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It is said that first love is the most beautiful and unforgettable. Everyone will go through a lot in their life, whether it is what you want to forget or what you can't forget, things will slowly blur over time. Since you choose to break up, you must learn to face it, adjust your mentality, hide this most beautiful relationship deep in your heart, don't deliberately forget it, everything goes naturally, even if you can't forget it for a lifetime, it is normal, the important thing is that you have to learn to face it at present, and do other things with a normal attitude, after a long time, you will find that although it is unforgettable, but over time, this relationship will have its own place in your heart.
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If you don't cherish it when you're around, you regret it when you lose it
Speechless!! Have you seen Journey to the West? Do you know that classic line? Think about it!!
Know how to cherish before you lose
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First love is the most memorable and the most beautiful Maybe it will stay in your mind for a lifetime, even if you will forget, it will take a long time Why forget?
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I advise all people in the world to cherish everyone around them, and not to cherish it when they are lost. After that, I regretted it. I have a good understanding of the meaning of this sentence, but few people have done it.
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It's really hard to forget. Think about it, or reconcile.
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I believe that everyone has a person who can't love in their hearts, that person occupies your entire youth and teaches you what love is.
Especially my first love, I believe it is difficult for everyone to forget.
The reason why the first love is blind or can make such a deep impression on yourself is because he is the first person to enter your relationship and the first person to make your heart move.
For him, you can give everything or give it all. The original impulse was just to be with him, regardless of the opposition of his parents.
But because you are still young, your parents will not agree to you being together. So, this relationship is over.
Even so, after many years, you still think of him and still haven't forgotten him.
There is an example of this in my case, two people met at the age of seventeen or eighteen, and after a year or two together, the woman's parents still did not approve of them being together.
The two had to separate, but now, five or six years later, they meet again, and they are together again.
This time, they didn't listen to their parents, and they didn't object to them being together.
If their parents hadn't objected at the time, maybe they would still be together and live happily ever after.
So, a lot of things, it's not that you can do what you want to do, but that you have to go against your will and have to give in to reality.
In fact, there are many reasons why two people can't be together, and it's not just the parents. In the end, the two people are still emotionally incompatible, or not suitable.
Feelings still have to go through many tribulations before they can achieve positive results. But for people who are in love for the first time, maybe it is really hard to forget.
There is such a person in everyone's heart, which cannot be said, but can only be hidden in the heart. Even after all these years, he still hides it in his heart.
But this is just a kind of memory of the past, after all, life still has to look forward.
For some people, first love is a pity. Since when you are young, you can't be together, so two people still have to be together when they are old.
They had met by a lake, and even after decades, he still remembered her. He still wants to rekindle his old relationship with her, and the most important thing is that both of their wives have died.
Naturally, the two of them are naturally together. At the same time, it also makes up for the regrets of their youth, so that the two of them will not leave regrets in their old age.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, the first person to break into his life may be the one he will never forget in this life.
For him, her existence has a special meaning.
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Sister Yunlu, although I don't know why I broke up, but I think I still like that should have been together in the first place, and you can't talk about it like this if you want to forget about him, this will not only hurt you, but also hurt what you have talked about, and if you can't forget his words, hurry up and find him to get back together, don't paralyze yourself.
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Some people may not have the courage to start a relationship again after many years of breakup, and this situation can be improved in the following three ways:1. Go out and contact others more; 2. Strive to improve yourself; 3. See a psychologist
First of all, some people don't start a new relationship after breaking up for many years because they are used to the current life, and some people don't dare to fall in love because they have been traumatized, but we must understand that not every love in the world is exactly the same, we must learn to contact different people, so that we can see a different world, otherwise we will be more and more reluctant to go out if we have been staying in our own world.
And let you go out to contact others, not to let you go on a blind date or to "fish", but to go out to contact friends, to meet friends of friends, and gradually you will meet a person who you have a good impression of, in fact, a good feeling will easily arise, if you don't go out all the time, you will never meet such a person.
In addition, there are some people who dare not go out to fall in love, just because they have no confidence in themselves, in fact, we should understand that what others like is the unique you, as long as you have no principled problems, then it is okay to be deficient in other places, there is no need to take Liu Yifei's appearance to demand yourself.
Finally, if you still can't go out and fall in love, then there is an immediate way, that is, to see a psychologist, the psychologist can accurately find your problem, can help you relieve the emotions you dare not face in your heart, and please be sure to trust the psychologist, give yourself completely to them, they will use their expertise to help you solve the problems you currently feel you can't solve.
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You can meet new opinions, you can also make new friends, and you can participate in more blind dates and dating parties in your life. You can start a new life for yourself.
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You should be brave enough to take this step, look for the sweetness of love, and let yourself take this step by communicating with others or by contacting others.
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I think first of all, you should change your mind, and you should also know that you deserve to meet someone better, and when you meet someone you like, you should be brave to confess or be brave enough to get along with others, so that you can start a relationship again.
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The reason why I can't forget my ex is because I like it too much, I care too much, and you don't mean that you haven't reached the peak of that kind of affection for this person, so you won't think about it, and there is another kind that you are more sensible, and a breakup is a breakup, and I agree with your concept.
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That's because you don't have a real relationship with your ex at all. As for the answer to the second question, it is also very simple: you talk about every relationship without showing true feelings.
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In fact, forgetting the ex is to use a timely supplement to the current one, but now if you are really not satisfied, then you will definitely think of the ex.
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It's enough to be in a relationship for about a year. The remainder may continue after the marriage. Because people are very variable, it is necessary to communicate and communicate frequently.
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