I m chasing a girl, and she s willing to be friends with me, so how should I chase her?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First love is the best memory of a lifetime, don't leave any regrets. But don't rush to ask for anything, it will be the opposite, but take it slowly, keep your relationship good, and wait for the time to come (when you are both capable of talking about feelings), so that it will be a different taste in retrospect!

    Now, let's usually study together, entertain, hobbies, etc., learn more about each other, and lay the foundation for future relationships!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you're supposed to be your first love, right?

    So shy. Be bold.

    Direct point. Women have to be coaxed.

    Invite her out to play, help her with anything difficult, and care about her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Avoid talking about love, talk about interests and hobbies, eat, sing, watch movies, go shopping, and walk to talk more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, you can ask her out to play, maybe she says she doesn't want to talk about it in school, maybe she is making things difficult for you, and you need to work harder.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First love?! Be bold! Be direct! That's it!!

    Don't forget to study, though?

    After all, only when you study well can you be worthy of your family and friends, as well as her!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't leak a shy face! Be bold! Otherwise, if you are shy, she will be even more shy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's work hard to study hard. Admitted to the same university, and then the university began to talk.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Men need to be bold.

    Straightforward! Women have to be coaxed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the case of breaking up because of willfulness, frequent quarrels or personality incompatibility, etc., the psychological change of a man is that he will feel a sense of relief at the beginning, feel very relaxed, and at the same time will have a sense of guilt towards the other party, at this time he will not be willing to meet the other party, because the pain of meeting you at this time is like a reminder of his cruelty and failure (no matter who proposed the breakup of this relationship, it is a failed relationship). Won't want to think too much about anything between you. At this time, most of the time he is immersed in or transferred to something of interest, so you can't see on the surface that he has any pain or thoughts about the relationship.

    In this case, the woman may understand that those who may ignore you and are unwilling to meet, or you may find that he is emotionally entangled from the previous side.

    The second is because of the reality of the situation, such as studying abroad, long-distance and other reasons to break up, the man's psychological changes, at first will be very rational, think of various reasons to persuade himself, will be very attentive to the other party's situation, but also very painful, and unwilling to meet, which will aggravate their pain and incompetence, willing to do a lot of things for each other and miss the sweet love time very much, in this case, if there is no external force, the possibility of a third party is very rare, and then it will slowly calm down. But the feeling of powerlessness will always be there. In this case, there is no need to worry about why the other party seems to be the same as when they were in love, but everyone knows very well that the relationship is falling apart, just like breaking up after graduation.

    Third, in the case of hurting self-esteem, for example, the girl has a sense of superiority in this relationship, or the conditions are superior, the woman's parents do not agree, etc., the man's psychological changes, he will begin to resent the woman very much, and will transfer his emotions through games or immediately looking for a new lover to alleviate this pain, and at the same time, he hates himself more because he is incapable, and when his self-esteem can't stand it, he will hate the woman again, and then another round of such a cycle of resentment, if the woman is recovering, she will bear a lot of anger that may be vented, The stage of breaking through the defense is also the most difficult part.

    Generally, the breakup is nothing more than these three situations, some people may say that we are opposed by the man's parents, we are in a different place, but it seems to be a personality incompatibility, then I count which one, his mentality changes to see which situation, that is, the most important reason for your breakup is which is which situation, such as those mentioned above, the most important thing is that the personality is incompatible, then look at the first one. In fact, don't always worry about how the other party is, think about it, and don't focus all your energy on tangling and guessing what the other party thinks in their hearts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no chance, it's already a very tactful rejection of you. But if she has a bad relationship experience in the future and is often hurt, and you can come out to comfort her, maybe she will like you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, if a person is very annoying, they will not play with you. This situation shows that the girl wants to get to know you better before making a decision, as long as you behave well, she will be your dish sooner or later.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There may still be a chance.

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In fact, some friends can't be made. It's very cloudy behind it.。。 I guess which of your friends is doing it all day long and saying that you're not good.。。 The result is a natural tragedy. Let's see how things develop... Pay attention to yourself. There are little ghosts around.。。