Is it easy to love a boy who is much younger than yourself?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The age gap is not the distance of love!

    Love comes from liking, but they're just feelings!

    I'm scared before I even start, so it's better to give up early! Because, this one"war"Before you even start playing, you decide that the losing side is you!

    Although marriage is realistic, love is also realistic. There is no right or wrong in love! It's painful that people who love each other can't be together!

    Why did you bow your head if you haven't tried it, why didn't you fight for it? How did you decide it"No way"This?

    So unself-confident? People who don't even have the courage to love are not worthy of saying love at all! Fear will not solve the problem, face the reality bravely, and be strong no matter what the result is.

    People grow up in the midst of setbacks. The result is not important, the experience is the best proof to prove that your life is meaningful!

    Wishing you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Doesn't matter. There is no age limit for love.

    As long as you truly love each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not easy, but it's not worth giving up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Age isn't an issue

    But he'd better be more mature, or you're more childish than him.

    From personal experience, I really don't like people who are younger than me. I still like mature men, I feel down-to-earth and not tired. Everything is thought of for you, and you have a lot of ideas for your future, which makes you feel very hopeful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The age difference is not a problem with potato beams, but the mental difference is the most fatal...

    There are a lot of rules and regulations when everyone fantasizes about love, but when it comes to talking, these standards will be broken.

    In the process of counseling, I am often asked this question: Can an older man really fall in love with a girl who is much younger than him?

    In fact, the relationship between men and women with a large age gap often has other emotional factors besides love.

    But it's certainly true that there is such a rule in the social circle of ordinary people:

    Unless you are the kind of person who has a very high personal value and can choose a partner at will, anyone else who has a partner who is much younger than you is basically not competitive in the same age group.

    A man who has very strong hard power and does not need his partner to work and progress together with him may need a young girl to be a vase around him.

    Such a girl can handle it, but she basically won't marry home.

    Or they will find a girl who is much younger than their age and is also very good, at this time the value of the girl is not only about appearance, then this man may have some true feelings.

    In another circle, if you are an ordinary person who needs a partner to provide some value to yourself, and at the same time has to work together with your partner to support a family, normal men will not look for girls who are much younger than their age.

    To be honest, there are a lot of older men who come to me for consultation, but all those who stare at other people's little girls are basically pure losers

    How to say it, there is no competition in the circle of peers, and even the conditions are poor, and the parties are not very capable and self-motivated, but there are still a lot of color hearts.

    Sometimes I speak more ugly, and they will ask me, "Am I not worthy of a relationship with her because I'm much older than her and I don't have any money?" ”

    I can laugh every time, but what else? Why is the little girl with you? Figure how old are you? Figure you don't take a bath?

    In fact, I know very well that young girls, if they want to find a man older than themselves in choosing a mate, they basically have two demands.

    The first is that the material foundation is better, and the other is that the other party can take care of themselves and help themselves.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. Liking young is a genetic and spiritual need.

    Human beings have had an unspoken love for beauty and youth since ancient times, and the pursuit of youth has never stopped. In the eyes of Duo Ziqin, youth represents or relates to vitality, and it pulls people's primitive throbbing. Therefore, men's preference for young women is a manifestation of the fusion of genes and ideas.

    2. Comparison of the same sex.

    3. Youth represents the hope and pursuit of life, and being with young women will make them feel the vitality of youth again, so that they also seem to have returned to their youthful and courageous years, and it is this kind of appeal that makes them more ideal for life.

    You may fall in love, but you also have to divide people.

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