, boxing (it's from a martial arts school), and I've played in competitions and ranked.

These are the so-called brave games, right? But apart from making me more aggressive, it hasn't changed, it's still stage fright, I'm afraid of socializing, and my circle is small.

Later, I went back to books and went to university. When I came to university, I found that my interpersonal timidity made me very uncomfortable in this environment (you only knew it when you went to college). But we are all lucky because we all understand our weaknesses, it's just that I am one step ahead of you and challenge my weaknesses:

1. I seize every opportunity to give a speech, speaking in public, both Chinese and English, it is difficult at first, but you have to be determined to challenge your weaknesses and not afraid to make everyone laugh (in fact, most people don't even have the courage to give a speech on stage, if you dare to go up, you will defeat everyone else present).

2. I occasionally talk to strange classmates, but in fact, the atmosphere in the school is more innocent and open, and it is relatively easy to find classmates (preferably girls) to talk to.

These two points have almost overcome my own timidity, fear, especially communication, but I have not completely overcome it, and I still need to work hard.

I've been through it so I know, it's hard at first, but I'm a person who can convince myself. FYI.

It's good to have a long insight, the position thing is the most terrifying, if you know everything clearly, you won't be afraid.