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There are many kinds of temperament, which one do you want to have?
Temperament comes from self-confidence. No matter what kind of temperament, it is all due to enough self-confidence. And no matter which aspect of strong self-confidence, will produce different temperament, literati pay attention to "belly poetry and calligraphy from China" is to say that the literati's temperament is the best in cultural self-confidence.
The murderous or evil spirit of a martial artist is the confidence of his own killing skills, and the same is true for scientists, politicians, businessmen, etc. Even blue-collar workers such as senior mechanics will also have temperament because of their technical self-confidence, but their temperament is only revealed when they are working, and life is not an occasion for them to reflect their self-confidence, so their temperament is rarely seen by outsiders. That's why there is a saying that "men are the most attractive when they work hard", because when they are doing serious work, their self-confidence is the easiest to show.
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You must have your own characteristics (don't follow the trend), dare to act (don't do the villain's things), have quality (treat people kindly, be good at listening), have your own hobbies (increase the opportunity to resonate with people), as long as you develop in a good direction, I think the temperament will get better and better. Hehe...
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Just change yourself to be more perfect
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How to make yourself more temperamental, first of all, you must be financially independent, do what you want to do, and you should have the temper you should have.
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If you become more temperamental, first of all, you should have self-cultivation, well, make yourself more cultivated.
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1. Pay attention to personal hygiene, when you see a person, the first thing you see is your appearance, and a person with temperament must pay attention to personal hygiene. Good personal habits, try to correct your own small bad habits.
2. Cultivate your inner self-cultivation, read more books, listen more to the opinions and suggestions of your predecessors, listen to the speeches of those celebrities, and learn to transform them into your own knowledge.
3. Good eloquence, have a unique way of thinking when speaking, arouse the interest of others, and the content of the conversation should be hierarchical and not verbose.
4. Pay attention to sunscreen, sunscreen has the least investment in whitening and anti-aging, and the return is the largest. Believe me, "one white covers a hundred ugliness" is true. The simplest sunscreen for lazy people is:
Parasol + sunscreen in summer, a layer of sunscreen in autumn and winter. Many people may say that there are sunscreen ingredients in skin care products now, but the effect is really minimal.
2.We should pay attention to learning to improve ourselves, a woman's inner temperament beauty is an unconscious exposure, not just superficial work, if there is no ink on the chest, only rely on luxury and beautiful clothes to dress up, she is destined to have no temperament at all, on the contrary, it will give others a superficial feeling. If a woman wants to improve her temperament, in addition to paying attention to dressing properly and speaking in a measured manner, she must continue to enhance her knowledge through reading and learning, enrich her experience, and let herself have a mentality and ability to deal with all problems more easily.
3.It is necessary to pay attention to cultivating a kind of indifferent and ambitious life cultivation, optimistic and cheerful mental state, and always maintain a kind of vitality in life and work, so that people feel radiant and radiant, behave generously and decently, and always have a strong optimistic and upward appeal! As long as such a woman appears, she must appear with light, and the audience will applaud and welcome her.
On the contrary, if she has a sad face all day long, complains about the sky, and looks decadent, it is too late for others to hide from her, how can she have a beautiful temperament?
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A message to you:
Su Dongpo's famous sayings through the ages:
There is poetry and writing in the belly. ”
The true beauty of a woman comes from the edification of bookishness, and most of the bookish women have elegant temperament and decent manners. This is the subtle transformation of the bookish spirit, and the natural expression of the inner Lingxiu intelligence and profound cultural cultivation through the body and appearance. The so-called "belly has poetry and books from China", this is the truth.
On the contrary, the so-called "hateful face if you don't read" refers to those embroidered pillows with no ink on their chests and dull hearts. Reading can enable women to obtain a poetic rhyme that cannot be replaced by beauty techniques and cosmetics, which is the purest and supreme beauty of a modern woman, and the beauty that does not fade with the passage of time. Women, go to the book to seek beauty prescriptions, "the book has its own beauty like jade". ^
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