How to cherish, how to know how to cherish?

People will have such a "cheap" thinking. What is easy to get will not be cherished. You don't know how to have it until you lose it.

Therefore, between people, especially between women and men, you must control the feeling of imminent separation, and do not refuse or let him feel that you take the initiative. Let him have that hard-won feeling, so that he will know to cherish.

If you are willing to give it, how can you get it if you are not willing to give it up? There are some things, since they can't be forced, then giving up is a liberation for both. To give up is to let go.

A girl I like told me that fate is in the sky, and people are scattered. She couldn't continue to work in Beijing, so she went to Shenzhen to develop, she was a very strong girl, unwilling to be ordinary, and didn't want to rely on men, she wanted to work her own. But I still have to continue working in Beijing.

When she left, I was very, very heartbroken, but I didn't keep it. I said in my heart, if you want to fly, I will never restrain you. If you're tired, there's still a shoulder to lean on.

I hope you can put it down too. To give up is to let go.

Not knowing how to cherish what you already have is a common problem for almost everyone.

So only when you have lost can you know what is important and what is painful.

It's not good for people who pay too much, and some people have been living in an environment of being taken care of for too long, and they will take each other's contribution as a matter of course and don't cherish it. It's like it's always justified for a child to ask his mother to do his own laundry, even though he is very old.

Let him know what it feels like to lose, so that the child will grow up.

Cherishing is also a way of getting along with each other.

It's like a kite can't be caught too tightly, and it can't be flown too far.

Maybe it's not that the other party doesn't know how to cherish it, but it's that I'm too tight in your hands and don't have a comfortable breath, so I'm in a hurry to escape, and it's what you call loss.

Appropriate distance and understanding are the ...... of a good life

Hopefully, in the future you will be better off than you are now.

Most girls will choose people who can bring happiness to themselves, as the saying goes, men are not bad and women are not loved, women don't like men who don't have any opinions, sometimes the more they cherish, the easier it is to lose. Let it go, go in positively, you can't deal with it negatively, otherwise there will be no future, don't deceive your feelings.

It varies from person to person.

Cherish it so much that she'll say you'll give her a suffocating feeling.

Don't cherish it, and say that you treat her badly, hehe.

Feelings: Whoever loves a little more will suffer a little bit.

No way.

Maybe there's something wrong with it! It may also be your wishful thinking, and some people are just cheaper! The more you cherish it, the less he cares!

Successful love is because we cherish each other.

You only account for 50%.

So lost. It's better to get out of the way as soon as possible and find something that both cherish each other.

Cherish each other It is difficult, and it is just not encountered.

But it doesn't prove that the other party is not the right person

Cast with all your love, no matter what the result is, insist on never changing, and never regret your efforts even if you fail.

Cherish the time the two of you spend together, and say more things that move him

Some people don't know how to cherish until they lose.

The wrong way is also the right one. Hang on.

People often know how to cherish when they lose, not because they find out how important they are to lose, but because they find that what they lose is always done well, so they regret letting go but. But when they really have it again, they will find that it is nothing more than that, as people often say, the wife is always the most beautiful and the most beautiful, and the husband is always the most capable of others.

In fact, what is lost does not have to be recovered, in fact, the best is not necessarily suitable for yourself.

The ancients said: There must be losses and gains. Why not look at it optimistically. Because no matter how much you regret it, it's useless. What is lost is lost after all, and even if you get it again, it is not the original feeling.

It's like broken glass, and there will be cracks after sticking to it. In the end, what remains is only a momentary nostalgia.

Please respect the fruits of your labor. Please don't plagiarize. Copy. Thank you.

Every opportunity is not easy to come by, and if you don't cherish it, it will quietly flow away. The coming of things is not inevitable If you don't cherish it, you won't make progress We can't keep time, and keeping it is only based on memories and thoughts. Don't miss it before you know how to cherish it!

This is how people know how to cherish when they lose.

So cherish the people in front of you.

Don't regret it later.

After losing something precious or someone else.

If you don't change it, the dog can't change and eat x

There is no solution.

There are many things that have happened in my life that make me think deeply, and I have never found the most appropriate words to describe this feeling, just like a certain thing we have done, although we remember it in our hearts, but there are often many regrets, or once a treasure that I can't put down, what kind of ending should it be after it is shattered? After thinking about it, at the moment when I didn't get the answer and the result, I suddenly felt like I was relying on something else, and at this time, the most exact two words finally flashed in my mind. That is:

Treasure. Cherishing is an emotional experience, cherishing is a balance of mood; Cherishing is an incomprehensible relationship, and cherishing is an extension of life. In this life, there are too many things to cherish, whether it is cherishing time, cherishing life, cherishing family, cherishing friendship or cherishing love, the meaning of these cherishes seems very simple, but, as everyone knows, this cherishing process is like the ** we go to shoot, whether it is in the photo studio, or in the natural scene, we shoot it with various postures, or carefully frame it in the photo frame, or place it in the album, and leave it for the years to come to taste slowly.

