When my boyfriend says this to me, should I be happy or sad?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In short, we should not be sad, but should be happy!

    Men should maintain their careers as a family and run their families as a career!

    You should understand men, communicate well with each other, and be considerate of each other!

    I see that the two of you still lack communication, and with more communication, you can ** this problem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be discouraged, as other friends say, you should be happy.

    I'm in that state right now.

    Waiting is hard, but it's also a test, isn't it?

    Men have a lot of responsibilities to carry in this life, and if they can think of us in their busy schedules and think of what they owe us, doesn't that prove that our wait is worth it?

    More understanding, more care, he will naturally be grateful to you, my husband often said to me, he is so touched! I'm the best wife, actually, I didn't do anything, I just waited quietly.

    But for him!

    My quiet and caring is the best support for him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I should be happy, and the first thing that comes to mind when I'm not working is you.

    Are you talking about men, you should focus on your career If you don't work with him every day now, then how can you guarantee your life in the future?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let's think about it from another angle, if your job takes a lot of time, then your boyfriend may also be snubbed by you, but the relationship is still there. Don't worry too much, he can say this to you, which means that he still has you in his heart, and it still has weight! Rest assured

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Glad! He cares about you! After that, after that.

    In fact, you like him to be ambitious! Otherwise, why did you choose him in the first place?

    Besides, isn't he working so hard for you?

    You should feel happy to have such a boyfriend

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This may just be a very common thing, or it may be other reasons, such as what he has done to be sorry for you, so he wants to do something, but there are more situations in the front, because if it is the latter situation, he generally will not say anything to compensate you for such things, so think about it carefully, and you will understand.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Rejoice, at least you should feel happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Oops, it's all the same.

    Career is important, your friend's career is not good, how can you be happy in the future.

    Think of yourselves

    You should support his cause

    Don't add the hassle

    When he has a certain career

    The more time you have, the happier you will be.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Isn't it very good for a man to focus on his career, and when he has time, the first thing that comes to mind is you, I think you are very happy, you should be happy. Think a little bit about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Men are career-oriented, I hope you don't think about it, I think you should be happy

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't think about it, you should be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your boyfriend says he's already pathetic, it could be a sign that he's going through some negative emotions and frustrations and needs support and care. As his deficient partner, you can show your understanding and support to help him through this time. You can try to communicate with him, ask him about his situation and feelings, and express your concern and support.

    At the same time, it can also be recommended that he seek professional psychological counseling or ** to help him better deal with his emotions and problems and find solutions. In any case, please do not underestimate or ignore his feelings, but give him enough care and support.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, everyone longs to love and be loved, which means that he likes you very much, and comfort means to like and be at ease. Relieved means to feel relieved inwardly, to be happy with something someone has done.

    Your boyfriend is a woman who needs to help him at work and in life, he says that he is very happy with you, that you can tolerate someone with strong self-esteem, and if you do this, he will be equally good to you, and he wants to give you a better life.

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, everyone longs to love and be loved, which means that he likes you very much, and comfort means to like and be at ease. The meaning of comfort is to feel relieved inwardly, to be happy with someone doing something. Your boyfriend is a woman who needs to help him in work and life, he said that he is very pleased with you, saying that you can tolerate his person with strong self-esteem, and if you do this, he will be the same to you, and he wants to give you a better life.

    I asked him today if he liked me now, and he was very well-behaved, and I said that he didn't like it, and he actually called me a fool.

    But I'm also really scared, after all, I'm in a long-distance relationship, and I'm actually scared for a while after this reunion macro collision, I thought I would cry before, but after the interview I figured it out, and the verdict was decided to give us both of us another chance, I believe in him.

    In fact, he likes you, you don't have to think too much about it yourself, the long-distance relationship itself is a very hard thing for Bi Zhichi, you need the other party to run it together, what can you say directly, don't let the opponent Li Fang guess what you think, guess and guess Everyone is very tired, and they will quarrel instead.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The last sentence is a bit of a stretch.

    Actually, what you said to us is easier to understand: he loves me very much, but he is a little depressed these days, and I feel that he doesn't care enough about me and considerate me.

    I don't think two people should be too round, people in love have an IQ of basic 0, you say so much, it's nothing more than -

    1.Vent your frustration - I feel that he doesn't care enough about me and considerate me, and I don't want us to regret each other.

    2.I'm afraid of hurting him - he loves me very much.

    You ask us what he thinks, and it gives me the feeling that your boyfriend, who loves you so much, will read the text messages at least three times, and then think about what happened recently, whether it made you unhappy. He must have been shocked to see "I don't want us to regret each other" - does it really hurt your heart so much?

    In fact, you are also a person who does not have high requirements for love, I hope he can accompany you more, men have a lot of pressure at work, sometimes they are very busy, you are also considerate of him, but your understanding is more so that I think this is the reason why you want him to repay you.

    Communicate simply, tell him what you think in your heart, express your understanding when you are rejected, the woman understands the man first, and then the man will understand the woman, if he doesn't understand, then just say - I want you to care about me!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What do you mean is that he cares less about you, in fact, men and women still need to communicate more to maintain your relationship, I think he will still understand after reading it, and I don't think he will think much about it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's normal, if you are depressed or unhappy, you must say it, and you can't accumulate suppression to find a solution, otherwise once it breaks out, you can't contain it, he loves you and will be considerate of you.

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