I ve been divorced for two years and want to know if I should get married because I m lonely?

I don't think you should choose to enter the palace of marriage again because you are lonely and lonely!

First of all, you are already a divorced person, of course, I am not here to say that I look down on divorced people, but I think that people who have experienced a marriage should be more cautious when choosing marriage again than those who enter marriage for the first time!

First of all, you yourself emphasized this reason, because loneliness and loneliness are not because of the so-called love, nor because the two of you are very suitable.

You should have been through a marriage and should know very well that if the two of you are not suitable together, you will have to go through this pain again!

Therefore, I think everyone who divorces, they are very brave, because those who dare to divorce should be in a very rational state of life.

The reason why you might have the idea of getting married now is really because you have been single for two years, so you feel very lonely and lonely.

In fact, everyone, he is not born lonely and lonely, everyone may have happiness in life, but also need to share with others, and there are sadness that need to be borne by others.

Therefore, each of us needs to find a companion in our future life and continue our future life together.

But I think no matter what, you should continue with your future life and continue to look for the person you feel is destined.

For you who choose marriage for the second time, I think you should be cautious, first of all, this person should be a suitable person to live with you, and I think you must be sure enough in your heart to start a future life with this person.

If you hesitate like you now, I don't think you're ready to start a new life, because you're not ready for it.

Even if the two of you start a new life, you will go through a lot of tribulations, so I think when you are ready, you really have to decide, you think that I am going to get married, I will definitely get married, and you don't need to ask others again, then you should think about getting married.

Actually, I can't understand what you're thinking, since you've been divorced for two years, why do you want to repeat the same mistakes.

Find someone you don't like and spend the rest of your life, aren't you afraid that you will get divorced because of another disagreement? I have already tasted the bitterness of this, why do I have to fall into this pit for the second time.

In fact, if it is the first time she is married, it may be because she is in a hurry to choose someone she doesn't like. Because many people are blind dates, there are quite a few people who get married in flashes.

But that's because they don't know the bitterness! Now that you've been divorced, why don't you learn your lesson.

People say that eating a trench grows wisdom, why do you still want to be like this. So I feel like you're really naïve when you ask this question.

In my understanding, I feel that if I don't meet the right person in my life, I may never get married in my life. If you find someone you don't like, you won't be happy if you get married because you're lonely, and you may not experience happiness in your life.

In fact, sometimes happiness is hard to find, but the feeling of happiness is very simple, that is, to meet someone who likes and likes you.

Don't fall in love with someone because of loneliness, this kind of relationship will not last long, you need to find someone you think is right to spend the rest of your life with.

In the face of choosing marriage for the second time, I think you should be more cautious and think more clearly than before, after all, you have already experienced the pain of marriage failure, and you don't want to go through it again.

So your own feelings are the most important thing, don't easily give the rest of your life to someone who has doubts. You need to be sure of your happiness and determine your future.

No matter how many years you have been gone, I don't think you should get married for loneliness and loneliness, since you have experienced a failed marriage, then you should know what is important to you, because of loneliness and loneliness, people who are united by loneliness, can they tolerate each other and understand each other? What is the most important thing between husband and wife? In addition to love, it is trust and sincerity.

Usually experienced a failed marriage, will cast a shadow on both parties, the other half of the remarriage, usually do not have so much trust, if just because of loneliness and loneliness and walk together, it means that there is no love, no love marriage, how can they establish trust with each other? <>

Especially if you still have children with each other, a restructured family is unfamiliar to everyone, each other's living habits and ways of thinking are different, and it is more difficult and tiring to run such a family than to run the first family, so I think remarriage should be more cautious.

I think to reorganize a family, it is more important to understand what you really want, and two people should at least have love, because only if they have love for each other, then they will tolerate each other, with such tolerance and emotional foundation, then after entering marriage again, it will not be so easy to break again.

There will be a lot of family conflicts in the reorganization, especially if there are children, it is more necessary for the feelings of the two people to be deep enough to live together for a long time

After a person has experienced a marriage, he has already understood what marriage is, or what he wants to get in married life. There are two sides to everything, there is a good side and a bad side, and the same is true of marriage, it has a shiny and desirable side, and there is also a dark and decadent side that makes people disappointed.

After experiencing marriage, and now that you have been divorced for two years, you must have a clear enough understanding of marriage and yourself, as for whether you should marry for the sake of loneliness, there are two questions you should think about in advance.

1. If you choose to get married just because you are lonely and lonely, marriage may not solve your problem. We always think that after entering the marriage, we will have someone by our side, and we will no longer be lonely and lonely, but in fact this is really not the case.

Even if a person loves you, he can't be by your side at all times, he will have a bad mood, a short temper, and he will have times when he is impatient with you. At this time, you will find that you just want a simple companionship, but it is not so easy to get.

So, if you get married because you are lonely, you must think about what you really need in your marriage. If you just need someone who can accompany you, it may disappoint you. There are too many such marriages around us, obviously there is a lover, but they are still lonely and lonely, as if they are living alone.

