How can you be generous and be natural in your interpersonal interactions?

The most important are the following paragraphs:

Don't always think that everyone likes you, or they all hate you, both of these are minorities, and they always like a little more than they hate, most people are just neutral, they can't talk about disliking you, and there is no reason to hate you.

So just be yourself, and remember that it's not for people to see. Instead, do it for yourself. What do you think is a generous, natural and comfortable person, you can demand of yourself.

Don't be deliberate, if you really want to be that kind of person, you must know how to dress up, how to behave and behave.

No matter if others praise you, scold you, or scold you to poop, you must firmly remember: how you think of yourself as the most important, if you love yourself, become more cautious. These slandered villains will eventually disappear.

No matter what happens, love yourself. Really agree with and tolerate yourself, rather than conniving at your own mistakes again and again.

When you don't deliberate and don't force it, you will naturally be generous and natural. Neither humble nor arrogant.

I said very verbosely, if you have time, go search to see "Zeng Shiqiang interpersonal relationship **", I feel that this old man is very cute, and knows Chinese better, I hope it will help you.

Confidence has your own expertise...

Find someone you naturally like and are good at.

Cultivate well and develop well.

And then. I know it in my heart.

I'm very likable.

There is no need to change your essence in order to make others like you.

Of course, remember to be polite.

Remember, don't be too enthusiastic.

If someone gives you a bit of kindness.

Just return him and her kindness.

Four words. Neither humble nor arrogant.

Method. Read more good books!

Books related to Buddhism in a simple way.

Maybe you're not religious, but it calms people's minds.

See higher and farther ...

I wish you all the best!

The first is your own determination. You really decide to improve, and keep reminding yourself to do so, that relationships are formed and developed in the process of interpersonal communication, and that is separated from interpersonal communication behaviors

1.Hearing is false, seeing is believing.

2.Don't punish yourself for the mistakes of others.

3.The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly.

4.Go your own way and tell others to go.

5.Don't get along with yourself.

In fact, a person lives a lifetime, and the pain and happiness are most clear to himself, so don't get along with yourself, and slowly experience the above words.

With more experience and wider knowledge, it is natural to be open-minded.

Actually, it takes time!