Why are you separated from the person you love the most?

Because of the distance, many people say that long-distance relationships can test true love, I want to say that long-distance relationships are really difficult, without each other's company when they are at their most powerless, they don't know how each other is doing, and they don't even have time to contact when they are busy, so that love is slowly diluted until they separate.

After the work, the work content of the two parties is different, the time is different, the nature is different, and the people and things encountered are different. It's not like the universities are all together. I hate it when my ex-girlfriend says to me

What's the matter, isn't a boyfriend supposed to be like this? And I myself naturally always say things like "please be considerate, thank you for being considerate" to my girlfriend. In 5 years, I have done a lot for her, and she has done a lot for me.

We used to love each other very much, and we were also favored by our friends. But when love becomes a life full of the market, and the pressure is coming, those changes in the three views that were once unintentional will be constantly amplified in every quarrel. You say, how did he change?

How did it get like this? At first, the two of you will be able to solve the problem together and actively repair the crack. (Looking back now, my efforts to repair the relationship with my ex-girlfriend turned out to be so good, so positive and uplifting) However, after many arguments, there will always be a time when I can't hold back.

Then a string broke.

Because they are confidants of each other. We are too familiar with each other, we know each other too well, we know each other's every move, and we even know the tone of our voices. Like a mirror that penetrates through each other, he sees me as he sees him, and I see him as he sees me.

We can be friends, relatives, brothers and sisters, but we can't be together. And all of the above, needless to say, others don't understand, I understand, he understands. Then be friends above, lovers are not enough!

The reason for breaking up with your ex, well, how to say it. When I talk about him to everyone, I describe him as "mature and steady, romantic and emotional, and handsome." "My friends knew that he was very nice to me, and I used to think about how many good things I had done in my last life to make me meet him......(The above is all nonsense, let's get to the point) When talking about why I broke up, I said it was inappropriate.

And what I thought at first was that it might be that after getting along for a long time, his enthusiasm was gone (almost two years together), and he began to be cold and violent, but at that time I was more attentive to him, and the contact became less and less, and even later, he ignored people for a few days, and everyone could know that he didn't love him, but I didn't want to accept it, and I was still struggling to keep it. I went to him and he didn't see him, and then I couldn't stand it anymore and broke up. It wasn't until after the breakup that I saw more and more how scummy he was, and he would contact me occasionally, every time when he needed my help, and then start saying that he was sorry for me.

But I'm also cheap, and I still always miss him.

Because of the long place, because of the opposition of the parents, because the door is not the right household. But it's strange that we still loved so much at that time, saying that we wanted to fight against the world and didn't want to be separated. Later, they separated because they no longer loved. So it's also a peaceful breakup.

After graduating from high school, they broke up in different places because of distrust, and then one between the two of them was in the south and the other was in the north, and the two of them didn't have the courage to face a long-distance relationship because of the distance, and finally they found a new girlfriend, and I spent four years here to reminisce and reminisce and be reluctant to give up, and now I give up and am with others.

He thought that other women had broken up with me. Then the excuse was that his dad didn't approve of me being with him, and now I've found a new partner, and I especially like the current one. Then my ex came back to me, and then I went back.

There are so many couples in this world, it is too rare to be able to achieve positive results, and even some people have to separate from their beloved for various reasons when they are in love, so will the process of separation be painful? The answer, of course, is yes, but two people who have loved each other will be separated from this matter and suffer for a long time.

What does it feel like to be separated from your beloved? You will fall into an emotional deficit for a long time, and every time you think of something about him, you can't help but recall it, and thenThe pain is unbearable, causing a lot of trauma in the psyche, and this trauma is still an existence that you have not discovered, and this painful memory will stay with you for a long time, making you fall into a state of emotional loss. No matter how much the person next to you tries to persuade you, it will be difficult for you to get out.

At the same time, when you meet other people, you can't lift the spirit to know and fall in love, and you enter a closed self-state, in which you can only rely on yourselfWillCome out, maybe time is the medicine.

After separating from the person you love the most, you will be miserable for a long time, and the people around you will give you all kinds of advice, some will propose to start a new relationship, distract your pain and attention, but experience, time is**A good way for your wounds, if you really can't start a new relationship, but also respect for the newcomer, you still take time to survive, you can always survive until you don't suffer, this process is usually more than 6 months, when you find that you recall the person you once loved, you will no longer feel that heartache, then you start from thisPaincame out.

So, what would it be like to be separated from the person you love the most? Probably the pain that you can't have in this life, obviously still in the same time and space, you can't meet again in the future, this kind of pain is the process of falling out of love that many people will experience, after all, it is difficult to fall in love, and it is not easy to be able to separate in this life, just get through the painful process.

Yes. Because I'm very emotional, and when I'm separated from the person I love the most, I feel like the whole world is dark, so I'm miserable.

It will be very painful, this is a very painful process for me, this process is to integrate a person into life and forcibly drag it out, it is a process of separation of flesh and blood, but we should also slowly get out of this predicament, otherwise it will have a very strong impact on us.

I must feel a lot of pain, because two people have been together for a long time and have a very deep relationship, so I feel very uncomfortable.

Before I get to that point, I'll start by saying a very cliché that what you can't get is always the best. Just like Eason Chan.