Second, when you choose to remarry because you are lonely and lonely, then you must be cautious in the selection of this person. After all, there has been a marriage, and once again into the siege of marriage, no matter what, deep down I don't want to end up in failure, so in the choice of this marriage partner, you must not choose someone because you are too lonely and lonely, in the end, the problem of loneliness has not been solved, but it is found that there are many other contradictions and problems.

Everyone yearns for a marriage, whether it is a first marriage or a second marriage, which is understandable. But in either case, don't get married for the sake of getting married, don't solve such a problem, but create a new one.

At this time, you need to divert your attention, you can do something on your own, or you can also chat with others on the Internet.

After a divorce, you can choose to die alone, but you can also choose to remarry or start a new family. After divorce, you can meet more people, build more relationships, and have more opportunities and possibilities. It's important to make choices that are right for your own life and not to put pressure or pressure on yourself or others.

Every person after a divorce goes through a dark time, but the night before dawn will be dark. Going through the pain of divorce, learning from it, and then moving on to life and creating more possible happiness for yourself is the right way. Don't blindly deny yourself.

If fate arrives, you do meet someone you like, and the other party is willing to give everything for you. After careful and patient investigation and the test of time, you will make a deliberate decision. I got married twice, I don't know if it's bad luck or bad vision, I will see the wrong person every time.

If you get married again, can you be sure that your judgment is correct and that you can find a good person to live with your previous experiences? Don't think about everything in your marriage. Be aware of the risks.

I can't imagine the changes in the future of Director Zhou.

As long as you really want to live together, you must be mentally prepared to overcome difficulties together. From falling in love to knowing each other, truly becoming an inseparable community is a process of step by step. If you don't want to give, there will be no happiness, no common trust, no common language, no common goal, and strange dreams in the same bed cannot eliminate the loneliness in his heart.

The fusion of the essence is the true happiness of life. Those who are sure will be considerate of each other seriously and operate with conscience. You can't unilaterally and selfishly get the happiness you want from the other person.

That's life. Some people get disheartened because they have been hurt too much in a broken marriage. They choose to live alone, as long as they don't feel pain, arrange their future life reasonably, plan ahead, and be happy.

It doesn't matter what outsiders think. Life is good. Since you choose to divorce, you should first adjust your mentality, strive to get out of the shadow of your first marriage, and live a sunny and happy life.

If I meet the right one, I will choose to remarry. Men and women, it's better to have a companion than a person. As the saying goes, young couples are always together!

That's why. If the problem is caused by one's own cognition or three views, then read more books, get in touch with thoughtful people, and participate in more study and training in this area. What you learn is not just knowledge, but wisdom, the secret that teaches you how to be happy!

Improve your own taste of life, improve your wisdom, improve your ability to control the happy life of others, and improve your ability to love.

Living in happiness and fulfillment every day, the heart is peaceful and tranquil, the soul is pure and sacred, the temperament, speech and demeanor have changed greatly, the temperament is elegant, and the demeanor is charming. This failed marriage has reborn you. At this time, it is no longer a question of remarriage and whether to go on alone.

There must be a group of soul-like people around you. It is often said that women have a hard time after divorce. In fact, this view is rather biased.

In fact, many unhappy women get rid of their painful marriages after divorce and are much happier than before. Because they don't dare to give in and don't wronged themselves, women can control their own destiny as long as they are independent, and it is not difficult to be happy.

You should consider remarrying, if you feel lonely for a long time, then slowly your pressure will become more and more intense.

I think if you feel lonely after the divorce for too long, and you really let go of the previous relationship, you can choose to remarry.

Generally, it is the party who insists on initiating a divorce, and there is no feeling of loneliness. The party who insists on divorce sees it as a spiritual and spiritual relief. If you are mentally hurt, you need to calm down and repair the scars.

Only the other party will feel lonely, lonely, spiritually empty. From the original quarrelsome and contradictory world of two people, they were suddenly pitiful and alone, and the house became quiet, lifeless, and lifeless. Think about today, why bother in the first place.

A good marriage requires the husband and wife to work together, benefit each other, and give to each other. If one party dismantles and destroys, the bond of affection will be broken. This requires the husband and wife to understand each other, tolerate each other, respect each other, trust each other, and cherish each other's hard-won marriage.

Avoid choosing divorce because one party's fault intensifies the conflict and one party is hurt. Loneliness is man-madeIt is impossible to repent and rehabilitate, and you can only do it yourself.

Over time, loneliness, loneliness, and spiritual emptiness. Divorce has a detrimental effect on both parties. ‍‍

Loneliness is one of the strongest psychological reactions in divorcees. Although divorce solves the contradictions and conflicts in the past life, it is followed by the rupture of interpersonal relationships, and you will immediately feel that you have given and lost too much in this marriage. Divorced women think that they no longer have the beauty of the past, they will have an inferiority complex, and they are afraid that others will talk about them behind their backs.

If you want to get rid of this emotion as soon as possible, you can try the following methods: First, let it out. Vent your post-divorce joys and sorrows to your friends and family without reservation, and listen to their advice and advice.

Second, change the environment. It would be better.