I really don t want to work anymore, so what to do? I m going to collapse, everyone help me

Updated on society 2024-05-16
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everybody has their hesitations sometimes, and I think you are right now.

    First of all, you have to adjust your mentality, you should summarize, why do you always feel that the job you are looking for is not good, is it really that bad, no one is perfect, nothing is perfect, I think every job will encounter some annoying things no matter what, and it will be over quite well.

    Secondly, I think you should go for a job now, whether it is good or bad for you now, it can distract you from your somewhat confused thoughts, and secondly, you can enrich yourself and get yourself on the right track. If you have a job and money, you can consider taking your baby over.

    Sometimes people suddenly feel that they don't know where to go, and sometimes I feel like that, and suddenly I have no sense of direction, and I focus on self-regulation, hoping that you can find the job of your dreams.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Either continue to work and do it if you don't like it, or go back to your hometown and do some small business.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The same confusion is not easy to find a job, so don't be too picky.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How can you live without working?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Can you adjust your mindset or master new survival skills? After all, what this society needs is our values.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as the job is stable, how many college students are working every time now, and you don't know about the financial crisis, be content.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can think about opening your own small shop or something, such as clothing, or joining a gift shop

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm definitely not going to keep doing it myself, because even if you don't get fired at a job, if you don't make any progress or growth, doing the same job for a long time often leads to boredom and loss of motivation. Additionally, if you don't live up to your potential or don't get the right salary and benefits package, it can also lead to dissatisfaction or looking for new opportunities.

    Therefore, even if you are not fired, you should consider career development and self-improvement. You can hail to improve your career competitiveness and development prospects by participating in training, learning new skills, taking on challenges or seeking new career opportunities.

    At the same time, if you are satisfied with your current job and can get enough sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, then you can continue to do it. But in any case, career planning and development is a process of constant change and development, which needs to be adjusted and changed according to one's own situation and goals. In addition, here are some suggestions to help with career planning and development:

    1.Regular self-assessment: Regularly evaluate your career goals, interests, abilities and values to determine your career direction and development plan.

    2.Seek feedback and advice: Seek feedback and advice from colleagues, seniors, career counselors, etc., to understand your strengths and weaknesses and where to go.

    3.Learn new knowledge and skills: Continuously improve your knowledge and skill level by participating in training, courses, learning new skills, etc., to improve your career competitiveness.

    4.Seek challenges and opportunities: Actively seek out challenges and opportunities to participate in new projects, take on new tasks, or pursue new career opportunities to enhance your work experience and career development.

    5.Build a career network: Build a career network and stay in touch with peers, seniors, career counselors, and more for career information, advice, and support.

    In conclusion, career planning and development is a process of constant change and development, which needs to be adjusted and changed according to one's own situation and goals. Better planning is possible through regular self-assessments, seeking feedback and advice, learning new knowledge and skills, seeking challenges and opportunities, building career networks, and more.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't want to go to work anymore, what should I do?

    Share your journey.

    After graduating from university, he failed to take the civil service exam. I started looking for a job in October and joined in November.

    At that time, I was preparing for the civil service exam at home, because I was afraid that my family would be disappointed after failure, and I didn't want to put too much pressure on myself, so I secretly prepared for the exam by myself without telling my family. Now that I think about it, it's so stupid to drive myself into a dead end.

    Classmates and friends went out to work, sharing their work life in the circle of friends and having dinner with colleagues. On the other hand, I was alone in the countryside preparing for the exam, very lonely and anxious.

    My family didn't know that I was preparing for the civil service exam, so they asked me if I had gone to look for a job. External and self-psychological pressures are pouring in. When all kinds of pressure is pressed on my body, I think every day, "If only I had a job, I could reduce these pressures by at least half."

    At that time, I really felt that work was like a heavy shield against most of the stresses of life. Although it will be sore and tiring to hold in your hands, it can resist the sharp spear of life and save your life. So I'd love to go to work.

    After joining the company in January, my mentality quietly changed, and my work suddenly became unpleasant. I kind of wanted to throw away the shield of work, and slowly I started not wanting to go to work.

    I got a job in a factory, although it wasn't an assembly line job, it was mainly some clerical work. But it made me feel deeply the loneliness of working in the factory and the caution of speaking in the office.

    Before I started working, I always fantasized that I could learn something in this company and be able to do it in the future.

    The idea that "looking for a job should not only focus on welfare" that was rooted in my mind when I was in school made me choose to ignore the poor environment, poor food, and poor treatment in the factory, and decided to take root in the factory for two years. When I actually started working, I found that there were very few peers around me, and I didn't even have someone to talk to.

