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In fact, your problems will arise in everyone who has just stepped into society. First, the gap between reality and ideals has led to your boredom with work, which requires you to re-examine this society, re-examine your own values, and learn to precipitate overly exaggerated ideals on the basis of reality, and look at problems from reality; Second, it may be because you came out of school, and the major you worked in was not in line with what you learned, which made you feel that you were not able to show your ambitions well, and you felt that you couldn't let go of your hands and feet, or you felt that some talents were useless, so you should re-measure yourself practically and put your mentality in a suitable position; Third, when you are in school, you yearn for the outside world and look forward to it, but when you set foot in the society, you have not made corresponding efforts, did not focus on your "will have some achievements in the society", and feel that you have not realized your most basic life ideals and are a little restored, then, you should idealize, target, and concretize your so-called "achievements to the society", and use practical actions to interpret the concept that you only exist in your heart, and have a sense of direction, then, work will no longer be tired; Fourth, you have to believe that if you can recognize a problem like "no progress, no learning", then it proves that you are a person who is not willing to lag behind, then you should start to "improve" and learn something that you think can make you better; Finally, you have no enthusiasm for work, no confidence to complete, but have you thought about it, doing anything well is starting from the most basic, if you change jobs, I think you should not be good to **, if you can use a good attitude to face your current work, maybe you will also find the fun inside, but so far, you have not used the "heart". I think you shouldn't change the environment half-heartedly, but should challenge your current environment, with your current mentality, to the ** will be the same, if you can overcome what you think of the so-called "difficulty", that is, of course, "is a piece of gold, put in the ** will shine".
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Measure yourself yourself, and if you can, you can choose to rest for a while and go out for a trip!
However, if the economy does not allow it, it is better to work hard and adjust your mentality!
Work hard, no longer worry about work that day, have the ability to do it yourself, and stop working for others!
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If you have enough money to support your family for the rest of your life, I think you can consider not working. If not, I advise you to work in peace and take care of your family is the best choice.
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What should I do when I don't want to work?
1.When you don't want to work, if your employer allows, you can take a few days off to rest, adjust your mood, and welcome your new job in a better state. If you can't find time, find yourself some entertainment activities after work, such as singing, partying, watching movies, listening, etc.
And relieve your negative emotions in these recreational activities. You can also take a short trip with friends and family on the weekend and soak up the fresh air around the city, which is also a way to regulate your mood. Everyone in the city has some stress to a greater or lesser extent, and the feeling of not wanting to go to work is also caused by stress.
Since this problem cannot be avoided, we must face it rationally, be good at regulating our emotions, know how to release the pressure at work, and learn to change our emotions at work, so that we can have a happy and relaxed working state.
2.Life gives you a slap in the face, it's a wake-up call, and when you give you a piece of candy, it's a reward. We should remember the latter and read the former less.
This kind of contradictory life actually has a characteristic, that is, it is full of pain and beauty. Although the latter is less and the former is a little more, happiness exists after all. For us ordinary people, we can't choose to live because the power of one person can't change the environment, so we can only accept what has happened.
Also, think about the good things. Really smart people, no matter how busy they are, will find time to do a side hustle. With the development of the times, there are more and more opportunities to do side hustles.
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1. Look at the goal, a beautiful picture of the future blueprint. That way, you'll have the motivation to start anew. 2.Cycle learning to find new growth points3Relax at the right time and give yourself some time to think.
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You can push yourself, there will always be a burnout period at work, but self-motivation is the most important and effective way, and the work must be completed sooner or later.
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You should let yourself relax, get out of this environment as soon as possible, find fun in life, find some entertainment, and then you will cheer up.
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Relax yourself, get out of the environment as soon as possible, to the joy of life, point, and refresh yourself.
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Don't want to go to work. If he can cover his living expenses. Have a regular income to meet your needs. That's as he pleases.
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For most people, life is not about the way it is.
If you don't want to go to work, you must have the strength to support yourself without going to work.
Otherwise, at most, it is better to change jobs and continue to do it.
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If you don't want to go to work, you can start your own business, and you can be your own boss, but it will be more difficult to start a business.
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There are many reasons why you don't want to go to work, such as low wages, employees are not harmonious, long overtime hours and other factors are the reasons why people do not want to go to work, and once you don't want to go to work, you will not be able to raise a little motivation to work, so that your work ability will decline, and you can not complete the work within the task well, which seriously affects people's work, and it is no longer suitable for work at this time.
