What is the mindset of seeing an ex with a new partner after a divorce?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After the divorce, when I see my ex and my new partner together, I must have all kinds of feelings intertwined in my heart, and I don't know whether to be happy or sad.

    If your marriage fails, it is because of your partner's infidelity and because of the intervention of a third party that leads to divorce. One day on the street, you accidentally bumped into your ex and his current lover together, and your heart must be very uncomfortable. You will feel like a failed woman.

    can't catch my husband's heart. Let a third party take advantage of the situation. You must also hate your ex very much, why did you not fulfill your promise.

    Didn't you say that you want to be together for the rest of your life and never give up on each other when you meet anything? Have you forgotten all your vows? At this moment, your heart is hateful and reluctant.

    If this failed marriage is simply because, after the marriage, the relationship between the two of you is not suitable for the two of you leads to leaving. Then you should be glad that you made this decision, and you should also bless the other party for finding someone more suitable than you! In your heart, you must also silently cheer yourself up.

    I believe that the person who is suitable for you will definitely come to you in the near future.

    Seeing an ex and a current partner together, no one will be really comfortable inside. But the fact is that this is the case, and we must face up to this experience. It is precisely because of an inappropriate marriage that you understand what kind of person you are suitable for and what kind of person you are suitable to live with.

    So truly bless them from the bottom of your heart and give yourself courage. Only by making mistakes can we grow, and only by being hurt can we be strong. You deserve a better lover and you deserve a better marriage.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I guess that must have been a mixed feeling. Especially if the ex-husband's new partner, if it is a junior who destroys his marriage, at this time, it must be a feeling of gnashing his teeth. This feeling seems to have a feeling of wanting to tear up and eat this pair of scumbags and scumbags little by little.

    Just like in "The First Half of My Life", after Zijun divorced, he worked as a clerk in a brand-name shoe store. It happened that her ex-husband and mistress went to the shoe store where she worked to buy shoes. At that time, Zijun was really angry and his lungs were about to explode.

    But in the end, he calmed down and received the dog man and woman with a smile on his face. Of course, they were also slaughtered severely. Sold them the most expensive slow-moving shoes in the store.

    This TV series is really realistic in this plot. In real life, those who meet their ex and his new partner after a divorce must be in this mood. It's just that everyone may deal with it differently.

    The different way of dealing with it also reflects everyone's personality.

    If the ex's new partner is not a mistress who destroys his marriage, but a strange woman. If this strange woman looks prettier than herself on the outside, she is better than herself in all aspects. It is inevitable that there will be some melancholy feelings in my heart.

    If this strange woman doesn't look as pretty as she does on the outside, she is even much worse than herself in every way. There will be a sense of complacency in my heart, and even a little bit of schadenfreude.

    I think it's all a woman's reaction to her husband's different new partner. Although he is divorced, he still can't fully mind his heart and can't treat his ex as an ordinary friend or stranger. After all, that marriage is unforgettable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If it were me, I don't think it really mattered, because this thing is in the past. I remember when I broke up with my ex before, I really fantasized about what my heart would be like if I saw him with a new couple. I used to think that I would scold that girl if I saw her, but after all this time, I felt like I should let it go.

    Now that you're divorced, but your ex is also your past tense, the two of you can't be together. Therefore every man lives his own life, and if he greets you if you meet, you greet him. If he ignores you, you pretend you don't see it.

    Walk past them quietly, as if you were strangers. I've never encountered it before, because if it does, it's all arranged by God. So don't be embarrassed about that, after all, the two of you may have been away for a long time.

    If you can't be together in love, then we wish him happiness with other people.

    You may sometimes feel that when you are divorced and see your ex and other people so happy, you really feel really uncomfortable. This is really nothing, because divorce is not something that everyone can control, and if we are not happy in this marriage, we can choose to divorce. Because we are divorced, we are in pursuit of our own better love.

    In the face of the unhappiness of love, we need to let him pass. So in the face of love, although divorced, you can still find your true love. The ex's words, just let it pass.

    Because after all, it was the former people. In the face of the people of the past, we can only wave our sleeves and not take away a cloud. Then you need to get away and live your own life again.

    In the face of love, everyone has to pursue the happiness of love, so you should pursue it too.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're going to be unhappy about this, no one can stand it. Even if you really don't love him, you really don't like it, you can't bear to see him live freely when you haven't gotten rid of the sea of suffering.

    Needless to say, it's divorced, even if the current young couple sees that the other party has a new love after breaking up, it will still be very uncomfortable, even if he gave up first, and he still feels very unhappy when he sees others with his new love when he hasn't taken off the single.

    After all, that person was his own in the first place, and he was only good to himself.

    Now he is no longer yours, he will no longer do certain things because you are happy or unhappy, he now likes another person.

    Sometimes it may be because you can't stand some of his habits or can't stand his attitude towards you and break up, but now there is a person who likes him for some reason, you will feel that you have missed it, and even have a feeling that you want to redeem it.

    I'm a particularly possessive person myself. So sometimes I don't like you anymore, and I don't want you to be nice to others. I can't stand you being nice to anyone else until I give up completely.

    I remember the last time I fell out of love, one day I suddenly heard that he actually had a new girlfriend, in fact, I had long thought that there would be such a day, but I didn't expect this day to come so quickly, it was really uncomfortable.

    To be honest, I even suspect that they got together before, and the more I think about it, the more I feel pitted, after all, I haven't gotten out of the shadow of broken love here, he has a new love, and I have to question his feelings for me at the beginning.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm a person full of love in my heart, I think even if two people break up, but that can be friends, since it's a friend, it will definitely bless each other, right, even if you meet your ex and his new love, I think you should also politely bless them, after all, no one stipulates that if you are separated, you can't have a new relationship.

