I m a good woman, but my marriage is not happy, why?

Poof, what does it have to do with whether a woman is good or not and whether she is happy or unhappy in marriage?

Besides, what kind of woman is a good woman?

Diligent and thrifty, good in the hall and kitchen, husband and children, filial piety to in-laws?

Well, these are indeed "good woman" traits, so I'll leave you as such a good woman for the time being.

The problem is that your husband is not satisfied, he knows that you are a good woman. However, it may not be these that he is looking for, but psychological interconnection.

I have always believed that both men and women in an unhappy marriage are responsible, and it is not because you are a "good woman" that you should put all the blame on the other party.

It's not often that we hear breakup words like this: You're good, but the two of us don't fit.

Not all good men and good women get together to have a happy marriage, but complement each other.

Even if that woman is very lazy, has a very pungent personality, and is what we call a "bad woman", her married life is so happy that people envy it, which is all due to the fact that she found a suitable husband, and the husband and wife complement each other and help each other, perfectly embedding a perfect married life.

If you are a good woman, are you a good wife, a good mother, and a good child? Can you take care of yourself while taking care of your husband and other family members? In marriage, everyone should understand each other and tolerate each other, if you can't do it, you will naturally be unhappy.

Every person in the world will have his way of life, maybe everyone will have his way of life, maybe his way of life is different, so that he will be very unhappy.

Some are arranged by fate, and some are self-inflicted.

Happy marriages are very similar, unfortunate weddings bring marriages, but the old and old have their own misfortunes, and the reasons are many, disturbing.

Good at analyzing and summarizing, which is helpful for future married life.

Hello! Because sometimes it's annoying, of course, after being together for a long time, I feel that it's not interesting.

There are many reasons why people are not happy when they get married, and here are some of the possible reasons:

1.High expectations before marriage: Many people expect their married life to be perfect before marriage, but this is often not the case. When reality doesn't match expectations, people can feel disappointed and dissatisfied.

2.Not getting to know each other well: Some people don't get to know each other well before they get married, including personality, values, hobbies, etc. This can lead to finding out that each other is not a good fit after marriage.

3.No shared goals and values: Shared goals and values between husband and wife are important factors in maintaining marital happiness. If there is no common goal and value and value value between husband and wife, it can lead to conflicts and disagreements.

4.Not having good communication and problem-solving skills: Communication and problem-solving skills between couples are key to maintaining a happy marriage. If the couple lacks good communication and problem-solving skills, it can lead to conflicts and disagreements.

5.Infidelity and betrayal in marriage: Infidelity and betrayal in marriage can undermine trust and affection between couples, leading to the breakdown of marriages.

6.Violence and abuse in marriage: Violence and abuse in marriage are serious problems that can lead to physical and mental harm and even life-threatening injuries.

In conclusion, a happy marriage depends on many factors, including personal expectations, how well you know each other, shared goals and values, communication and problem-solving skills, and more.

When two people fall in love, they often fall in love with their imaginary lover, rather than what their lover really looks like. So after getting along for a long time, the two will inevitably have various frictions.

There is a saying called "Whoever you marry you will regret it".

Because there is no "perfect partner for Yukai" in this world, the so-called perfection in our eyes is actually not understood.

Because I don't understand, I will make up for my brain, and I make up each other's brains perfectly, but after we are really together, I find that the other party is not what I think at all.

This is the reason why the higher the expectations of the other party, the easier it is to have conflicts after marriage.

The essence that can make a marriage happy is actually not love, love is selfish, and the more you love, the more you can't tolerate sand. The essence of making a happy marriage is tolerance.

Women in marriage, they are really busy and tired.

In addition to going to work to earn money, I also have to cook and take care of my children when I go home, and I don't have time for myself at all. will even be disliked by her husband and in-laws because of her out-of-shape figure and bad temper in the face of pressure.

They are forced to survive or for the sake of their children, and dare not give up their dissatisfied jobs and unhappy marriages. In this case, it is easy to become a woman full of resentment.

Now, lack of love seems to have become a common phenomenon, and this lack of love is not only the imprint brought to me by the original family, nor is it the harm left by the wrong man who loves the wrong man. The deeper lack of love is: because you don't love yourself!

Confused and anxious. If you sacrifice yourself for the sake of your family and children and become a full-time mother, all the energy of this part of the women is spent on grocery shopping, cooking, and taking care of children. If you don't have your own spiritual life, you won't be strict with yourself anymore, so you will give up studying and body management.

As a result, they fell into anxiety and confusion.

Anxiety is the only way to go through certain stages of life, and it is better to quietly strengthen yourself to be able to become mature, wise, and able to face unknown challenges.

No one is born with the desire to be a resentful woman, so what can be done to be that "transparent and happy woman" in marriage?