If you find that you don't want to go to work, you can first find out the reason why you don't want to go to work, so that you can deal with it well.
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Find someone who can support you, or you can support yourself as well.
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If a person doesn't want to go to work, it's a waste of time, rhythm Wu Wei, then you should have other income, otherwise how to survive will cost money.
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If you don't want to work, then you can play at home on vacation.
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If you don't want to go to work, you can start a small business, open a shop, or farm.
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It only shows that you still have money to spend, how can you live without work when you have nothing? Work can not only make money, but also get in touch with society and develop your brain, otherwise the more you stay, the lazier you become.
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What should a person do if they don't want to go to work? In fact, at this time, most people are doing jobs that they don't want to do. There is no way, in order to live. If you don't want to go to work, you can do what you want if you have the ability.
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What are the specific reasons?
Is it because of physical or mental illness? Bridge.
Seek medical treatment ** to recuperate!
Including counseling psychologists and sensitive, ** recuperate.
Relatives and friends should be more helpful.
This includes helping him with some light tasks first.
Gradually regain employability.
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Summary. Hello, if you are financially free now, then you don't want to work, there is a lot to do, not everyone can contribute to society.
Hello, if you are financially free now, then you don't want to work, there is a lot to do, not everyone can contribute to society.
Hello, it is recommended to communicate well with your son, not to ask, but to communicate.
21-year-old is a young man, rebellious in his heart, he can't listen to opinions, and you also came from this age.
Parents' questioning can easily arouse the disgust in the hearts of young people. You should be more doting on your son.
In this case, you have to understand what your son thinks in his heart, after all, he is an adult, and he doesn't work, so what does he live on. It is certainly not a long-term solution to gnaw at the old all the time.
Ask him what he wants to do? Do you have any ideas, do you simply don't want to do the job you arrange and have a career you like, or is it just lazy and don't want to work?
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Face the reality, don't talk about the big truth, your own future, you can grasp it.
When we pursue our ideals, we certainly cannot ignore practical issues. The most perfect thing is to be able to combine the ideal with the reality and find a job that you love the most. When there is a disagreement between the ideal and the reality, you have to take three steps.
Let's face it, as long as you can get food and clothing, and have a certain income, you can get material enjoyment from it.
Be realistic and do a job that you don't love the most. Do the work you don't like to do "good enough", and then talk about what ideals to chase.
Gradually realize your ideals, do the work you don't love the most, and work hard in the job you don't love, earn enough money, solve the problem of eating, and then go to do the job you love the most.
Ideals and realities can be both. But you have to have a plan, you have to give, you have to be persistent. Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion, so you can't say what work is good and what work is bad.
Many people who make achievements actually start small, work hard, and then succeed.
As long as you like a job, and the job is especially suitable for you, and can maximize your strengths, then it is a good job. I'm not much in favor of not getting a job if you can't find it. Of course, it is good to be able to choose a job while being employed, but it is difficult to choose a job at the same time as the employment situation is relatively severe.
In this case, it is not necessarily a good thing to find a job first and then choose a job, in the process you will find that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, accumulated a lot of vocational skills, and now enterprises are more and more interested in experience. So gain experience first, which will also help you find a better job later. Part-time work, practice, savings, and develop yourself after certain conditions.
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1. If it's because the work is too tense and the pressure is too great, and you can't stand this rhythm, then stop and take a proper rest, because people who can't rest won't work, and the body is the capital of work. Listen properly**, exercise, or go out for a short trip to release the stress, all are good choices.
2. If you just want to have fun in order to avoid the responsibility of work, then you must correct your attitude and correct your outlook on life and values. People live in this world, it is impossible not to work, labor is also the most glorious, people who devote themselves to work are also the most lovely, and work can best reflect the value of their lives.
3. If you are tired from work, you can take a proper rest, but you must not avoid work. I am already an adult, no longer a child, think more about my parents and children, I can't "gnaw at the old", right? Your own children also need to be educated, and the cost of education comes from?
4. Carefully find the reason why you don't want to work and find the root cause of the problem, if it is an external reason, it is better than the relationship with the leader, or there is a conflict with colleagues, etc., you should face it positively and communicate to resolve it. If you really can't solve it, let it pass, time can solve this problem well, keep yourself busy, and let them go aside for troubles.
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