When did you start to feel that going to school was a pain?

If you feel that reading is painful, because you don't know that what you have learned can be used in **, when you encounter various problems in your life and need all kinds of knowledge, you have the motivation to learn without feeling pain, now you feel painful and do not learn well, and you will encounter problems in the future to re-learn but you are unable to miss the best learning environment and opportunity, then it is the most painful thing. That's why so many people miss their previous study life so much when they go out to work, and many people regret not learning knowledge, don't take reading as a burden, in addition to reading, you can also cultivate some interests to adjust your reading life.

I think that's right! I feel that going to school is a happy family and painful! Life is like lemon juice, sweet and sour.

Some people think that sour is good, some people like sweet parts, everyone has a different mood and a different living environment, so it is normal to feel different! For example, if a person who doesn't like to study, he will feel miserable when he is put in class, and he will feel that sitting for an extra minute is tormenting: and some people who like to have excellent academic performance, think that the teachers and classmates in the school are so cute, and can learn knowledge, have good friends, and can get a good future, of course he will feel happy in school.

But it's more about us, think it's bittersweet and bittersweet, right? Because we are ordinary students and have ordinary happiness, but we are extraordinary ourselves, so we have happiness that others can't have.

You're not alone. Actually, I'm often like this (I'm also a student). For this aspect, I think it's because you don't have an interest in reading, and you find it boring, just like when I was in class, I felt that the math teacher was a hypnotist...

If you're in pain, try to relax.

In fact, there are many more, you have not been exposed to it, and reading is a happy thing. If you go to the unit to do something you don't like, you have to finish it, and if you make a mistake, you will be criticized, this is similar to studying, and your grades are the same as the income in the unit. If the teacher looks pleasing to the eye, the score is much higher, and the unit is also related to the leader, and the bonus is also a lot.

When I was in school, I felt bad, and the pain was not enough, but when I was about to work, I realized that reading was actually really good, maybe people will only feel it after they have lost, and this will only be known if they have experienced it themselves.

Your happiness and pain are so well described! There is nothing in life that is perfect and always smooth, so it will bring us some unhappiness, but it is because of these imperfections and unhappiness in life that people will pursue something, let people continue to work hard, innovate and develop in their dreams, and bring spiritual and material happiness to people!

Standing in a different perspective is like this, if you go to school, you will think that it is painful, if you drop out, you will think that going to school is the best! I think so too, but when you think about it, nothing in the world is simple! Go to your school, friend!

Pain at work.

It is the consumption of young people who are getting higher and higher. Contemporary young people's family conditions are getting better and better, the quality of life is relatively high since childhood, and the early income is relatively low after work, but the daily consumption is not low, and there are more and more consumption methods such as shopping malls, movies, bars, and friends dinners, and it is difficult for salary income to support consumption.

Contemporary young people are becoming more and more aware of their rights in the workplace. In the face of PUA in the workplace, many young people choose to resist head-on, fight directly from the boss, fight for their rights in time, and even fire the boss.

In the past, it was not easy for employees to get a job, and in the face of this situation, they chose to swallow their anger, even if they were wronged at work, they could only digest it slowly. Many young people have been at a loss in the face of the workplace environment, and the pain is getting deeper and deeper.

Not only tired, but also tired. Long working hours are not the most painful, but painful are ineffective working hours. For example, if today's work is done, or if you are out of shape, or you don't get off work, you have to pretend to be working.

A certain decision is obviously useless when you know that it is done, but it is arranged by the leader of the collapse, and it must be done hard.

There is no hope of achieving this year's target, but a positive attitude must be put on, and the more you can't achieve it, the more you have to show that you are working hard. The reason for this is that the evaluation criteria for the quality of work are not in your hands. When a job is completed, you think it's useless to do a good job, and it must be approved by the leader or Party A before it is finished.

The leader or Party A has the right to evaluate because they paid for your labor time. With so many employees in the company, the rules cannot be tailored for everyone, and one-size-fits-all is the most cost-effective approach.

Treat your work as a career

When you take the current work as your lifelong career, your attitude is different, then the attitude determines the height of the problem, and the way to solve the problem is naturally optimal.

Hello dear, it's a pleasure to serve you. Because I'm already working now, and I'm also a bachelor's degree, so I think I can reply to you if I have both experiences. For me, going to work is more painful, first of all, I belong to a more shy and introverted personality, for me, when I was in school, maybe I was hidden in the class group, and I didn't need to show my personality too much.

So, I might be in an obscure role. But when you go to work, you need to create value with your boss, you need to be seen, the more you are seen, the higher your salary, it is more painful for me, although I earn money, but I need to show myself too much.

Hello, dear. Compared with going to work, it must be harder to go to work, which is a fact, and work is indeed harder than studying.

Hello, dear. Although going to school is very tiring and I can't understand it, these contents can change the way we think about problems, and you may be pointed out by others when you are tired, and Gong Dou is really down to work, of course, no matter how you go to school, you will eventually go to work, I hope you can enjoy a little more when you go to school, cherish a little more of the life that is now accompanied by acres, and learn lessons from learning, enhance your ability to resist pressure, It is also quick to deal with interpersonal relationships at work, and I hope you can maintain a positive and optimistic attitude to pursue the peach blossom source in your heart!

