Is it hard to let go of first love? Will it be difficult to get out of first love?

Of course, it's difficult, after being together for a long time, we have a lot of understanding each other, and we all think of each other no matter in **, as if we can't do without TA in this world,

Actually, otherwise, depending on your personal thoughts, the current society is much more open, and it is easy to see it, if you can't see it, then you can only slowly forget.

When many people break up with their first love, they will definitely fall in love.

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After all, the person who knew that he had loved so much really couldn't give up.

by - Morning.

It's not difficult, as long as you think about it, take it as a good memory, and think about him when you are alone.

The person you love for the first time may not be the person you love the most in the future...

Your future wife may not be your most memorable person either!

It is always unforgettable for people who walk into their own world for the first time. I can't forget it for so long! But it doesn't mean anything

It's just an impression, that's all!

Generally speaking, the first time is more memorable, the first time is everything, the first time to school, the first time to travel, the first time to be scolded.

Of course, though, some people don't care about their first love.

No matter how deep the love is, whether it's the first time or not, I think it's my own mentality! I used to think I couldn't let go, but now it's not the same and I'm having a good time!

Generally speaking, the first love is the most evocative, no matter who you are with in the future, that beautiful scene will always emerge, unconsciously compare the current lover with the first love.

Yes, the first love that is basically difficult for many people to forget, for the following reasons: 01, it is best not to get it; 02. The beauty of first love cannot be replaced by other loves. But it's not that everyone won't forget, it's just that some people really let go of their first love, so they forget their first love and cherish their current life.

01. If you can't get it, it's the best.

When we like someone for the first time when we are young, our hearts are very nervous, and our eyes involuntarily move with each other, and we always can't help but want to care about each other.

Some people's first love may end without a problem, while others start a relationship with their first love and later separate for one reason or another. But when we mature, it is always easy to miss the previous relationship, and we will also feel that our immaturity hurt the first love, so it will naturally be more difficult to forget the first love.

And for those who have never had their first love, because they are always fantasizing about how wonderful it is to be with their first love, this idea is sometimes almost an obsession, which also makes it more difficult for them to have their first love.

is like Xu Zheng starring Xu Lai in "Hong Kong Embarrassment", although he has married Cai Bin, but he heard that his first love goddess Yang Yi is going to hold an art exhibition, and he has also gone through all kinds of hardships and wants to see his goddess, but after finally meeting his first love, he found that it is not as beautiful as he imagined, not so much that the first love is unforgettable, but that our obsession is unforgettable.

02. The beauty of first love cannot be replaced by other loves.

The reason why first love is beautiful is mainly because we fall in love with someone for the first time, and even are willing to do something for the other person without hesitation, and it is precisely because of this that we feel that first love is beautiful, because first love may exhaust all our courage and ability to love others, so that we will never fall in love with someone so unhesitatingly.

So after the first love, we will still fall in love, but we will never be as decisive as falling in love with the first love, because all our courage is given to the first love, and we will naturally feel that the first love will be more beautiful.

Although most people are hard to forget their first love, some people will treasure their first love in their hearts, because what they want to cherish is the present, because although the first love is beautiful, it can't match the reality of the present.

After having to break up, there is a painful process of longing, but time will dilute everything, and slowly the thoughts will fade, but I will never forget the warblers and swallows under the moon before the flowers for the rest ......of my life

Yes. The feeling of first love is the first feeling of love in life, which is very profound, and every relationship will be very deep. Maintain an optimistic attitude to welcome a new relationship, every relationship is a growth with new feelings.

It's hard to get to the end of first love. Although the first love is young and beautiful, and there is no intervention from other factors, the two people feel that they are not suitable for getting along because they do not have too much experience, and they may break up by themselves.

The first love is the first love at the beginning of human affection, everything is curious, it is the first time in life, of course, it is unforgettable, you and the other half have experienced a lot of their own first, this memory is very beautiful. Hunger.

Two people together will not have any material production code, and two people together will only leave some dust mold search heart happiness and beauty. Because it's the first time I've been in love, the memory will definitely be deeper, so I can't forget it.

First love is particularly pure and unforgettable; This is because the person who loved him for the first time taught himself how to love someone like a bright stool, and let himself know that the sedan key potato is love, so it is difficult to let go.

In the eyes of most people, the first love is very fragile in the eyes of Mei Feng Sakura, because it is the first time I understand and like a person, and the feeling of heartbeat makes you feel particularly good, but if you want this heartbeat to be maintained, it is affected by many factors, so the first love talks about the last silver balance bush very little, most of them are separated because of one reason or another in the process of maintaining this heartbeat, and many of the people who stick to the end are couples who are compatible from appearance to three views and can overcome the influence of other factors. True love because I myself am a person who has not broken up with my first love for almost nine years, and I have also seen many couples around me who talk about getting married for their first love, from my love feelings and their experience, I think the reasons for the first love to finally break up are probably the following three: First, I am just attracted by the appearance of each other Many men and women who are in love with each other look at each other's appearance, he is so handsome, she is so beautiful is the reason why two people are in love, because for this reason, couples who fall in love are easily attracted to other good-looking opposite sex, And because of each other's appearance, couples who are together will find it difficult to bear each other stepping off the altar after being together, because there are more firewood, rice, oil and salt in various lives, and beauty cannot be eaten, so they can't stand each other's vulgarity in reality and break up, so the first love makes people feel so beautiful and so fragile, and it will be broken with one blow.

