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You are very smart and understand all the truths, so I will save yourself from pretending to be old and talking to you.

In fact, love is sometimes a habit, and memories are also a habit, since you ask this question, it means that you are still a smart child who cares about your future.

Don't regret it, it's inevitable to feel uncomfortable and worry, because you let go of your feelings on him.

Tell a little story about Buddhism, there are three candles, the same length and thickness, lit at the same time, lined up in a straight line in front of you, ask you which one is the brightest, in fact, they are almost bright, so you think this question is very stupid Very strange, and then you put one of the candles in front of your eyes, and suddenly there is a bright and warm feeling in front of your eyes, and you will even smile and recall the warmth and light brought by the candle.

Now again, which one is the brightest? Nonsense, obviously this one in front of you. Is that right?

You know what I'm trying to say, right?

Your ex-boyfriend is the candle in front of you, and it's only because you've seen it in front of you with loving eyes and cherished it that you feel so bright. You now try to put him back in his place. I believe that after a while, you will see it lightly, and maybe you will not be so worried.

Since he proposed to break up, it shows that he is still reliable, and he knows that early love affects his future. However, since the boy proposed to break up first, he generally will not look back, and it is also a trade-off made after a long period of consideration for the future of both parties. So you don't need to feel guilty either.

Is that right? When you go to high school, you have only one goal -- to go to a top university. That is, 211 and other key universities.

Others, please step aside.

So be mentally prepared.

Lay a solid foundation in the first year of high school.

In the second year of high school, I began to desperately catch up with the schedule, teach quickly, keep up with the teacher, and still have a solid foundation.

At the beginning of the third year of high school, fill in the gaps.

The last segment starts the simulation. Psychology should be strong, mock scores are nothing, don't take it very seriously, the college entrance examination is not simulated, all simulations are just to enhance your mental and physiological quality, so that you can give full play to the key points learned in three years in the shortest possible time, don't have too much psychological pressure, a small group of people, just into the examination room fainted...

The road to high school is difficult and easy, but you have to be firm in your goal of going to high school, and it is best to set a university you want to go to.

I wish you an early step on the door of higher education and realize your further study and research!

What you can't get is the best, and everyone who breaks up will feel this way, and you won't feel this way when you meet another person you like.

Try to keep yourself busy、

Now is the best age to study, after high school, study first, you don't have to think about falling in love, because every graduation will still break up, when you learn something, your own three years of high school hard work, you can have a good future.

You're about the same as me.

I'm only in the third year of junior high school, and if I really love it, I just choose to keep it in my heart.

I still hear all the same news about him, and I'm still a little moved.

But feelings are a part of life, and life is a part of life.

Cheering up is a must for girls, and we can still live without men, right?

I'm not much better now, I don't have any feelings for anyone, even if I run a long way and say I love you.

I think it's ridiculous that this thing about feelings, especially early love, is the worst decision, but it's also the best experience.

It's it that makes us see.

Find an interest for yourself and don't give yourself time to care.

After going to high school, I choose to have a lot of interests, and junior high school and high school are completely different worlds

Sisters! It feels like we're alike--

I think it's going to be okay to study hard, dear.

It's okay to love, anyway, life is just an empty field in the end, and the process is important.

Or can you get into college and then look for him? That would be better, wouldn't it?

There will always be times when people fall out of love, and some people lose the only person they can cherish because of a momentary impulse or being hurt. After falling out of love, some people will fall into pain because they can't extricate themselves. So, how exactly do you deal with a broken love?

Answer. 1. Falling out of love doesn't mean failing.

Falling out of love is an emotional phenomenon. It is a special emotional state. It is a blow for a person to lose a loved one.

However, falling out of love doesn't mean failing. It's just a normal psychological phenomenon. Falling out of love is not a failure because of love, nor is it not being unhappy because of a broken love.

Falling out of love does not mean failure, but finding the most suitable person for you in this relationship and being together for a long time.

2. Falling out of love does not mean pain.

Falling out of love is not an honest balance that means pain, it is a necessary path for us to grow. We are always troubled by the loss of love. We can't control ourselves because of it, because it makes us grow.

So we have to look at the broken love correctly, if the broken love is pain, then we are not living well. If you have a lot of happiness, then you have succeeded; If it is their own pain that does not get let do it in time; What's the point of going on like this? Life is long, and learning to let go is the best choice.