Children always feel that going to school is a painful thing, and I basically didn't feel this way when I went to school. <>

When I was in elementary school, I had a lot of friends, and I thought it was a joy to go to school, and I was doing well in the class by myself. At that time, I was in the same class with my girlfriend, and the teacher was very good, it was really a good experience to go to and from school with my girlfriend every day, my girlfriend was a good student, she would help me study during recess, and the children now feel that going to school is a very painful thing probably because they have a lot more study time than we did then, parents will sign them up for after-school cram school, and they will go to an interest class after writing homework on Saturdays and Sundays. The environment they are in now is like this, all parents want their children to be "both civil and military", so most of today's children feel that going to school is a very painful thing.

I'm not saying that parents are bad, parents want their children to be better.

Anyway, I don't think going to school is a painful thing, we have friends to accompany each other every day during school, and homework will be completed on time with the help of peers, in fact, we also had interest classes (two hours a week), but at that time, our interest classes were because of our own interest and we voluntarily asked our parents to sign up. I think it would have been much better for us to make our own choices than for children now. And nowadays, when children go home and play with their mobile phones, they will also compare their hearts (it is much easier to play with mobile phones than to write homework and go to school, so they are reluctant to go to school and feel that going to school is a very painful thing.

When I was in school, smartphones weren't very common, so we spent a lot of face-to-face time with our teachers and classmates, and our peers pushed each other very hard to study. As the old saying goes: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black."

I think that today's children can learn from the way we got along at that time, and maybe they won't feel that going to school is a painful thing. We should pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and the child's nature cannot be erased, I think this is a very important thing. <>

When I was in high school, I was very busy and had a lot of schoolwork, but I still had to pay attention to activities in my spare time, and we would play shuttlecock and badminton for ten minutes after class. Is this kind of school life painful? I don't think so!

And I'm an art student myself, so I don't feel that going to school is a painful thing to do when facing the pressure of cultural and professional classes. On the contrary, I think it's a cool thing. <>

In the end, I don't feel like I was in school and didn't have that painful feeling.

When a child goes to school, he feels that going to school is a painful thing, and this is something that almost everyone has. First of all, it's really hard to study. I wake up early and come home late every day, and I still have a lot of homework. Well, almost no free time of your own. Ideally, students are required to adjust themselves.

When I was in school, I did feel this way, I didn't like going to school very much, and I always found all kinds of reasons to not go to school, so I wanted it to rain, so I could not go to school.

I also had it when I was in school, because it was a repetitive job. It's very boring.

When I was in the third year of junior high school, I lived on campus, and every night the people in the dormitory always liked to chatter, and they could grind until eleven or twelve o'clock, and then the next day's morning self-study was to step on the point and enter the classroom, every time I felt that the early self-study in winter was the most painful, too cold to get out of bed!

The most painful thing for me when I was in school was that I didn't do well in my final exams, and I didn't know how to report my results to my parents when I got home. Because my parents think that my academic performance is relatively good, I am also proud of my grades. So the most unacceptable thing when I was in school, and the most painful thing for me, was that you didn't do well in the exams.

The most painful thing when I went to school was winter, there was no air conditioning in the classrooms in our winter, and then the wind blew in and it was very cold. I remember sitting at the first table before. Then the teacher often opened the door for him, and he said that he wanted to let the air flow, and my feet were so cold that I got frostbite, and it was very painful.

Two words to get up. Whether I live or not, I am very sensitive to getting out of bed. Because I was destined to get up early as soon as I went to school, I really didn't want to get out of bed every winter, but I had to get up because of school.

When I was in school, I didn't learn English well, I was seriously biased, my parents forced me to make up classes, and the teacher took a roll call every day in class, but my grades just couldn't go up, which made me feel very painful.

It's inferiority, I'm always afraid that others will look down on me, so I want to prove myself desperately. Later on, I became more and more inferior. Don't even dare to look up at others.

Exams are the most painful thing, the test results dare not be shown to parents, and our school also has to rank the whole school and the whole class, which is a very embarrassing thing, especially the various nervous reviews before the exam, which I also dislike very much. So when I go to school, I am most afraid of exams.

The most painful thing when I went to school was that I didn't have to overcome the sleepiness, I didn't go to bed late and get up early, I had to memorize a lot of knowledge, and I felt that my brain capacity was not enough.

The most painful thing is to meet a respectable teacher in a class I don't like.

The key to happiness.

Harris, a columnist, and his friend bought a newspaper at a newsstand, and the friend politely thanked the newsman, but the newsman said nothing.

This guy has a bad attitude, doesn't he? Harris asked as they moved on. "He's like that every day.

Friend said. "Then why are you still so polite to him? Harris asked.

The friend replied, "Why should I let him decide what I do?" ”

Everyone has a "key to happiness" in their hearts, but we often unconsciously hand it over to someone else.

One woman complained: "I am very unhappy because my husband often travels on business and does not return to his home office. She put the key in her husband's hand.

One mother said, "My child is very disobedient and makes me angry! She handed the key to the child.

A man might say, "My boss doesn't appreciate me, so I'm depressed." The key was stuffed into the boss's hand again.

These people all made the same decision, which was to let others control their moods.

When we allow others to control our emotions, we feel like victims, and complaining and anger become our only options. We start blaming others and send a message: "You are responsible for my pain!" ”

Such a person makes others dislike and even intimidate.

A mature person can hold the key to his own happiness, and he does not expect others to make him happy, but can bring his own joy and happiness to those around him.

Where we are, whether it is the environment, people, things, or things, it is easy to affect our emotions, but don't forget that the key to happiness is only in your own hands!