In his song "Red Rose".

The lyrics in the can't get are always in the commotion.

This is true for each of us, that is, what is not gained, or what is lost, that is, what we no longer have, is precisely what we are most difficult to give up. To put it simply, it is only after losing it that you know how to cherish it.

It can be said that each of us in a relationship actually has something to look forward to. For example, some young people very much hope that two people can go on for a long time, enter the palace of marriage, give birth to the crystallization of love, and build their own love nest.

And when all this is interrupted for some reason, that is, after the breakup. was once an imaginary result, and the relationship between them was even more unforgettable. It's like something you've worked so hard to create, but now you suddenly can't continue, so it's hard to let go of your heart.

I think you have also heard the saying that we are most likely to ignore the people around us. This is because the distance is too close, and we just ignore the beauty around us, so when we lose it, we really understand how precious it is that we have it at the beginning.

It can be said that it is precisely because the distance between the two parties is too close that they just ignore these beauties, and even slowly get used to each other's contributions. And when these things are suddenly missing from our lives, we will find out that he has played such an important role in your life.

This situation is also more common, that is, after a breakup, a man and a woman suddenly change from two people to one person, and watch their friends around them all enter in pairs. And he is alone, at this time, there is inevitably a sense of loss in his heart.

At times like this, it will be easier to think about your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, as if he is not useless as he imagined.

There is no harm if there is no comparison, when you break up with the other person and meet the next one, you will compare the ex with the current one, so you feel that the one you love the most is the ex.

Everyone feels that they love each other the most after breaking up, which confirms the old saying, what is lost is the favorite, men and women are together, this is a happy love process, the kind of gold list title, before and after the moon, it is nothing more than that.

The days of love are happy, and a happy life depends on our own creation, and it depends on both parties to operate together, and if we lose it, we only have good memories, which are like a soldering iron, deeply imprinted in the hearts of both parties, so we love each other the most after breaking up.

If everyone feels that they love each other the most after breaking up, it shows that what they lose is the most worth having, and then they know how to cherish it after they lose it.

If you don't cherish what you get, you will understand when you lose it, this is a feeling that many people will have, this is because they often can't see each other's good when they are together, and they don't know until they compare others after they break up.

In fact, some people do think so now, thinking that breaking up is for the other party, in fact, this is not correct, and it is not very responsible, if you really like each other and love each other, you should pay for each other, two people to pay for each other, this is not the main thing is not to get rid of some responsibilities.

Because when we are together, many things are naturally at our fingertips, and after losing them, we know that they are precious and cherished.

Maybe two people feel that it is not appropriate to be together, so it is the best thing for each other to do after separation.

Because there is an old saying that you only know how to cherish after you lose, it may be that you lose the other party after the breakup, and you feel that the other party is the person you love the most, so you have to try your best to redeem it, and you don't want to lose this relationship.

Because people are like this, only after losing, will they feel that the other party is their most important person, and will they see the importance of the other party, not to mention, the two people also had deep feelings before, and breaking up was just an impulse.

Only after the breakup can you love each other, and only then can you understand the cherishing of the loss and be able to discover the advantages of the other party.

Everyone feels that it is only after a breakup. To love each other, why is that? That's because after the breakup, the other party left him, saw his thoughts clearly, he shouldn't break up with the other party, and the most important thing is that he didn't know how to cherish it together, and he would regret it.

Because you lose it, you know that it is precious, and what you get will never be cherished, and everyone has this common problem.

I feel that I only love each other most after breaking up, that is because I don't cherish it enough when we are together, and I don't know how good the other party is until I calm down. So it's normal for this reaction to occur.

Everyone feels that they only love each other most after a breakup, because only when they calm down after a breakup do they know how good the other party is. That's why I regret it, and even think that he is the right one for me, which makes it difficult to get out of this relationship.

After breaking up, you can feel the status of the other party in your mind, and you will know how you can't manage love in the past, and you will feel the other party's dedication to yourself, so some people only love each other most after breaking up.

This is because you didn't cherish each other when you were in love, and only after you broke up did you know that the other person was your favorite, so there are many people who seek to get back together after a breakup.

Hello, because everyone feels that they don't love when they have it, and they will cherish it after they lose it, because they will never meet someone as good as each other again, so they will regret it.

Everyone feels that they only love each other most after breaking up, and that is because he feels that only at this time can he know that the other party is the most suitable and best person for him, so he will be good to each other and love each other the most.

Because I don't know how to cherish when I'm together, I will feel how important the other party is when I lose each other. This situation is very common, but there are very few people who can save the relationship, so you still have to cherish the person in front of you, and don't wait until you lose it to want to cherish it.

Everyone feels that only after the breakup is to love each other like this, mainly because of the loss of such a face of regret, so I feel that it is the favorite, I did not cherish it at that time, in fact, it is a mistake, should start a new life, if you feel broken up, it is a pity to chase back.

Everyone feels that they only love each other when they break up, mainly because they don't cherish their love for you when they are with each other, and they will feel regretful and sad after breaking up.

Everyone feels that only after the breakup when they love each other the most, it actually means that they regret the relationship, and finally woke up when they broke up, in fact, they don't know how to cherish when they have it, and they know that they love it very much when they break up.