It starts with the look. The difference between the second and third views is too great, many couples just start to fall in love and don't feel it, and after a long time, they find that the other party has all kinds of problems that make them unbearable, such as the consumption concept of money is very different, some spend money lavishly, some spend money to pick and search, some have a different attitude towards life, some like to get by, and some have high requirements for their own lives, which leads to couples quarreling all day long because of these little things, and the idea of breaking up after a long time comes out. Therefore, it is easy to stick to the first love, and it is because it is too difficult to find someone who is in line with their three views at the beginning, and many people find the right person after many times of love. The three views do not agree.

Third, the time and place are not right, and it is not easy for the first love object not only to meet their own aesthetics in appearance, but also to meet their own aesthetics in three views, often because in the process of falling in love, because of the wrong time and place in love and break up, such as a friend of mine in college, and her boyfriend talked in college for more than three years, and finally wanted to go back to his hometown because he graduated and found a job, but his hometown was not in the same place, and finally ended in a breakup. It is said that graduation season is breakup season, which is also a bit reasonable. So how difficult it is for first love to last until the end, those cheering ducks who are still holding on like me

First love is beautiful and fragile in the eyes of most people, because it is the first time to understand and like a person, and the feeling of heartbeat makes you feel particularly beautiful, but if you want this heartbeat to be maintained, it is affected by many factors, so the first love talks about the last very little, most of them are separated for one reason or another in the process of maintaining this heartbeat, and many of those who stick to the end are couples who fit from appearance to three views and can overcome the influence of other factors.

True love. Because I myself am a person who has not broken up with my first love for almost nine years now, and I have also seen many couples around me who have talked about marriage from their first love, from my love feelings and their experience, I think there are probably the following three reasons for the first love to finally break up:

1. Just being attracted by the other person's appearance.

Many men and women who love for the first time look at each other's appearance, he is so handsome, she is so beautiful is the reason why two people are in love, because for this reason, couples who are in love are easily attracted to other people of the opposite sex who look good, and because of each other's appearance, it will be difficult for each other to stand each other after Feng Sakura walks off the altar, because all kinds of life are more firewood, rice, oil and salt, and beauty cannot be eaten, so it leads to each other can't stand the vulgarity of the other party in reality and break up, so the first love makes people feel so beautiful and so fragile, Shatter with one blow.

It starts with the look. There is too much difference between the second and third views.

Many couples don't feel it when they first fall in love, and after a long time, they find that each other has various problems that make them unbearable, such as the consumption concept of money is very different, some spend money lavishly, some spend money to pick and search, some have different attitudes towards life, some like to get by, and some have high requirements for their own lives, which leads to couples quarreling all day long because of these little things, and the idea of breaking up after a long time comes out. Therefore, it is easy to stick to the first love, and it is because it is too difficult to find someone who is in line with their three views at the beginning, and many people find the right person after many times of love.

The three views do not agree. 3. The time and place are wrong.

Finally, the first love object not only meets their own aesthetics in appearance, but also matches their own aesthetics in three views, often many of them break up because in the process of falling in love, because the time and place of love are not right, such as a friend of mine in college, and her boyfriend talked in college for more than three years, and finally wanted to go back to his hometown because he graduated and looked for a job, but his hometown was not in the same place, and finally ended in a breakup. It's all about graduation season.

The reasons for the breakup of first love are generally as follows:

1.Expectations are too high.

When everyone falls in love for the first time, the definition of love is flawless, and they always think of love as too grandiose.

unconsciously poured too much bargaining chips into this ignorant and youthful love, and gave the other party too high expectations.

Neither of them wants to change for love, but they want to change others.

But what they don't know is that there is no partner with a score of 100, only two people with a score of 50.

2.Freshness is weird.

It is easy for young people to talk about "freshness", in fact, every relationship is not new after a long time.

In the case of economics, as with the diminishing marginal effect, as we fall in love more and more, the positive experience of love fades with the number of times we encounter it.

For example, if you are hungry, eat the first steamed bun is very fragrant, the second one is very fragrant, the third one is okay, the fourth one is full, the fifth one can't eat, and the sixth one is annoyed when you see it!

That is, the sixth bun has zero or even negative effect.

You've been exposed to a lot, and you're the sixth bun.

At this time, there was a new girl who talked to him every day, and that girl was the first bun.

Naturally, you'll break up.

03.Doesn't manage feelings.

Not being able to operate is the reason why most people break up.

In love, self-play, trouble, strong desire to control, etc., will cause you to do a lot of hurtful behaviors in your relationship.

Many people have only been in a relationship, always feel that they are still young, and always think that they deserve better people, so they do not cherish their feelings.

In our youth, we are ignorant, ignorant, and youthful. We don't know what love is, what we like, we like someone or we love someone, just because of the person's appearance. The love we understood at that time and the love we understood when we grew up were not the same love at all.

Therefore, such a first love is not a real first love, because he does not contain a real love to change the travel slippery, and it is easy for such a first love not to go to the end.

Generally, charging is at a relatively young age, many things have not been experienced, and they are not mature enough, so it is easy to break up, when the two stool ants walk together, after experiencing the first love, they will move towards a more mature self, at this time they will find that the first love is not suitable to bury themselves, so they will break up.