Some attentive people will also write a small poem for the characters and scenery on the **, or write a paragraph to explain, what are people trying to do these things and wasting so much time and energy for? There is only one reason, they cherish every meaningful moment they have spent, they cherish every moment of life, although this moment is so short, but how worth remembering for them. Although many people often say that they don't want to remember the past, even if you don't have nostalgia for the past in your mind, the shadow of memory is always with you.

In the long river of time, people pass not only the shadow of youth, but the most precious and cherished things hidden in the passing years. The sun and the moon are reincarnated, time passes, and we cannot resist the laws of nature; Life is in a hurry, birth, old age, sickness and death, we can't fight against fate. But aren't the affections, friendships, and love that surround us worth cherishing?

Cherish what you have ever had, and there will be no regrets in your heart. Cherish the past, and reproduce the wonderful memories of the past; Cherish the present, and keep the solid footsteps of youth; Cherish the future and create the value of life. And cherish friendship, like a spring breeze in the cold winter, warm your body and mind; Cherish family affection, like the morning dew dripping grass, constantly urging its upward force; Cherish love, like a cool breeze blowing in the evening, always keep a clear mind, and compose a successful melody.

Cherish what you have in this life, and on the contrary, you will regret it. Before you know it, friendship, affection, and love will slip away quietly, and you will feel lonely and helpless, just like a small boat in the ocean, drifting. So, learn to cherish and know how to have, what boat is not willing to find a harbor for the soul to anchor?

Because you think that what you have lost is not your true happiness, and you long for the future!

However, when you reach the twilight of life, and look back, you will find that the things you have lost are all beautiful and worthy of your cherishing!

If you are given a passage of Socratic text, you may understand something:

One day, Plato asked the teacher Socrates what love was. The teacher told him to go to the wheat field first, and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field, during which he could only pick it once, and he could only walk forward, not turn back.

Plato did as his teacher said. As a result, he walked out of the field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it.

He said: Because I can only pick it once, and I can't go back, even if I see the biggest and most golden one during the period, I don't know if there is a better one in front of me, so I don't pick it; When I went to the front, I was never as good as I had seen before, and the largest and most golden ears of wheat had long been missed; So I didn't pick anything.

The teacher said: This is "love".

Then one day, Plato asked his teacher what marriage was, and his teacher told him to go into the woods and cut down the largest and most luxuriant tree in the woods, which was the most suitable for a Christmas tree at home. Again, you can only cut it once, and you can only go forward without looking back.

Plato did as his teacher said. This time, he came back with an ordinary, not very lush, not too bad tree. The teacher asked him how he brought this ordinary tree back, and he said

With my last experience, when I was halfway to the distance and empty-handed, I saw that the tree was not too bad, so I cut it down, so as not to miss it and end up with nothing. ”

The teacher said, "This is marriage!" ”

Today, I have read a lot of articles about feelings, life should really know how to cherish, don't wait until you lose it to understand the meaning of cherishing, but often many experiences and lessons must be gained at a price, and the deeper the truth, the heavier the price to pay......

It's not that we don't know how to cherish the preciousness, but we don't know how to cherish ......Two people will quarrel more or less together, they will be full of contradictions, they will complain countless times, they will blame and find fault ......In short, at that time, the overdemanding self with unlimited desires has completely lost the shining point of the other party in the past, and when he loses all the complaints, contradictions and exemptions from responsibility are gone, and there is no pickiness, and the rest is still the sincere feelings at the beginning, that is, the shining point of the other party in the past, in fact, this is also the cherished thing of the lanterns after you lose, only to understand who is really worthy of you to cherish, but at this moment it can no longer come, all have returned to the original state or a zero, and then slowly become negative, because you have more deep pain in your heart......

Only people who feel that their lives are ordinary but very happy are the people who really know how to live and how to cherish. Because people's desires are unlimited, but our energy is limited, life is limited, we want to enjoy more food but our stomach is limited, we want to buy a luxury house and buy a luxury car but our funds are limited, so that we will see that we can't get what we want, and then we begin to complain about the other party's incompetence and complain about why the other party is not a wealthy young master, and then contradictions arise, and the former feelings are all left behind. But we can't complain about the increase in desire to ask ourselves, why don't we reduce our desires, realistically, our funds can't afford to buy a mansion but at least we can build a nest of our own, we can't buy a car, we can walk and have a lot of happiness, don't complain about the other party's background, you want people to be a wealthy young master, people still want you to be a daughter!

We have to learn to be considerate and learn to balance our desires and ...... our income (money, energy, happiness).Invest in the desires that can be satisfied, don't invest in the desires that can never be realized, otherwise your return will always be zero, your desires will never be realized, you can only slowly disappoint and slowly disappear, and finally lose ......

I typed the words on it attentively, I don't have a mansion or a luxury car now, but I am also very happy, I admit that my life is very ordinary and ordinary, but I live a very calm life. I don't want to lose anything, and I don't want to trade the happiness of the second half of my life for a moment of awakening, because I believe that I am still a sane girl. Think twice, misfortune comes from the mouth, sometimes I speak or do not do well, it is not that I do not think about the consequences, but because I hope that my reminder will make our life better, in fact, I cherish it.