What should I do if I am too tired to fall in love but feel that I am too lonely?

Falling in love is a spice of life, it should make our lives happier, if a relationship makes you feel very tired and tired, or even affects your normal life, it is not happiness but pain for you, then you should end the relationship, at least my point of view, if love affects life and makes us unhappy, then why should I accept such a state? A person can also make friends, it doesn't have to be boyfriend and girlfriend, we can be normal friends, everyone goes out together, and does group activities. <>

It's too tiring to fall in love, because the person you are in love with is wrong, and it is obvious that you chose to be in love because you were afraid, not because of love, so your love will make you feel very hard, it has become your burden, not a happy thing, if you are afraid of loneliness, it is better to try to pick up those hobbies and hobbies you once had, keep yourself busy, and love will wait to talk about it when you meet the person you like.

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I don't want to persuade you to break up, I just want to tell you: don't give up on the beautiful vision of love just because you meet someone.

It's not tiring to fall in love, and if you're tired, it's just because that person isn't right for you.

I used to find it tiring to be in a relationship, especially with a wooden man who didn't know how to do it. But when I really walked into his heart, I realized that love is very sweet!

Because I was familiar with his presence, I no longer wanted to live a single life; Because I love him deeply in my heart, I don't want to have half a misunderstanding with him. We made an appointment to join hands for half a lifetime, and all our courage was used to face the ups and downs ahead.

When you find the real Mrright, then you will know: love is actually very simple.

If you really like someone, you won't be tired of falling in love with him, that's a kind of happiness, if you feel tired, you must not be in love. If you are too lonely, you must find someone you like to talk about a sweet love, travel together, cook together, watch movies together, go shopping and ...... togetherTwo people, three meals, four seasons, let the sweetness brought by love drive away loneliness.

I think first of all, you have to clarify the meaning of falling in love, the meaning of falling in love, it is definitely not to find someone to accompany you and resolve your lonely love, but more to form a family, to have a family, and you have to bear this responsibility for the family, so you can't fall in love in order not to be lonely, this will not lead to good results.

If you are lonely, you can find your friends and family to accompany you, which will also make you feel very warm, but if you are in love, it is more about the tolerance of one person, and more about the way two people get along, not just companionship.

So I suggest that if you don't want to fall in love, you don't fall in love, but if you feel lonely, you can find friends and family, even your teachers, you can become your bosom friends, you can go out to exercise, fitness, eat, you can do it, so that you don't feel lonely.

Then you just need company.

Falling in love is a matter for two people, and two people need to pay for each other and be considerate and tolerant of each other to manage a relationship. And when you are alone, you will be too estimated, and sometimes it is so quiet that only the sound of the wind blowing. This is needed to accompany a pet cat here, cats, in fact, are very cold animals, like you will stick to you, do not like you and far away from you, but also exist in your line of sight to accompany you.

I think if you have such a situation, it may be that you are too close to the other person in the process of love, or you value it too much, so you suffer from gains and losses, in this case, you may feel too tired.

If this is the case, the next time you fall in love, you must pay attention to leaving a certain distance between the other party and yourself, not too close, so it is easy to get tired. Then you have to learn to see openly, and you must learn to see while you value your feelings.

I think it would be a lot better.

I don't know if you've been in a relationship before, so I came up with the idea that it's too tiring to fall in love. Or maybe it's because your previous relationship was a failure. You didn't choose a good lover for you.

If you don't want to be in a relationship and feel too lonely, you can think of a cat or a dog to keep you company.

There are many reasons why you feel tired when you fall in love, and the details are as follows:

1. If you feel that love is very tiring, then the two people are not suitable, and you should break up in time.

2. If you have such a feeling because you have no experience in love, then you should keep changing yourself.

3. The more two people communicate and understand each other, they can make love easier.

Two people feel very tired when they fall in love, which means that you are both wronging yourself and accommodating each other, and you will feel very tired and tired after a long time, and you will feel like you don't have yourself. In fact, in addition to the advantages of liking each other, there is also a kind of tolerance for each other's shortcomings, but tolerance is not unlimited, but principled, the other party can feel your tolerance, so the other party is also willing to tolerate your shortcomings, this is the feeling of love.

Two people feel very tired when they fall in love, which means that two people still can't get along.

It's still uncoordinated.

Then it's better to consider whether to continue to fall in love!

Answer: Hello, kissing, falling in love is not always full of energy, and too dull getting along will also make people feel tired and tired. If you feel that the relationship at this time is very tired, you can adjust it appropriately to release it, such as two people doing a simple trip, going to the suburbs, or going out for a big meal, drinking a glass of red wine or something, always do something for two people to ease it.

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Question: He asks me every day if I like him, how can I give him enough security?

Then you talk to him more and care about him.

Hello question, thanks.

Give a thumbs up if you can.

First of all, you need to be calm and calm. After calming down, you have to get him back, after all, the two of you live together, and it's not forced or anything, don't think that girls quarrel, boys just admit their mistakes. Sometimes boys also need girls to admit their mistakes first.

Emotionally, it's normal to quarrel. As long as you live a good life after the quarrel. Don't think about anything else.

If you can't do this, then you two, don't have children, otherwise it will hurt the children in the future.

