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Quarrels are inevitable.
Over time, it will be like this.
After the sweet period of love, it is the quarrel period, and when it passes, it will be together, and it is easy to break up if it is not over.
Mutual consideration and mutual understanding are a must.
Think more from the other person's point of view.
Of course, this is a two-sided issue, not one by you. Let him understand.
Have fun with yourself. Don't stay overnight if you quarrel.
Solving problems as soon as possible is king.
I wish you all happiness.
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In fact, I personally think that this has little to do with humility or not.
It may just be that your presence is blocking his ideal track. Something he thinks you should behave and you do the opposite.
Or maybe that's his character. And it just didn't show it from the beginning of contact.
Personal analysis, there are two suggestions to solve this matter:
1. Two people find a relatively quiet place to put their respective conflicts on the table and solve them openly. Some and what shouldn't be put on the table. Once the matter is clear, then I don't think there is anything that cannot be solved.
2. You may need to be separated from each other for a period of time to think calmly about your own problems. The premise is that the two of them make an appointment.
Personally, I still recommend using the first one, so that it is easier to solve the mutual guessing heart.
Acquaintance in the vast sea of people is fate, and it is right to get together and disperse this fate between you.
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Then you're going to have a hard fight with him! Feelings are not something that can be tolerated again and again. Couples who don't quarrel will have problems sooner or later.
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Everyone will have their own secrets, not a couple, let alone a boyfriend and girlfriend, don't make him feel tied down, liking doesn't have to be glued together.
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There's nothing wrong with that, my girlfriend and I quarrel every day, and there are several times that I want to be divided, but this time I went for two days, and I found that I missed her so much, so I came back to her, so it's better to quarrel and feel better, if he is like a wood, will it be interesting.
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If you don't like it, you will change it, and you will not be pretentious.
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Your boyfriend is machismo, right? The mind doesn't seem to be mature enough, and you don't know how to care about the girl and only think about yourself, you think so much about him. It's okay if couples are like this occasionally, but it's better to think about whether the two of them are suitable for being together if they are often so noisy.
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Your situation is similar to mine, be more considerate of him, always arguing must be a problem between the two of them, or the personality is not compatible!
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A slap doesn't make a sound, review it yourself!
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Yes, the comity between husband and wife also needs to be balanced, and everyone wants to harvest a happy and romantic love in their own life.
In this process, you need to wait for the person in your life, and once you are lucky enough to meet, you need to cherish it.
In the life of husband and wife, respecting each other is a way to make each other feel comfortable, and in the process of getting along and selling cherry blossoms, each other can be respected, so as to live a sweeter and warmer life.
Respecting each other is to know how to be humble to each other and think about each other. Only in this way can you get love that truly makes the other person feel comfortable.
To some extent, humility can be a mediator of affection between husband and wife. Because humility can easily deepen the relationship between each other, so that each other can spend the rest of their lives more closely together.
Each other who knows how to be humble must have a tolerant heart and must be very understanding. Couples who are able to humble each other in life are often very kind.
Whenever the other party encounters troubles or difficulties, they will know how to comfort, encourage and take care of each other as soon as possible. Therefore, each other who are often buried in life and tolerate each other will feel the sweetness and warmth of marriage from the bottom of their hearts.
Being able to be humble in marriage is itself a kind of inclusive mentality. This kind of mentality can allow you to find the right distance with each other.
So that each other's hearts get a suitable contact, produce a special sense, this sense is like a sense of security between each other, humility can make the people in the marriage feel loyal to each other, so as to produce a kind of love for married life.
When the other party occasionally does something wrong, he can give the other party a shoulder or hug in time, so that the other party knows that there is another person who is with him. Instead of blindly blaming the other party for their mistakes and putting the other party in a more painful situation.
Emotional humility will make the other party who was originally lost, and the couples who are humble to each other will often be happier than others, and the couples who are humble to each other will grasp the balance when they have conflicts, but take the initiative to stand up and resolve the contradictions with each other at the right time.
A bad temper will hurt each other, and the other party is a person who wants to accompany him through his life, so when he thinks of this, they will be eased in their hearts, so as to take the initiative to mediate the conflict, so that the relationship between each other can return to the harmony of the past, and the husband and wife will get along harmoniously.
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Husbands and wives need to be humble to each other. This is not to say that the couple should be polite, but in some things, they should be more tolerant and generous. There are inevitably many small things in life, and the two can be humble to each other, so that the family atmosphere can be more harmonious.
