My boyfriend s ex wife came to see the children and I was annoyed and didn t know what to do

As a little stepmother, let me tell you, in fact, you are afraid that because of the child, they will continue to be together, don't make excuses for yourself, after all, that is the child's mother, you should understand the sentence "son and mother are connected". He has the right to see his own children, no matter what time it is, all you can do is to educate the children well, and don't force these on the children because of the things between two women. Unless they sign an agreement when they divorce that the woman will never look at the children, you don't have the right to say no!!

This kind of thing will be annoying in the future, the child is the most innocent, but growing up in such a complex environment at such a young age, all the fault of your man is the main one, messing around outside, and the wife at home is separated, this kind of man is not worth it, it is better to leave early, while you have no children.

I say from the bottom of my heart, you are great! Love Wu and Wu! yes, love your boyfriend so love his child too, even if it's another woman's child...

I think everyone can understand your feelings, but you have no reason not to let that woman come to see the child, because she is the child's own mother, she wants to go over to see the child, but she has wronged you, but this is also a helpless thing, because it is the path you choose yourself, everything can only be seen away... If you treat the child sincerely, the child will repay you, and when she grows up, she will measure who cares more about her and who is the one who really pays for her.

I think you better let it go, it's going to be sad to live with this kind of man!! You have to believe that they have a daughter, that can never be changed, there are many contradictions in the marriage, and the current marriage is already very sad, not to mention that yours is still in such a situation!! Believe that without him, you will meet a better !!

After all, the child has half of her, and that's also a part of her, isn't it, empathize with her and treat it with a normal heart.

You're cheap too!! You people are evil!!

Summary. Hello, dear. You're the first marriage, he's the second marriage.

My husband and ex-wife often contact each other, saying that it is for the sake of the children, and I can't understand many things, what should I do?

Hello, dear. You're the first marriage, he's the second marriage.

One, what should I do if my husband and ex-wife are in frequent contact with each other because of their children 1Communicate well Although for the husband, they are only in contact for the sake of the children, in their opinion, the relationship between the husband and the ex-wife is a slippery thing and a very abnormal thing, so it is normal for them to feel uncomfortable. Therefore, at this time, we should also tell our husbands about our dissatisfaction.

At the same time, we should also allow our husbands to exchange and think. How would our husband feel if we talked to our ex-boyfriend a lot. 2.

Grasp the degree There is really no way to break the divorce after two people have children, but it is also necessary to master the degree in future communication, if it is excessive, this relationship is very abnormal. Although Lu Tingran's husband and ex-wife were the most intimate relationship at the beginning, from the moment they divorced, they should understand that they should keep an absolute distance, and the relationship between them is only the father and mother of the child. 3.

Solution Finally, what should I do if my husband and ex-wife are in frequent contact because of their children? In fact, at this time, we should also consider solutions, such as telling our husband that the future child-related matters can also be solved by ourselves. This way, you can communicate with your husband's ex-wife.

After all, you and your husband are now one, so anyone can fix this. Therefore, there is a way to solve this situation. At this time, don't quarrel with your husband or you will lose your manners.

I'm married for the second time, and he said it was for the children, but they talked too much.

How long have you two been married.

We haven't gotten a certificate yet, and I've been with him for five years.

Did he divorce him because of you in the early stage?

No, I didn't know him until after the divorce.

Was he the one who filed for divorce from his ex-wife in the first place?

I don't know what he's trying to do now, he's with me here, and he's talking to his ex-wife over there.

No. Can you ask your age?

Have you two been at odds lately?

Summary. You asked him to tell his ex-wife directly that you are now dealing with someone, and it is not appropriate to stay at home like this. Not beat around the bush. They are all adults, so they should be able to understand.

My boyfriend's ex-wife always goes to see the kids and lives at his house, what should I say? What to do.

Hello this friend, it's a pleasure for me to ask your questions. You're in a relationship with your boyfriend, but your ex-wife chooses to live at home while they're visiting the kids, and you're worried. Yes, it's obviously not appropriate to do this, even if the ex-wife chooses to sleep with the children, but after all, you are already in a relationship, so it must be very uncomfortable for you.

What does my boyfriend think about this?

