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Most flash marriages will not be happy because they don't know each other well enough; Marriage is a major event in life, and it cannot be taken as a child's play. Of course, there are also those who slowly develop feelings after getting married. Choosing the other half is still a matter of deep thought. In deep thought!
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This is not the case now. However, people nowadays have a very stressful life, and if you get married in a flash, that means you can relax when you go home, but now you have to face a complete stranger to understand everything about him and find a way to live in harmony with him, so isn't it tiring? The spirit can never relax.
We all know that you have to relax in order to be happy. So who would live like that? Even if you accidentally walk in, it will be very painful, and it will not be long before your head will burst out and bleed.
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There are no absolutes in anything! I have never even met in person when I got married before. But there are many examples of happiness after marriage.
Feelings can be cultivated. Of course, it's a matter of two people. No matter how hard you work alone, it won't work if you don't cooperate!
Hehe. But now the phenomenon of flash marriage should not happen, as for happiness or unhappiness, it still depends on the two parties to grasp! No one can say for sure!
Feel it for yourself!
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It doesn't take much time to see a person clearly, and loving someone is a very subtle moment to begin.
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Most of them won't be happy.
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Summary. In the early stage of the relationship, men and women in flash marriages try their best to cover up their shortcomings, show their good side, and do not know each other enough. The fulcrum of flash marriage is unstable.
In the early stage of the relationship, men and women in flash marriages are trying their best to cover up their shortcomings, and Shinai shows their good side, and they don't know each other enough. The fulcrum of flash marriage is unstable.
But flash marriage can't be blindly denied, there is nothing absolute, and it is not excluded that there are those who fall in love at first sight, and couples who have been in love for many years also parted ways. No one can have the happiness rate of flash marriage, but it is bright and clear, but since ancient times, it has been the life of parents.
A happy marriage requires the understanding and tolerance of two people, as long as you manage it carefully, the marriage can be very happy. I wish you a happy marriage!
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Even if I meet someone I like, I won't choose a flash marriage.
Because even if you like someone very much, you must understand his personality and his style of doing things, and then you must understand the actual situation of his family. I think falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, and it has a lot to do with the parents of both parties. If I marry him again and find that I don't get along with his parents, then I will regret getting married.
In order not to give myself a chance to regret it, I would not choose a flash marriage.
In fact, most flash marriages are because they are hot-headed and feel that the other party is their true love, so they marry each other. But I don't think it's possible to determine whether the other party is the person you really want just by looking at each other, you must contact the other party, understand his character, and know what shortcomings he has to determine whether you can get along with this person. Both people will be very sweet when they practice, and they will also feel that the other party is the other half they want, but as they spend more time together, the shortcomings of the two people are slowly exposed, and they will quarrel, and if they don't handle it well when they quarrel, it is easy for the two people to break up.
If you get married at this time, even if you want to break up, you can't do it, you can only endure it alone.
When some men and women go on a blind date, after a few days of dating, both parties feel good about themselves, and the relationship heats up quickly, and they quickly complete a series of emotional and legal procedures and walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand. On the surface, this kind of flash marriage after a blind date is a manifestation of encountering fate, but in fact it is an emotional impulse, at least a manifestation of not being serious or imprudent in attitude towards marriage.
So I think you can not be cautious when you fall in love, but you must be cautious when you get married, because marriage is a major event in your life, and you only get married once in this life, if you don't think about it well, regret is a lifelong regret. I think that marriage must be well thought out, and when getting married, the parents of both parties must also agree, so that the marriage of two people will be happy. I think a marriage with the blessing of parents will be happy, and if the marriage does not have the blessing of parents, then this marriage is destined to be unhappy.
So I'm going to have to think about it, and it's best to bring him home to meet my parents, and if my parents agree, I'll think about it.
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Each of us is very much looking forward to having love, because for each of us, we all know that love is very happy, but also very sweet, and it is precisely because love is so happy and sweet, so many people are very much looking forward to having their own love.
Especially when they meet someone they like, then many people will work very hard, they will care about each other well, love each other, because they hope that through their own enthusiasm and hard work, so that two people can be better together, and getting along will eventually allow them to have happiness and sweet love.
So we see that some people want to have a flash marriage with each other when they meet someone they like, so some people want to know what problems will exist in flash marriages.
First of all, although there are many people, they really want to have love. So when they see the person they like, they want to flash marry each other immediately, but in fact, this approach is very unwise. Because if we get married to each other immediately, it may not be very familiar to us and the other party, and we don't know each other very well, so in the end, it will cause too many problems between us.
So we see it for the majority of people. When they meet someone they like, then they will try to be with each other and get along well. They generally have to be in a relationship for at least half a year, or even longer, because it is through this kind of interaction that they can become more familiar with each other and understand each other.
It is precisely because of the familiarity and understanding of each other that two people can get along better.
Therefore, many people are very much looking forward to love, and when they meet someone they like, there are indeed a small number of people who want to get married to each other immediately. But such an approach is very irrational. Because this may make their love not so lucky.
So we see for more people. They will be with the person they like for at least half a year, because this will allow them to get better acquainted with each other and understand each other. It is precisely in this way that two people can be better together, and getting along so that they can finally have their own happier and sweeter love.
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