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Husbands and wives need to be humble to each other. It is inevitable to encounter some trivial things in life, since you are a husband and wife, there is no need to hurt your feelings for these things, so it is necessary to make humility. Who, then, humbled whom? Remember to be mutual.
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There are times when husbands and wives need to be humble to each other. Life is very cumbersome, and some things will affect the relationship if both parties don't pay too much attention to each other's feelings, so it's better to be humble and keep a certain distance in order to keep love fresh.
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Husbands and wives should be humble to each other. Since childhood, we have heard that husband and wife can respect and love each other, which shows that both parties respect and love each other.
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Husbands and wives need to be humble to each other. Even if two people love each other, they also need to be humble to each other, and they can't always dominate the truth alone. Married life is complicated, but it's also simple.
If we can be humble and take care of each other, we can live in harmony in marriage. On the contrary, no matter what kind of life is not good, it must not be true love.
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It is definitely needed, if husband and wife want to maintain a good relationship, and if they want to be happy in their married life, they need to be humble to each other, as long as it is not a matter of principle, it is good to take a step back, and it is not wrong to be humble.
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Of course, it is a university to get along with husband and wife, and the way of getting along will affect the relationship between husband and wife, which determines the longevity of the marriage, and the husband and wife should be humble to each other, polite, raise eyebrows, respect and love each other, and tolerate each other in order to last for a long time.
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Husbands and wives need to be humble to each other, big and small things in life, many times have to choose, at this time you will definitely have disagreements, it is very important to learn to be humble, which is the key to maintaining feelings between husband and wife.
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Of course, we should be humble to each other, so that we can be more harmonious, and we should pay more attention to some skills in getting along with husband and wife.
Getting along with husband and wife is an art. Sometimes you need to be tolerant, tolerant, and praise each other; Sometimes, it is also necessary to create a bit of mystery to promote harmony between couples. In order to preserve a marriage, both husband and wife need to work together.
In many cases, it is not the "big things" that break the principles that destroy the marriage. Often, some inattentive details are more lethal. So, how can we live in harmony?
1. You can't use a commanding tone when speaking.
It is common to hear two people talking with words such as "you should", "what you wanted", "you give it to me", etc., these words have a strong subjective sense to anyone, and the toughness of them is obvious. If one party often speaks in such a tone, the other party will feel that he has no status at home and does not feel respected by the other party at all, so there will be resistance in his heart, and there will be a gap between the two parties.
2. Pay attention to eye contact when talking.
Eye contact during conversation is also crucial, as it can easily come across as disrespectful if the conversation's eyes are rolled around. And if the listener looks around, it is easy for the other person to think that he is absent-minded. This is especially true for couples, where a single look from you may be able to make the other person feel your respect and love, but avoid staring into each other's eyes.
3. Don't magnify small problems.
"Knowing the subtleties" makes sense, but it doesn't mean that everything is applicable, especially when dealing with husband and wife issues. For example, because the husband is busy with work, he neglects to care for his wife, and the wife grasps this point and "takes it for granted" that the reason why the husband does not care about him is because he no longer loves him, and even comes to the conclusion that "he must have someone outside when he comes home so late every day".
This is a typical mediocre self-disturbance, men are very rough-lined, unlike women who are delicate and sensitive. In fact, when you calm down and think about many things, you will find that they are some normal trivial things, but if you get into the horns of the bull for a while, you have to buckle a big hat for small mistakes, you may bring endless troubles to yourself and the other party.
4. Leave space for the other party when communicating.
If you're discussing a sensitive topic and the atmosphere is intense, you can try stopping in the middle of the pitch and taking a break to make room for yourself and the other person. This can go a long way in avoiding discussions escalating into arguments or even personal attacks. Therefore, it is best to stay away from heated conversations and leave space for yourself and the other person to calm down in time, which will reduce a lot of harm.
5. Don't impose your ideas on the other party.
Everyone has their own ideas, but couples like to play the game of "Heart-to-Heart", which means that they think they know each other well and can guess each other's minds. Playing like this usually may enhance the relationship between the young couple, but if there is a conflict, it is a sharp blade.
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Absolutely. In this way, the contradiction can be resolved, if no one is willing to be humble, the two people can only get more and more contradictory, take a step back and open the sky, not to mention the person they love, they should be more tolerant and understanding, so that the husband and wife can last longer.
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