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Friend, this topic is too long! But either way, it is necessary to understand what you are here for? Without ideals, without pursuits, just for enjoyment, without suffering, he will not only not be able to enjoy the true happiness that life has given him, but he may also become a parasite.
Pain and happiness go hand in hand, and if one is lost, there is no other. The most precious thing in human beings is life, and only once! Write down your pain on a piece of paper or talk to a friend; Don't be impulsive, if you can change your mentality, pessimism will become happiness, we are living in contradictions.
People living in the world will inevitably encounter several difficulties or unhappy things, some can resist, some are irresistible, such as the loss of relatives and natural disasters, we can only accept it, adapt to it, otherwise we will let ourselves be miserable and sad, it has become the end of the fact, you can't change the facts, but let the facts change you, so ah, please wait for life.
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I thought to myself, I don't want to live anyway, just do something you usually want to do but don't dare to do (don't break the law, the way to die by being shot is not ideal, hehe), such as the friend upstairs said to travel, to explore, to go to some uninhabited places, maybe when you have been there, you won't think about dying or something like that!
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Then think about the living relatives, and the benefits of being alive, what are the benefits of being dead, you can compare, which one is more suitable for you! More interesting.
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Alone, then it's better to die.
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If you can't live alone, you don't know what to do, I don't understand, why can't you live if you're good alone! Did something happen? How good a life is for one person!
You can do whatever you want, you can do whatever you want, no one will care about you, how good it is to be carefree! Now how many people dream of such a life can't be done! You may not feel the warmth of home when you live alone, and when you come home, it is like coming to an ice cellar and feeling lonely, and you feel that living alone is meaningless, so why don't you find someone to live with you?
Living with two people will make you feel at home, but it will also bring you family chores, and everything has pros and cons.
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Why can't you live, is it because of illness or because you have lost confidence in life, if it is the former, since you have no power to return to heaven, then live the rest of the day happily without regrets. If it's the latter, then go out for a walk, leave the existing environment, look at different people and things, life is very precious, pessimistic and misanthropic will only make yourself more and more painful, optimistic will see the beauty of life.
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What if you can't live alone? Think about whether your parents are still there first. If your parents are well, please be filial first, and then you can go.
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If you can't live, you have to live, and it's better to die than to live. Live well.
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Are you sure two people can live? That's two people. What is it about you that you can't live?
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If one person can't survive, then hurry up and get married, and the two of them will be better.
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Think more about your family, or your best friends, and think about happy things.
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Then get married, and the two of them live together.
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Let's find a partner, and we'll get along.
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There's nothing you can't survive, and it's always good to get through it.
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Hello. First of all, it is necessary to say that life is precious, "Even if you die, you can't change anything, but if you live, you can change something." This sentence is given to you, I hope you can actively adjust your mentality, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you should try to face and solve, and cherish life.
Moreover, extreme emotional problems are not just what people often call "heart disease", on the contrary, many extreme emotions are pathological, that is, caused by the failure of the body's hormone glands, you can go to the relevant medical institutions for examination**. We sincerely hope that you will recover your physical and mental health soon.
But from another point of view, being able to imagine that some people and some situations may really be more painful than death does not support you to choose extreme solutions, but you can fully understand the suffering you are experiencing. Therefore, I would like to offer you another solution: if you are over 18 years old and are already very sure of your extreme intentions, you can contact me by replying or sending me a private message, and perhaps try to solve your problem through another unconventional way.
In addition, due to the different reasons for each person and spine to have extreme thoughts, there may be more people in need of help at the same time, and the limited ability cannot take care of everyone, so only some of the cases that are very suitable for the trial can be selected, please understand in advance. The solution mentioned above is unconventional and experimental in nature, and I will inform you in advance, and the specific information will be explained to you in detail at that time.
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What else, don't you still have a reason not to die?
Then it's good to live well, how to endure the judgment is afraid of how bitter, let yourself be decadent or indulgent, just vent it to your heart's content, as long as you are alive, it's OK, and it's also an experience to experience the pain. Believe in yourself, no matter how devastating life is, it won't torture you.
Release it well, give yourself some time to punch yourself, and then stand up again, it will be stronger.
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When faced with a person who doesn't want to live, we need to take the following steps: Li Lu.
1.Listen to them: It's important to listen to their feelings, understand their plight, and show care and support for them.
2.Provide support and encouragement: Give them positive support and encouragement to let them know that they are important to you and that you are willing to help them through it.
3.Provide professional help: If the situation is severe, you may need to seek professional help, such as a psychologist or counselor.
5.Give practical help: If they need practical help, you can offer some practical help, such as helping them find a job, provide shelter, give money, etc.
Most importantly, we need to face them with a positive attitude and patience, so that they can feel supported and cared about and help them get out of their difficult situation.
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First of all, you should have an in-depth communication with him on a stool, respect his feelings, and give him a kind of care, so that he can feel that someone really cares about him. Secondly, it is necessary to guide him to discover his inner strength, recognize his own problems, regain his strength, quickly discover his own value, and adhere to his self-values. Finally, let him know that life is a very precious gift, everyone has their own value, and everyone should allow themselves to live a meaningful life.
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Don't blindly talk about the things he doesn't care about, grasp the points he cares about and communicate tactfully.
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Enlightening a person who doesn't want to live can say that he is not afraid of death, what else is there to be afraid of.
Not wanting to live is just a way to escape, and there are various reasons behind it. It is necessary to prescribe the right medicine, after all, the bell must be tied to the bell to talk about it. frustrated and unwilling to face it; Lack of care, lack of love and care; Think about the pain that people who love themselves and how they will go through.
If you are fearless about anything, why bother to find and choose S, it is better to choose to abandon everything temporarily and stay away from the status quo to spend a period of time. In fact, the way is similar, but not so extreme. From within oneself, open one's mind, self-thinking and persuasion, this kind of spontaneous enlightenment is more effective.
Here's how
Externally, everyone needs a certain amount of positive energy to be bumped in, just as a ball needs to be inflated on a regular basis. After all, the impact of the environment on people can be said to be huge, you can try to read more books, prepare more to see the biographies of inspiring stories, there are a lot of people in the world who are turning the tables in adversity and trying to live. To find out the reason for her pessimism, just comfort her for the reason.
If she is afraid of hardships and difficulties, she says that people need to be tempered. The ancients said: Things in the world are difficult and easy, and those who are difficult are also easy to do; If you don't, it's easy.
If she is sentimental, remind her that it will damage her body, and you should divert her attention and control her emotions by exercising and enjoying the scenery. If she is confused and does not understand the meaning of life, so she is pessimistic, advise her to read more useful books, absorb the spiritual food in the books, and gradually get rid of her confusion.
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