His boyfriend said he didn't know how to say it, and I felt uncomfortable hearing him say that.

The teacher understands your feelings very well. Such a thing would be unacceptable to anyone.

His ex-wife is a person with no sense of boundaries, should she know that you and your boyfriend are in the relationship? If she knew, she wouldn't have done it.

Maybe his ex-wife did it on purpose, so how can I communicate with my boyfriend in this way!

You asked him to tell his ex-wife directly that you are now dealing with someone, and it is not appropriate to stay at home like this. Not beat around the bush. They are all adults, so they should be able to understand.

Hee-hee. You can understand what the teacher said. It seems that your boyfriend is a very kind person.

He's kind, but he doesn't put himself in my shoes.

Yes, so you have to tell him how you feel.

Having said that, it's useless, you can only worry about it yourself.

But this will affect your relationship, and if you get married in the future, how should you deal with such problems?

This question is very realistic. Did his ex-wife start a family on her own?

It is normal for people with children to contact their ex-wives, after all, they used to be a family, and they will be involved in various ways because of their children in the future, including their children going to college, their children getting married, and their children starting a family.

You should try to understand because the husband and ex-wife have children in common. For the sake of the children, they will definitely have a lot of contact.

In this case, only after having a good discussion with him, and having a heart-to-heart conversation, only in this case can he make a judgment after explaining it to him clearly and asking him clearly.

If it's really for the sake of the child, then you understand and tell him to take care of the child more, but don't contact him more than the child, and tell him that you will be unhappy.

My husband and his ex-wife are often in contact, saying that it is for the sake of the children, of course, it is also possible that it is really because of the children, since he is now married to you, you still have to believe him.

I think my husband and his ex-wife are in constant contact, and they should indeed be in contact often for the sake of their children, as long as they don't cross the line, you can't interfere in this matter.

Let's understand it correctly, after all, two people have children, and children also need both parents to take care of them.

Since a man who chooses to marry for the second time will inevitably face such a problem, which you should think about before you get married.

Don't always suspect that your husband and ex-wife have a problem, if the two of them have a problem, they would have remarried a long time ago, do you say yes.

There is indeed such a practical problem between them, because for children, no matter everyone, they may not let go, so at this time you have to learn to accept it, and if you can't accept it, you can choose to leave.

Since you are married to a second-married man, you must be able to be inclusive, people have ex-wives and children, then it is inevitable to be contacted, you have to trust him, as long as you live a good life with you, I think you shouldn't be careless.

If you want to live with your current husband, don't worry too much, you have to trust him, so you can do it.

It is impossible for anyone to give up their children, so it is the same for both men and women in this regard, so at this time we can only accept this reality.

My husband and ex-wife often contact each other, saying that it is for the sake of the children, and many things are incomprehensible. Since you don't call the children to contact them, what should you make the current wife and current husband think? I hope you have less contact for the sake of your children.

So let's not go to the kind of person who remarries. Otherwise, the family will be more complicated and difficult to manage, so the best thing you can do is to have a child yourself.

Then you have to understand them and believe in them, because it is inevitable that you will meet for children, this must believe in them and understand them, so that you will be more comfortable with yourself.

Halfway couples need to be more understanding.

Summary. Surely you should agree, you have chosen him to be your husband, you should choose and accept everything about him, his family, his children, his strengths and weaknesses.

Surely you should agree, you have chosen him to be your husband, you should choose and accept everything about him, his family, his children, his strengths and weaknesses.

This problem child is innocent, then help raise it yourself, the child is the most pitiful, if you have the ability, you can raise it as your own child!

I think you can accept this child if you have the conditions, after all, he is your husband's child, and your husband's child is also your child, I believe that his ex-wife sent the child back, and he must have really no ability to raise the child to send it back, because the child is also a simple life, you should treat him well, and don't hurt the child.

Your husband has the obligation to take care of the children, and since you choose to be with him, you should be ready to be a stepmother.

If the boy is polite, you should be kind to him, buy him a small gift, be kind. If the child is not sensible and has a bad attitude towards you, you can just treat you politely. You can't behave too badly, after all, it's your husband's child.

Treating your children badly can affect your relationship with your husband.

He was willing to bring the children from his previous marriage over, indicating that he was still responsible for the children.