There are many reasons why a woman may be unhappy in her marriage, and here are some possible reasons:

1.Not finding the right partner: Some women may not take into account their needs and values when choosing a partner, or be confused by external conditions and end up choosing a partner that is not suitable for them.

2.Failure to establish good communication and trust: Marriage needs to be based on mutual understanding and trust, and if there is a lack of communication and trust between husband and wife, it is difficult to maintain a happy marital relationship.

3.Money issues: Money is an important issue in the relationship between husband and wife, and if there is a disagreement between husband and wife on money issues, it can easily lead to unhappy marriages.

4.Family pressures: Some women may face family pressures, such as a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, family financial difficulties, etc., which can have a negative impact on marriage.

5.Personality incompatibility: Personality incompatibility between husband and wife is also one of the causes of unhappiness in marriage, if the personality difference between husband and wife is too great, it is easy to have conflicts and conflicts.

The above are just some of the possible reasons, everyone's situation is different, and the reasons that lead to unhappy marriages are also different. Building a good marital relationship requires both spouses to work together and understand and support each other.

Hard-working, in the face of unreasonable requests from her husband and mother-in-law, she always agreed. He served his husband on his knees and did not dare to ask him for money and gifts. The husband says that one is one, and that two is two, and the wife never dares to put forward her own opinions, and has no opinions.

Particularly worried about others, focusing on others, not knowing how to feel sorry for themselves, not loving their own women, but not easy to be happy.

Empathetic, particularly capable, and particularly independent, these three types of women are not easy to be happy.

According to common sense and social observations, some women with personality traits are more likely to feel unhappy in their marriages:

1.A woman who is too idealistic. They have high expectations for marriage and love, idealize their lover and married life, and do not accept any mistakes and flaws, which leads to difficulties in reality, disappointment and pain.

2.A woman with an independent personality and who is not good at compromise. They are good at researching their work but are not good at making compromises in relationships. This can lead to difficulties in getting things done in a marriage, difficulty in reaching a consensus with your significant other, and ultimately feeling constrained and unfree.

3.Emotional and insecure woman. They are prone to anxiety, insecurity, doubts about the continuity and stability of their love, and often need to be committed and committed by their lovers to be confident in their relationship, which can lead to mood swings from time to time during marriage.

4.A woman who rarely socializes and focuses on her career. They are overly engaged in their work, have a narrow social circle, and mainly interact with their colleagues. It is difficult to adjust after marriage, and spending enough time with the other half may lead to estrangement between the two and the woman to feel neglected and hindered.

5.A woman who talks a lot and likes to control everything. They like to speak and intervene in everything, and they want to be in control of everything. However, marriage requires arrangement and compromise, and too much control will make the other half feel restricted, affecting harmony.

Of course, the success or failure of a marriage does not depend on one party alone. In fact, the compatibility of personalities, the understanding and compromise ability of both parties, the financial situation, the balance between work and family, etc., can have a significant impact on a marriage. Some of the personality traits of a woman are only one aspect of the situation that makes her unhappy marriage more likely to be.

I'm sorry, but we can't look at things with traditional thinking, things have the nature of development and change, let alone ......

There is no kind of woman who is necessarily unhappy in her marriage just by looking at it, and this stereotype is one-sided and unjust. The happiness of a marriage depends on many factors, such as mutual understanding, communication and respect, sharing of family responsibilities, and emotional support, etc., all of which are closely related to the individual's personality characteristics, family background, life experience and other aspects.

At the same time, marriage is not a matter of a single factor, but something that needs to be jointly managed between both parties, and requires both husband and wife to have certain wisdom and skills. Only when both parties can communicate rationally, respect each other, and share family responsibilities equally can it be possible to create a happy marriage together.

Therefore, before choosing a partner and starting a marriage, both parties should have an in-depth understanding and communication of their own expectations and the expectations of the other party, so as to find a spouse who is suitable for each other and recognized each other, and establish a beautiful marriage relationship.

Such issues involve sexism and stereotypes that cannot be judged simply. Everyone has their own personality and life experience, and whether a happy marriage is based on external conditions or appearances alone. Both men and women should be treated equally and respectfully, and a certain group should not be denied in general.

It is suggested that more attention should be paid to the inner quality and mutual understanding in the marriage issue, respect the choices and wishes of the other party, and find a way to solve the problem of jujube peel through communication and negotiation.

We should not judge or discriminate against people based on gender stereotypes, and a happy marriage does not depend solely on a person's appearance, personality, or other single factors. We should respect everyone's choices and lifestyles, and build a healthy, enlightened, and harmonious relationship under the premise of equality and mutual respect. Any marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties to operate and maintain, and at the same time, it also needs the support and assistance of all sectors of society.

Most marriages are unhappy. But a woman with a rich heart, optimistic and cheerful can self-mediate and make herself happy ......