    When a colleague is talking about children, a house, or a car, I rarely get into the conversation. Sometimes my colleagues will throw some stalks to me, but I can't catch them at all. I've always lived in a group at school, and I often feel very lost when I have friends by my side.

    In addition to these problems, the profession is not right, I have to communicate with customers, and I am chasing ducks to the shelves, I am not familiar with the content of the work, and my communication skills are not strong, and I am an acute child, which makes me hit a wall everywhere in my work.

    I gradually became anxious, and I was often afraid that I would say the wrong thing as soon as I opened my mouth, and I would become a pig teammate, and everyone would be fined for writing reports. Naturally, I went from whispering at the beginning to not daring to speak, not daring to make up my own minds, let alone coping with this anxiety, and not even wanting to communicate with others.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the work makes you physically and mentally exhausted, then you might as well take a break and adjust your mentality before setting off.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you think that only you don't want to work as a brigade or ruler? People who don't want to work are demolishing more rocks, but there is no way not to work, you can't make money without work, and you can't live the life you want if you don't make money.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't want to work either, it's tiring to work, and I guess no one wants to work if possible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In the middle of work, I felt very stressed, and I wanted to quit at that moment.

    But in fact, in the work, we will definitely encounter a lot of difficulties and problems, we must know how to eliminate the pressure in time, to cultivate our own positive and optimistic work attitude, to be good at communicating and cooperating with others, so that we can become better and better in the workplace.

    Therefore, if you want to cultivate a positive and optimistic attitude towards life and work, you should humbly ask professional teachers for advice and learn better, and pay attention to communication methods when asking others for advice.

    1.Learn to empathize.

    When we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient.

    2.Talk about topics that interest the other person.

    When you communicate with others, you have to talk about topics that the other person is interested in, which is also the common language we often say, chatting with common topics is usually more pleasant, and the resulting sympathy will make people expect more communication from us.

    3.Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart.

    Wise people must learn to praise others from the bottom of their hearts, and it can only be unwise to oppose others, even if you do not agree with other people's views, but it is best not to say it in public immediately, if it is not a very important thing, you can also not say it, learn to praise others from the heart, and the communication will be smoother and happier.

    4.Learn to listen to others.

    Everyone has the idea of expression, when you meet others who need to express the content, you can learn to listen, remember that when you learn to listen, you will become more and more wise, and will be liked by more and more people, pay attention to what others say, listen to others' words attentively, communication will become smoother, and we will know how to respect others.

    5.In the conversation, approve before making suggestions.

    When we have good suggestions, we must first recognize the other party's point of view before putting forward any reasonable suggestions, and use euphemistic suggestions to achieve better communication results, and communication will be smoother and more efficient.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That's your case.

    Don't want to face reality.

    Just want to escape life.

    You can go to the countryside and farm.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your health is not good, you run 10 kilometers every day.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your mentality of not working is really bright? Can you analyze the difference between zhi and lazy in dao?

    Or do you mean that you want to start your own business from within?

    Appearance? Of course, this is worth encouraging, but you need to have the capital (if you are not a rich second generation) to recognize the reality, no one likes to go to and from work regularly every day, and not everyone is satisfied with their work! Put your mind at peace and recommend a movie - "When Happiness Knocks on the Door" I wish you a good job soon!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can work and earn money with or without a computer.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men can rob banks, and women can go to be ladies.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't make excuses for yourself, ask yourself how old you are this year if you don't want to work? Do you have the capital to do business? To be a human being, you must know how to be self-reliant.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's just lazy and making so many excuses.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to remember that no one wants to work! Who doesn't want to do something they love without having to work. It's not life that forces us to do it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on whether you are a boy or a girl, there is a difference, if you don't want to work, you can also do some small business!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm the same now, now I talk about looking for a job every day, but I actually go to an Internet café, and other people are born with famous cars and mansions, and even if we spend our whole lives, we may not be able to have everything they had when they were born.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't always make excuses for your laziness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it's a woman, go to be a chicken woman and make money easily and happily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It seems that there is no successor to the country, what kind of mentality are they!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Women can find someone to marry and ask their husbands to raise.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The best way! It's a hundred! Buy a bottle of dichlorvos.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I'm just like you now, you're male and female?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on how old you are, it doesn't matter if you're young or old, but if it's old and young, it's not good, after all, it's impossible for parents to support themselves for a lifetime, so it's better to work hard and good luck!!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, it is an impetuous mentality, and it is also an excuse to escape, otherwise go to entrepreneurship, don't say that you don't know what to do, you only know when you do it, or you will go to work, there is no choice.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    What man is willing to take such a woman, unwilling to work, unwilling to work, even if she is married, the man will still kick her, and the woman must have self-esteem!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You say you don't want to work ... Don't you want to?。。。 I want to make money, and the introducer has to go as a last resort. You think they like to work.

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