3. Falling out of love is not a catastrophe.

This is the most important point. Falling out of love is not a terrible thing, as long as you can love yourself well, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you will definitely be able to solve them. It's like a good friend and a good lover, no matter what kind of difficulties they encounter, they will overcome them together.

So falling out of love isn't scary. The scary thing is that you can't help yourself.

Summary. My dear.

<> lovelorn child will inevitably experience a period of low psychological life, at this time, we must first give the child a certain amount of time, we should not mention this matter, but make more delicious food, take the child out to play on Sunday, let the child divert attention.

I'm a high school girl, I'm very decadent after my first love fell out of love, and I fell behind a lot in my studies, because I was hurt very deeply, and I was sad every day, what should I do?

My dear.

<> lovelorn child will inevitably experience a period of low psychological life, at this time, we must first give the child a certain amount of time, we should not mention this matter, but make more delicious food, take the child out to play on Sunday, let the child divert attention.

Dear, I hope the teacher can help you, and you can also talk to the teacher about the details, so that the teacher can better serve you <>

If you don't do it indifferently, maybe it's okay.

1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role6Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day."

I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".

Junior high school is originally a precocious love, and the relationship is immature, since you have fallen out of love, you should put your mind on studying and strive to make yourself excellent.

Most of the early love in junior high and high school will not go to the step of getting married, the chance is only three percent, and now you are still young, you will slowly forget it in the future, and when you grow up, you will feel very naïve when you look back at your current self.

In fact, to tell the truth, love has hurt and hurt, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the mind forever, just use time to slowly forget, love can be a momentary thing, or it can be a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

Just learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Don't cry, a man crying can only mean that you are cowardly and immature, don't fall in love easily if you are immature! Otherwise, be prepared to get hurt!

If you don't study well and learn what kind of love adults talk about, you will know how important knowledge is in the future! I really thought that I could get rich without studying, I thought too much, people like Li Ka-shing and Lee Shau-kee are boiled out, young man, knowledge is like money, it is not omnipotent, but if you don't have knowledge and culture, you can't!! Study hard.

...You still have to study hard, it's too young, and you can't find anything to raise when you can have the most in the future.

Lovelorn. As the name suggests, there is no love.

When he (she) is far away from you, no longer cares about your thoughts, your preferences, your hates, there is no longer him (her) in your world

It doesn't have to be dumped or lovelorn.

It's also possible that two people feel that neither of them is suitable for them anymore.

So ended his relationship.

can be called a broken love.

But we shouldn't languish just because we're out of love.

Down. It is time to come out of the shadow of broken love.

Renew yourself to the sunshine, a bright and beautiful life.

The answer is supplemented. Hehe.

It depends on the reason for his departure.

If he says goodbye, then I'm sure he must have his own reasons.

But if it's because of you, it could be because of you or something else.

Went far, far away.

I think that proves that he doesn't want you to go to him anymore.

For the good of two people.

Of course, it's up to you to adjust your mood.

Smile every day.

If he really loves you.

I don't think he wants to see you unhappy.

Even if he had his own reasons for having to leave.

Men have to have faith and don't think too much!! Put your heart on your career!! Women can not care too much, you know? You have to behave like a man and be serious, so that your girlfriend can feel safe! Former Balance!

You work your own, and after that, just go with the flow!! But don't be wise to listen to your parents, think for yourself!!

It's good to decide for yourself!!

If you really love each other, you don't care so much.

Because you have nothing, you will fall out of love, and when you have some career, everything will be fine.

It is very important to love someone with a good mentality, and if you have a good attitude, you will not be afraid of difficulties.

As long as she loves you, she won't care.

This is just the opinion of some people. Not everyone will fall out of love after graduation. There are some people who can insist on getting married after graduation.

Normal. so don't have early love.

Everyone has a hurtful relationship.

You're too small.

It's just a momentary trap.

It's mainly a matter of time. Slowly, I will feel that this is not a thing, and it is the third year of junior high school. If you really can't do it, you just ask your friends to vent, run or something or transfer all your energy to studying.

Don't think about that man anymore, if you can't do it, find a good teacher to make up for the missed courses, study harder by yourself, and slowly you will learn well as before, your classmates have a good foundation, and they should catch up.

It's better not to fall in love, now you have to have the perseverance to overcome it, participate in more activities, and it will gradually get better.

In the future, it will be better so that it is more important to study hard.

Take him out and go crazy, vent it, if you don't succeed in pumping him, it's not for a man to live.