How long can you tolerate a lover not contacting you? What happens to you if you exceed your toleran

For two or three days, my husband never takes the initiative to contact me! Every time I take the initiative to contact him, he won't take the initiative to contact me unless there is something, I'm used to him like this, so I don't bother to be angry with him! It's useless because you're angry with him, because you're angry, but people are still the same, and they won't change, so now I've seen it, and I don't care anymore, so every time I contact him!

I once tried what would happen to him if I didn't contact him for a few days, I didn't fight him for three days, but people could not fight with me for one, it was too good, and then I couldn't help but call him, I asked him why he didn't call me, and he said he was busy and couldn't take care of it!

I know he lied again, but I can't help it, because I can't change him, blame myself for not being capable! Because we all say that a person beats another person, it is because he misses him, so he hits him! My husband never called me **, which should prove that he never wanted me!

One day at most, beyond which I may have to propose a breakup to him.

The reason why I fall in love is that I want two people to care for each other and someone to share their joys, sorrows, and sorrows. Two people who love each other enough must want to be together all the time, even if something has to be separated, they will try their best to find time to send messages to the other party to share what they are doing and their feelings at the moment.

If he hadn't contacted me for a day, I would really think a lot in my heart, and the first thing that came to mind was that he wanted to use cold and violent methods to force me to break up, so that I wouldn't be scumbag-infamy. Because in my concept, if a man still loves you, he is reluctant to contact you for a day and make you worry about him. The reason why he does this is that he doesn't want you to know his itinerary and make you feel that his world can exist without you.

At this time, I will not hesitate to propose to him to break up, because I would rather be single than taste cold violence again. My life could have been colorful, and there was no need to wallow in pain for someone who didn't love me.

I feel like I can't stand not being contacted for a week. If I exceed the limit of tolerance, I will directly pick it out with him and see his attitude. If the attitude is okay, forgive him for the time being. But if I still feel that I am not wrong, then I may choose to break up.

This will change because of the change in the time you have together, and when we first got together, he ignored me for a day and I was uncomfortable. You have to ask why he hasn't contacted me, what he's been doing without me for so long, and who he's with. But as the time spent together increased, the trust in the other party gradually increased, and the attachment to him was not so deep, and it was natural that I was able to tolerate the increase in the time he did not contact me.

The measures taken beyond the tolerance limit have also changed over time. When I was together at first, I would endure a little more, and I wouldn't be angry if I could do anything, and the two of them were more careful when they got along together. So it's not too good.

But after being together for a long time, they will no longer be as easy to talk as they were when they first started together, and they will be more calculating.

I think I'm still a good person, and I'm not the kind of little girl who particularly likes to clingy people. If my boyfriend ignores me for more than a week, I can play and eat as much as I want, and it won't affect me at all. In two or three weeks, if he tells me that he has no time to contact me because he is busy with things during this time, I can still understand it, after all, I am a gentle, considerate, kind and lovely good girlfriend.

But if he doesn't contact me for more than a month, then I think there may be no need for us to be together, after all, if it's a lover, he will always think of each other, if he classifies me and other friends, he won't think of me for a long time without contact, then I think the relationship between us is not so real, and it can even be said to be flat to nothing.

If my boyfriend doesn't have any reason for him, he won't think of me if he ignores me for a long time, and I think it's more than I can bear. Then I don't think there's any need to be together, so let's break up and live happily together.

When I first started falling in love, we would contact me every day at noon, evening and evening, so at that time, I asked him to contact me at these three points every day, as long as he didn't contact me, I would get angry, and I wouldn't take the initiative to contact him, he would coax me every day until I was angry and reconciled.

Later, it became a little busy, so it became noon and evening contact, and the limit of tolerance was half a day, and more than half a day without contact was handled in the same way as above.

Now, life is on the right track.

Under normal circumstances, the limit of what I can endure is one day, if he doesn't contact me within a day, I will send a crazy WeChat beating**, if I don't reply to WeChat and don't answer**, I will contact his colleagues until I contact others.

In the case of him reporting to me, the limit of tolerance is the day after he reports the time, and if he does not contact me at the appointed time, the way to deal with it is determined by my mood. If I'm in a good mood, I'll reach out to him, just like I did. If I'm in a bad mood, I won't contact him at all, and I'll wait for him to come to me and admit my mistake.

I can only tolerate my lover not contacting me for a day, and if he doesn't contact me for more than a day, I will definitely trouble him and be sure to ask the reason. Because I think that since he loves me, he will definitely care about me very much, no matter how busy he is, there will always be a time to eat every day, and when he eats, he takes out his mobile phone and sends me a message to tell me that he is busy.

I think since he loves me, then he must know that if I can't see the messages he sends me, I will worry about him, and loving someone shouldn't make the other person feel uncomfortable. Instead, you should always think about the other party first, and you should also think of the things that the other party can think of first.

I also think that love should make people feel happy, and if a relationship makes people feel unhappy, it is not love, that is, they have nothing to do with themselves. If your lover really loves herself, she will always think about herself, no matter how busy he is, his psychological place will always come first.

It depends on what state the other half is in. If she is at work, class, or at home, and it is inconvenient for her to use her mobile phone, as long as she says it in advance, I will not be unhappy. After all, everyone has busy times.

