How to make yourself think quickly and be able to talk when chatting with others

1. Improve self-confidence. Self-confidence is the most fundamental motivation to eliminate inferiority complex. Don't be afraid of failure, because failure is inevitable, think of "failure is the mother of success"; "Victory or defeat is a common thing in a soldier's life." We should analyze the causes of defeat with a positive attitude, believe in our own ability and perseverance, overcome difficulties, and work hard toward success.

2. Firmly believe in the truth that "I am born to be useful". Correctly understand yourself, see your own strengths, and discover your own value. Give full play to one's own strengths, actively participate in activities conducive to the development of one's strengths, and make use of one's advantages to make more achievements as much as possible, so that one's self-confidence can be continuously consolidated and enhanced.

3. Be clear: diligence is a good training to make up for clumsiness, and a point of hard work is a point of talent. Through diligent study and hard practice, we can completely narrow the gap between ourselves and others, and even catch up with or surpass others.

4. Maintain psychological balance. Students with low self-esteem should praise themselves more and use their own strengths to compare the shortcomings of others. Don't get discouraged when you encounter a setback, don't think "I can't do it", but show a strong sense of confidence: "I can do it." Do it again, and I'll make it."

Fifth, choose the right good method. Everyone's situation is different, and what is effective in others may not be applicable to them, and "Dong Shi Xiao Feng" often achieves twice the result with half the effort, and according to their own special circumstances, they can choose some good and practical methods to get twice the result with half the effort.

6. "Go your own way and let others say go!" Because other people's ridicule and belittlement are often due to jealousy or other reasons, remember: as long as you don't admit that you have an inferiority complex, no one can make you feel inferior!

Think about the good in the other person every day, and then boldly say to him, praise will make him feel happy, everyone wants praise, don't they?

When he hears your compliment, he will definitely be happy, and then naturally, he will have a lot to say.

If you can't speak, try to let the other person talk as much as possible!

Good luck. Nian An.

The key is to exercise on your own, and that's it! If you're wrong, just laugh it off, but when you speak in a serious situation, it's okay to slow down, otherwise it's you.

In fact, good friends and close lovers also have a day to finish talking, but because time is going on, there will always be something happening, so we can't finish talking.

As long as you tell him everything that happens around you, what you like and what you don't like, and when he says, you express your opinions and opinions, and then you can say what you would do if those things were going to happen.

Hello, in fact, you really want to talk to him, I like to hear his voice, right, in fact, it is a natural thing to express it, what comes to mind, say it naturally, if you are nervous, it is better to prepare some conversation in advance.

The first thing to be articulate about is to say more.

Take the books you read recently.

Share what you think is good with your friends.

Talk to me more and see if I can help you, hehe.

Category: Annoyance.

Problem description: Introverted, always slow thinking when interacting with people, always don't know how to argue at that time, obviously justified but suffered! Depressed, why is this happening.

Analysis: Huh. Don't argue when you have a reason, take the initiative to admit your mistakes when you are wrong, but don't show a scared expression no matter what.

Slowly, everyone's attitude towards you will change. Think about it, who would be angry with a docile person? And he is a deliberately docile person.

Slowly, the fear will disappear.

Start by chatting with yourself. When you have time, find a question to answer yourself; Then start typing and debating with others on the Internet, and then voice (if you have money, you don't mind using **).

If you are so introverted that you don't dare to speak, then follow the steps above to lay a good foundation. If you can say at least two sentences, then you can directly practice the parts that you feel are lacking.

The last and most difficult step is the one. Argue with others.

In this step, you must first argue with others that you are reasonable, do not let others benefit, and let them suffer.

Next, you can try to feel like you're being dumb when you're at a loss.

Although I don't know if the fit is not for you. But I used this trick to teach a lot of people, but the main purpose was to have someone to accompany me on the mountain, not to change my language skills.

I don't know if you've ever felt like this, when you were about to explain a problem, you suddenly didn't know what you were going to say at the moment when you were about to speak; I knew what I was going to say, but I got stuck in the middle of my words; I obviously wanted to say something, but I missed a lot of things because ...... speed of speech was too fast

It is clear that your thinking is out of sync with your expression. I could have done well, but I still found myself in the area where I needed to improve.

Some people say that some people are born with poor expression skills, while some people speak in private with a lot of feeling, and the expression is quite relaxed, but they can't do it on some occasions, because their body and mind are not relaxed, and in a restrained state, every nerve is tighter than usual, which leads to a narrowing of the space for thinking.

So it's really important to learn to let yourself relax.

So how to synchronize thinking with expression, or even let thinking slightly exceed expression, this requires continuous practice and exploration to find the most effective method.