Two people feel very tired when they fall in love, they quarrel over some trivial things, and they run away from home, which is really not right, maybe the personalities of two people are not suitable, they are like this when they fall in love, and they will get married for a longer time in the future, how else can they live? It is recommended that you calm down and communicate well, there is indeed no common language, and it is not good to be twisted together, and the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is better to break up.

I think two people feel very tired when they fall in love, which means that the two of you don't love each other at all to feel very tired, so I think you should calm down and think about it.

Then reconsider that there is no need for your relationship to continue, if your heart is very tired, you might as well let it go, if you can't let go, try to redeem it and change the status quo.

It's a little numb to be together all the time. Then separate for a while and let each of you calm down. The so-called little don't win the newlywed. Or it is a good choice for the two of them to leave their current comfortable life circle and go out for a trip.

That's not suitable, it's so tiring to fall in love, how to get married and have children in the future.

Hello, this situation advises you to break up. Don't keep consuming each other.

If you feel tired, it means that the two of you are not really suitable. Then you can try to be apart for a while.

At that time, when you are in a relationship when you are lonely, the neighbor should take your friends to develop your emotions among the friends, so that you will find a good partner.

A person's rainy day is always lonely and suffering, which will remind you that it would be nice if there was someone with you, but two people really become partners but have to face more trivial matters and chicken feathers, which is easy to embarrass people.

You have the ability to socialize, so you can have intimate communication with people, and at the same time you also know what to do to make others accept you, but in the process of interacting with your partner, all kinds of troubles will inevitably catch us off guard, subconsciously you may prefer to be alone, free, sometimes you can also know that you will inevitably need to pay some energy and patience if you want the sweetness of love.

During college, I didn't feel like I had any good friends and couldn't find them.

The right person to confide in, when a person comes back from the library.

I also want to find a girlfriend, but I don't want to fall in love.

Talking about the people of the shirt bureau is contradictory, opposing and unified.

Can't find anyone to talk to.

The tangle of whether to fall in love or not.

Occasionally, I have to learn to embrace the poetic loneliness.

Loneliness is a time of reflection, a time of deeper reflection on things. In a world that is increasingly focused on speed, performance, money, and competitiveness, loneliness is precious and worth cherishing, and feeling comfortable in one person is a sign of healthy self-esteem. You can also try to be happy and optimistic.

Happiness comes from within, no matter what situation you encounter. There is nothing wrong with being alone, and there is nothing wrong with being alone, choosing to see the good things in life and trying to make yourself optimistic and optimistic, reflecting on life and a more meaningful world.

Some of the time you spend alone may be focused on reflection or other more meaningful things. Take some time for introspection and think about your life. Think about your past, present, and future goals.

First and foremost, contemplation is one of the most important self-building jobs you can do, think about what makes you who you are. What do you believe? Why?

Is there anything that doesn't work for you? What do you believe and how do you feel from your recent life? How about learning to get along with yourself?

Seeing that friendship and love need to be paid to gain something.

Walking alone from the library, you can realize that you need companionship, friendship needs mutual understanding and support, when the world is gone, true friends remain by his side, and love needs two people to constantly run in and tolerate understanding, these are not simple, you may also need to expand your social network to meet new people. The person you know at the moment may have made you an acquaintance, and you can do this by becoming a real friend with the new people you know. Of course, this will not happen overnight, proceed with caution and, on the basis of initial contact, always keep your promises and be consistent.

A true friend is a treasure of integrity, and if you make friendship a top priority, you will most likely do everything you can to maintain it, and with a friend by your side, try to make sure that you are there whenever he needs it.

When you're ready, you can move on to developing relationships.

You're sure to find a balance between the two.

Feel your own needs. Best wishes! zq

Hello subject, thank you for your trust.

After reading your question, I thought of my past, for a few years, I was also so confused, confused why I enjoyed the freedom of a person so much, reading a book alone, listening to ** alone, watching a movie alone, tasting food alone, wandering aimlessly on a strange city street with a bag on his back, sitting in the courtyard of an inn in a foreign afternoon, looking at the sky with the owner's dog in a daze. Later I realized that in those years of loneliness, it was first of all that I enjoyed the process myself; Secondly, I didn't meet friends who were interested in and had the same three views, and naturally didn't want to accommodate or reluctantly get a stable interpersonal relationship through "the breadth and depth of self-exposure".

The subject said that he had no good friends during college and could not find the right person to talk to; Good friends also need to look at fate, especially when we really understand the meaning of friends, it is better to enjoy a person's good time at this stage; Nowadays, there are many platforms for confiding, and there are many consulting companies and institutions, all of which have free public welfare **consultation**, which can listen to you with the most appropriate empathy ability when you want to talk.

About coming out of the library, wanting to find a girlfriend, but not wanting to fall in love, it is a stressor avoidance conflict; That is, we enjoy the freedom of being alone, but occasionally we want to be accompanied, (for example, when we come out of a quiet library and see the noise outside or couples) but we do not want to have the necessary interpersonal interaction with the person we accompany (because a good interpersonal relationship develops in the process of increasing self-exposure, and needs to take into account the principle of reciprocity, the principle of exchange, the principle of self-worth protection, and the principle of equality, if it is not true love, we will find it troublesome and energy-consuming).

Before you meet a friend who loves you and a friend who has the same three views and like-minded interests, let's enjoy the freedom you have now.

Wishing you happiness!