Sad, after going to college, I was still ostracized, snubbed and hit by my former classmates, which

Updated on educate 2024-05-04
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe, don't you still feel uncomfortable, they reject you, snub you, not only because of the reasons you described above, if that's the case, you can completely dismiss it, besides, now it's all college, is it so important that you still contact junior high school, I can't even remember what my junior high school classmates look like, remember that there are tricks to being happy, and one of the most important things is = not to be too sensitive.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some people are like that.

    That being the case. That kind of person doesn't deserve your care and friendship either.

    So. It's a loss for them, but nothing for you.

    The world is so big.

    Who is afraid of who.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    We want to make super glue, don't just sit on post-it notes.

    Hold yourself up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, attitude is everything.

    You don't need to please the people who reject you.

    Just live your life.

    It's a good thing for you that you won't have that kind of people in your future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is it because of being ugly? No, you can't let go of everything, and there will be things that don't go well everywhere.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're doing the right thing, and it's all about living your life to the fullest.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's really just a matter of your mentality.

    Don't be too pessimistic.

    Since the conditions are not good, you should be more confident.

    And you should face life with enthusiasm.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not good. If you've been adapting to this environment, it's a vicious cycle, have you ever thought about it later.

    If you want to be like this for the rest of your life, it's very depraved, but can you live like this?

    Why is it difficult for yourself, try to change the status quo, if you can't change it, go to a psychiatrist.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why do you want to live in an environment that others have set for you, there is no need at all, your life circle is very wide, and your family is all you have, be optimistic! Watch out for you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I have always sobbed about bad people or things in the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It seems to me that you are doing the right thing. What else are you talking about?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is nothing to be sad about, there are always those who throw their temper and those who don't lose their temper among classmates or friends. People like to be with people who have lost their temper, and slowly a fixed circle is formed. And for people who are not so angry, they will be more rusty together, and there will be no topics of common interest, so they will naturally be more estranged.

    People are different, and it is difficult for strong people to ask that no matter what kind of people can stay together.

    I also chose to attend class reunions, because some parties really didn't have to be polite, and the kind of anger and embarrassment made people prefer to keep the memories of school than go to later meetings.

    And because of the different progress of the work and study environment, everyone's concepts and ideas are different, and communication is even more difficult.

    Four years as a classmate is a very good memory and wealth, why bother after separation, after all, you once had it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is very normal, people's personalities and hobbies are different, which shapes the attitude towards life differently, because after leaving school, everyone begins to look for their own future. Some people will be highly respected, and some people will be ordinary. So everyone feels that there is nothing that can help some of them in the future anyway, so it is the same whether to contact or not.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Everybody thinks differently, and even when you're worried about these things, people don't necessarily think about you! Sometimes when we do something, we have to do something worthwhile! Why should unworthy people be worthy of our nostalgia?

    We are very likely to become close friends just because of a short chat, but we can also become strangers because of some trivial things The interaction between people is very delicate Don't spend too much effort to surround others If this person likes you Even if you don't do anything, he will like you So don't be sad These things are common Be happy Don't make yourself miserable for others And people who care about laugh and laugh

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You are the same as me, although I studied well, no one in the class paid attention to me, I was very sad, and later, I got used to it, closed myself off and did not contact anyone, until I was left out in the cold and no one said anything bad about me again. I've never heard a word. There are no ugly women in the world. Only lazy women.

    First of all. You have to change yourself, try to study hard, get higher grades, and make yourself majestic in front of them.

    2. You have to hold your head high and be confident. Be a good girl with a sunny attitude.

    If you want to change your appearance, look in the mirror and see what kind of hair accessories and clothes suit you. It must be able to look good.

    I have a friend who is in the same situation as you, and I can understand your feelings. As a schoolgirl. Without great looks you will be lonely. So you have to learn to dress yourself.

    Landlord, you have to learn to be strong, believe in yourself, there is nothing that cannot be achieved. As long as you are strong enough, have a strong heart, no longer run away from anything, learn to face bravely, whether it is good or bad, it is a record of growth.

    The process of butterfly metamorphosis is painful, but the result is beautiful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to achieve something, it's hardware.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you have to start with yourself, find out if it is your own reason, and then correct it, so that they can watch your changes and slowly accept you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't take anything to heart, you must learn to be content. The whole world is waiting for you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Alas, it's like this at school, you have to be strong.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor.

    Persuade you to have a glass of wine, and there is no reason to go out of Yangguan in the west.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Inaction is on the wrong path, and the children are stained with scarves.

    Persuade you to have a glass of wine, and there is no reason to go out of Yangguan in the west.

    All these ... The ancient poems are slightly changed to fit the current context.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Toast the east wind, and calmly.

    Weeping poplar purple Moluo east of the city.

    Always hand in hand at that time, swimming all over the bushes.

    Gathering and scattering are in a hurry, and this hatred is endless.

    This year's flowers are better than last year's red.