I've also heard that many people are very busy because of the death of the other half of the family elders and don't have time to reply to messages, which makes them angry and even propose to break up, which I think is very excessive. <>

If it's a normal state and nothing urgent, I can tolerate my girlfriend ignoring me for a day at most, because except for some special circumstances, we basically chat every day, and the difference between talking more and talking less is just that. If my girlfriend doesn't contact me for a day, I will send some messages to take the initiative to find her, if she can reply to me, my anger will disappear, as usual, if the news is like a stone sinking into the sea, I will not choose to contact her, waiting for her to reply, if I don't reply, I will deal with this matter very seriously, ask about the situation, and then see if I want to continue to maintain this relationship.

Two days, two days at most, if it is exceeded, I will take the initiative to find him, ask him about the situation, and ask him to give me an explanation. <>

Quarrel with my boyfriend, all because of very small things, maybe just because of a sentence, I will quarrel with him, and then ignore each other, of course, but also because of my own little emotions, from time to time I will quarrel with him, the most impressive may be because I go out with the boy, when eating, I am actually in the same place with him, although I told him who it was in advance, but I will still have emotions when I am touched, at that time, I know that he is angry, but I just haven't passed, Because I'm also the kind of person who is very stubborn, so until the end, I didn't go to him, he didn't wait for me, and then I went out and met, I didn't see it, and left with my friend, that night, he didn't send me a message, I just waited, and after a day there was still no news, at this time, my emotions also came, and the next night, I still couldn't help but send him a message, ask him about his emotions and feelings, and apologize.

I'm a very insecure person, and if my lover ignores me, I feel like he doesn't care, so in this regard, I bow my head a little.

I can tolerate my lover not contacting me for a day, I believe that there should be something wrong with him, but if I don't contact for more than a day, I can't stand this kind of snub. I'll go straight to him and ask why, and if he can't give me a reasonable explanation, then I won't pay attention to him.

I feel that I am still very serious in terms of feelings, and in the absence of quarrels, what kind of lover is a lover who doesn't contact for a day? I can't understand what is the difference between people who are in love and can not contact for three or four days, and ordinary friends?

If I fall in love, I will definitely share my joys, sorrows and sorrows with my boyfriend every day, so it is called falling in love. If one day my boyfriend suddenly stops contacting me, I will think crankily, and instead of thinking about it myself, I should ask him the reason directly.

I've seen some guys get bored when they're in love, and they treat girls coldly and violently, just ignoring girls and not sending messages to girls. If this is the case for a long time, the girl can't stand such cold violence and proposes to break up. I definitely don't want to be treated with cold violence, so if my lover doesn't contact me for more than a day, I will take the initiative to go to him.

I can tolerate my boyfriend ignoring me for a day, and if he ignores me after a day, I will have a sad mood. will go to cranky, afraid that he will talk to other girls at school very well. And he will think about what he is doing, why he doesn't reply to my messages. <>

My boyfriend used to play the game Ball Wars and had a great addiction to the game. I used to play ball battles all night, and I played all day long. One time I was on the train and he never answered my message.

I went to the ball battle, and I saw that he had been playing ball ball battle. At that time, it was completely popular, because he promised me that he would not play ball battles for a long time, two hours at most. As a result, he played from the afternoon until the early hours of the morning, ignoring me.

Later, whatever message he sent to me, I simply ignored it. Later, considering that his game addiction had to be quit slowly, he ignored him.

He ignored me, and my aggrieved emotions finally exploded, and I cried directly to him. In the end, he set a rule that quarrels should not last more than a day.

I think at least once a day to contact, this is also the most basic respect for your feelings, if there are no special circumstances, it can only be accommodated for two days at most, if it is more than two days, I will be angry.

Just like usual, if there is no big thing, even if you say good morning and good night, I don't believe that anyone can be so busy that they can't even bother to say these two sentences, if there is suddenly no contact for two days, it can only mean that there must be a problem between two people, and I will tell him if he doesn't say it, after all, for me, I hate the Cold War the most, and there is something that can't be solved by saying it.

If it's two people in the Cold War, I have a problem, that is, I can't eat and sleep during the Cold War, so if that's the case, I'll contact him for more than three days, although I'm very sad in my own heart, but I won't get angry when I come up, I'll ask him what he thinks, if he wants to break up, then good, let's split. If you have something else in mind, I can hear you explain.

In short, I will be polite before the guests, if you make me unhappy, make me unhappy, and I don't feel guilty in my heart, I won't let you feel better, although I love you, but I can't trample on myself with my love.

One day. Because if you don't contact for a day, the spark of QQ will be gone, and it will take a lot of effort to raise it.

If you don't contact me for more than a day. Then I will take the initiative to contact him, but I must rush before the spark is extinguished, if the spark is unfortunately gone, then raise another one, and must let him take the main responsibility, I can't take the initiative to contact him every time! The spark is not mine alone!

Hum! <>

Anyway, I really like this function of the QQ logo, we can completely enhance the relationship between couples on the grounds of cultivating the spark wheel This logo will remind you to keep in touch with each other, and once the logo is hidden, you can also use this excuse as an opportunity to give couples in the cold war or quarrel a step down.

Many girls hate boys being cold and violent, and I am no exception, but in fact, many times boys may not really be cold and violent to girls, but they may not have this habit at all, so girls don't have to make a fuss, in fact, as long as they really love each other, then who contacts whom first is not the same?

Well. So the top priority is to find a boyfriend first, Yun Bei.