    Although I'm not married, but I also have an ex, I also met my former boyfriend on the road, although I still have a little embarrassment in my heart, but I will still greet warmly, and then an embarrassing and polite smile, I think you should be broad-minded, since you have separated from each other and found a better object, then you should be blessed, I don't think there is anything wrong with this.

    I once walked on the street with a friend of mine, and then met her ex with her new girlfriend in her arms, my friend's face was green at the time, and her expression was out of control, I thought it was so scary, my friend was not friends after breaking up with her ex, it can be said that she hated that man, so her emotions were a little out of control at that time.

    I think if a divorced woman is with a former boyfriend and a new girlfriend now, what reason is there to complain?You're married and divorced, it's even more impossible for you, it's useless to be angry, although I'm definitely angry in my heart, but I think you should let go of your mind, let go of the past, and live your own life in the future.

    My greatest pride is that I am friends with my ex after I broke up, and I will not feel embarrassed at all, and we will also bless each other, don't complain in my heart, at least the previous relationship, not a friend and not an enemy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't know, I haven't experienced it, I don't have the right to speak, so let's give the opportunity to experienced children's shoes.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, because there is no need to entangle after the divorce, and each other should start a new relationship, so they will not contact their ex.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, because I don't have children between my ex and me, we are familiar strangers after the divorce.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not necessarily, if two people have children, they will still contact each other after the divorce, and if there are no children, there is no need to contact the ex again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think there will be a relationship, because we have a common child, although we divorced him, but the child is still a common child, I can't let the child lose his mother's love or father's love because of the divorce, that is unfair to the child, and it is not conducive to his growth, I feel that I want to take custody of the child after the divorce, let the child live with me, but also let the ex visit the child on time, will let the child get along with him.

    Divorce is a matter of two people, I think after the divorce, there should be contacts between me and my ex, but the contacts are mostly related to the children, because the healthy growth of the child is inseparable from the care of the parents, after the divorce, the child can not let the child cut off contact with the ex, so that the child will have a lack of father's love, which is not conducive to his healthy growth, although he pays child support on time, but the spiritual support is also extremely important, so I will contact the ex to let him get along with the child, so that the child gets the care he deserves.

    I think there will be contacts between the divorce and the ex, artificial divorce is two people who are not in harmony or have incompatible personalities, there is no deep hatred, even if they can't be husband and wife, they will not become enemies, although divorced, they can get along as ordinary friends, because after all, they have lived together for so many years, have a common circle of friends, and have common children, if they do not interact at all, it is unrealistic. Besides, there are not many unsightly things about divorce now, it is a matter between two people, you can get along generously, and there is no need to worry too much.

    I think that after the divorce, although there is a certain amount of contact with the ex, there will be too many contacts, limited to necessary friend gatherings or things related to the children, and will not contact him too often, especially after I re-establish a family with my ex, I will reduce the contact with my ex, which is conducive to the stability and unity of the two reorganized families, and will not cause unnecessary misunderstandings In addition, when I need to contact my ex, I will inform my husband in advance and obtain his consent. I may also ask my husband to accompany me to contact my ex so that he can feel my trust in him, which is fairer to my current husband and will not cause family conflicts because of contact with my ex.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If we have children between the two of us, I will have some contact; Otherwise, I will disconnect completely and everyone will be fine after the divorce.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Actually, I don't have a relationship because I want to start a new life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, since two people have been separated, there is no need to interact with each other, unless two people have children in common, which is unavoidable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The best way for strangers to get along is to meet after divorce and childbirth, and another problem involved is that the workplace must not be with the partner, otherwise it will be embarrassing to break up or divorce in the future. I figured if I got divorced, I definitely wouldn't be able to live under the same roof as that person. I would be sad to see his every move.

    Although I'm a bit moody, I have a good personality and don't get angry easily. I would choose to understand and tolerate a lot of things. Being able to divorce proves that there is an irreconcilable contradiction between two people, so it is equivalent to incompatibility.

    How to meet and be friends, especially when you see your former lovers talking and laughing with others, and even flattering others, you will be very disgusted. In order not to deteriorate the relationship, you have to choose strangers. I can still be friends after the divorce.

    It's a nice reunion, but I can't do it. If there are two children, it is still necessary for them to meet, and nothing else is possible.

    Even if you have mutual friends, you need to attend common occasions and strive to be strangers. Those who promised to live with me for the rest of their lives are now going to be strangers. I still go home and cry for a while, and then make myself something delicious.

    To be honest, now I don't even have a partner, and I'm really scared of divorce and hunger because there is so much uncertainty about what I'm asking for, and who can tell the future? It's that good, it's safe to come. It's not a good habit to have gains and losses.

    There are benefits to having an object, and it is better to fall in love with each other when you get married than anything else.

    He felt that she had been pestering him like this, and he must not let him go, and maybe there was a possibility of remarriage. The ex-wife left Zhang Bin after knowing that he was divorced. You're already married to another woman, and you already have someone else in mind.

    For me, it's not true love at all. I don't mind that you're already married to another woman, so I won't remarry you! In the end, Zhang Bin, who returned in vain, stood on the street in the heavy rain, not knowing where to go.

    His time was wasted, and his heart was filled with remorse and heartache. Why do men still associate with their ex-wives after divorce? A man is willing to have a relationship with his ex-wife after a divorce, but he just can't let go.

    At the end of the day, there is no such thing as a divorce psychologically.

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