    It's a pity that next year's flowers will be better, and I know who to share them.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Liu Yanhan, Chu River water. The afterglow is slanting westward, and the cold of spring retreats. The secluded path connects the sky and the green mountains. The breeze was bleak, but the pedestrians were still there. ­

    Leaning in front of the window, reminiscing. There is no plan to clear, and the building is drunk by the railing. Where is the meeting in the dream? A little sorrowful? Wake up and remember each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Something must have gone wrong

    Otherwise, others wouldn't be so repulsive

    If he doesn't listen to you, you can't help if you want to, and a man loves face, and if you help him, he will feel very shameless

    So you still have to look carefully and start with the details

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You find out why.

    It can't be like this for no reason.

    To really get to the root cause.

    to really help him.

    I guess he did something obviously wrong.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Did he do something unspeakable, you ask. Or maybe he has something physically that makes his roommate unacceptable. For example, body odor or something.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There must be something that others can't tolerate, and the only way to do it is to let him change. Let him face it like a man.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The best lyrical way to sing.

    Sleeping friend: The old wolf's brother who sleeps on my top bunk.

    Classmates Erguna Band's Graduation Song Zhou Huajian's Friend Blessing (Jacky Cheung) Blessing (Ye Qianwen) Cantonese.

    I often sit together in class, classmates, and the same table of the old wolf.

    Good brother Xiao Shenyang and Gao Jin's my good brother.

    Good sisters, those flowers of Fan Weiqi.

    When bidding farewell, Wu Qilong's wish you a smooth journey.

    If you still want to be poetic, Wang Guozhen has a poem called "Love Life" and send it to your classmates as encouragement!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe, in addition to this sentence and that sentence.

    Stupid, don't cry, we'll meet again, if you believe in fate.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Do you remember that thunderstormy night? What have you done to me? Or have you been running away? My tablemates.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Talking about other people's things in front of you is because you love face. You have to understand. If you still love her, you should cherish it and don't give up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    She just wants you to care about her, she likes his boyfriend in her heart, and she wants you to like her, to put it mildly, she just wants to have an ambiguous relationship with her

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    He was your college classmate, and the reason he broke up was because he didn't have feelings for you anymore, or he didn't have deep feelings for you.

    This is not explained, you know it yourself.

    Now I am looking for you to reconcile, and the reason is obviously closely related to being a soldier. The army is generally a man's world, and it can't get along with women. He doesn't want to be lonely, so he thinks of you who are still deeply in love with him, at least you will be stupidly waiting for him to come back.

    But when he comes back from the army, can you really get married to him? With the first breakup, are you afraid of a second time?

    As a senior man, I can tell you very responsibly about his breakup because he doesn't love you anymore.

    The second time, you're probably a spare tire.

    I'm sorry, I'm talking a little too much, make your own decisions.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't question how bad your boyfriend is for you.

    I want to say to you, your boyfriend is a good man, responsible, since he is under pressure, because he doesn't want you to have a bad life in the future; You know, now you have to encourage him, tell him to relax, and in the future you can work hand in hand with him.

    Such a man is good, hold on.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then you didn't ask him why he proposed to break up in the first place? Why do you want to go back? I feel that he treats his feelings as if he is a family, and it is difficult for others to say anything in this regard, because I don't know the specific situation, you can figure it out yourself!

    A man who can't love everything about you proves that he doesn't really love you, I had a similar experience with you, and finally broke up, I was sad at one point, broke down, and almost collapsed, but it's not very good now? Isn't it great to have a boyfriend who loves me and loves me, rather than being painfully entangled, to find a relationship of your own? Think for yourself!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Wait for what needs to be realized, don't wait if you don't have enough love, if your love for him is no longer so strong, then it's better to break up. Lest it be even more painful to keep this lost love for a promise after the waiting time has exhausted your love, and even if you decide not to wait any longer, your heart will be condemned by your conscience for not keeping your promise, and you will regret it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I'm worried that you're going to change because it's been a few years since you came out of the army, and how many women can spend their youth waiting for someone? Can you guarantee that he still likes you when he comes out? The older a woman gets, the more she depreciates, so let's divide it as soon as possible, there are many good men, we can't afford it!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think girls should think more about themselves, really, if they don't feel that they have any future, don't insist.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you are true love, then there is no need to think about it, and there is no need to regret it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Love is selfish, but you need to expand your mind and trust your girlfriend enough or know you well enough to know you whether you should be angry or not.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Break up, if you can't stand it, break up, what's the matter, as for you, man.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Women learn bad very quickly.

    Because women's self-discipline is extremely poor

    Women with good self-discipline have assisted their husbands in ascending to high positions

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Break up, break up, you're a man!!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    What else can I do... If you can endure it, you can't bear it.

    There's another way.,Try to find the girlfriend of her college classmate and take her to the hotel...

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If you want to play with knowledge, it's fine, communicate well, this kind of place is always bad, it's better not to go.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Even though it's your girlfriend, she also has her own private space, and if you interfere too much, she will find it annoying. You should take the initiative to admit your mistakes to her, men, you should be able to bend and stretch.

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