Hello, my family has a third party, what should I do 20

Don't get along with yourself, people have to live proudly, if you are no longer interested in your husband, then you can choose to leave, I believe, you can still live a good life without him. If you don't give up and still want to fight, then you have to keep a good attitude, accept this matter, and then, use your own charm and family affection to influence your husband and completely defeat the mistress. Ha ha. Come on.

This problem is more complicated, because everyone's outlook on life and values are different, some people can ignore all the problems for the sake of the family, but some people can't. After reading your question, I don't think you're a very assertive person. I advise you to think about what you want when you ask questions.

If you still have feelings and still think that the family is very important, then bear all this silently, but in this case, I am afraid that in the future, you will find that you can't bear this, and the outbreak will be much stronger than now.

It's up to you to decide where to go, because it's your life, and no one can make decisions for you. Remember, no matter what you decide, don't regret it, because any decision will change your life, and all you have to do is enjoy your life, and don't waste your time every day because of life's troubles.

Talk to your husband deeply and see what the problem is. Then cold processed.

If you are a wise man, don't make a fuss, move your mind, and don't move your mouth or make a lot of noise, that will not work very well! You can try to change yourself a little bit to make your husband feel that you still love him the most! You can also have a good chat with the junior, don't quarrel, that may backfire!

One cry, two troubles, three hangings, resolutely fight to the end.

Meet with the woman and make it clear. And then look at her future performance,

If you don't have children, leave as soon as possible. If you have a child, you have to make him responsible, marriage is not about getting married if you want to, and leaving if you want to. Find a way to resolutely not leave.

The child should have a complete home, and the child should have a father. (Will he kick his wife and children out of the car for the sake of a hitchhiking woman?) ）

There is definitely a way, but it's a bit cruel, but only this way of making yourself suffer can make yourself unforgettable, and you won't repeat it next time.

Here's how:

If you are a man, you can cut three small willow branches in the spring, and keep pumping them at your bird, and you will remember to break these three willow branches.

If you are a woman, you can buy three sturdy fly swatters, slap your wontons all the time, and break these three fly swatters and keep them in mind.

It is not easy for a person to have a family, and loyalty to the family is everyone's obligation, especially the husband and wife need to be loyal to each other, which is beneficial to both husband and wife, and to the whole family, including parents and children. Taking care of a family requires the long-term management of everyone, especially the male and female heads of the family.

You have a family, and you don't want to fool around with a third party now, which is a good thing, which means that you have found out in your conscience that you don't want to do anything that hurts your lover and family anymore.

What should you do to stop this immoral behavior, it's almost to the point where we are messing up.

You have a family and don't want to continue with the mistress. You can communicate well with the junior and explain the situation. Seek the cool solution of the junior. In addition, you have to make up a large part of the money of Shang Sanyi.

It is estimated that it will be difficult to do, this does not mean that you want to start and end if you want to, there will be unpredictable results later.

In this way, you must be sorry for your other half and break up if you don't want to continue, which will hurt many people, and you must be responsible for yourself and others.

You have a family, and you don't want to continue with a third party, so you cut off contact with a third party.

Cut it off immediately, it is wrong to have a family and a third party, correct it immediately!

There is a third party in the family, just like an aggressor in a country, the reason why it can be invaded and enter deeply can only be said that the country is not strong enough, and there are problems with long-term governance.

The same is true for the third party, no matter who approaches first, the ultimate reason is because of the weakness and problems in the marriage, so the third party has room to intervene, and if you want to eliminate the third party, you should not simply use any method to defeat her, but you should take a good look at the lack and problems in your marriage, and think about how to strengthen your feelings, so that it is possible to eliminate her existence at all.

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The problems are detailed and the specific problems are analyzed.

If you can bear it, you can bear it, and then you will have a good time after you make it clear, and if you can't bear it, you will break up haha.

The important thing is how you think about the return of money, if you have no hope for this marriage, just divorce it, if you still care about this marriage, just talk to the other party, tell the other party what you Sun Pai thinks, and let the other party understand that you still care about Kaiyan

It depends on whether you want to continue to maintain the marriage, if you want to continue the marriage, then you have to endure, first take back your husband's heart, and then learn to forgive, learn to forget. If you don't want to renew your marriage, it's very simple. Dress up.

Understand your object's thoughts first, see if he wants to continue or don't want to over, if you want to continue with the rough Danchang, give him a chance, if it's not good to show his late thoughts, just disperse, otherwise he will be uncomfortable.

Let's talk to your husband first, ask him if he wants this home, if he really wants to go back, then you can talk to Xiao San.

That's up to you, if you can ignore the third party, give him a chance, if not, then you divorce.

Either you will divide or pass, and the third party will see how you deal with it, or see if you are worth it, completely on your own.

It's up to you, and if you want to end it, file a lawsuit, and if you want to defend it, defend the family.

If you want to continue to live, you will try your best to rectify the junior and let him retreat. If you don't want to, divorce it.

The two sides have a good talk, and if they can live together, give each other a chance.

Either work hard to get back your husband, or simply leave to fulfill them.

Have a good talk with your husband. Give your husband and yourself a chance.

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Either divorce, or tolerate, or end the mistress....

Since he found out about this thing with his father many years ago, but he didn't want to give up this family, it shows that he still cares about you and mom, and needs this family. Sometimes such things can't be solved by "making trouble", on the contrary, it is true to use your love to win back Dad's heart. Especially you, as the bond of the family, you have to communicate and communicate well with your father, talk about how much you care about this matter, or your fear of losing the warmth of the family and your need for your father (to make your father moved) so that your father feels that he has hurt the happiness of the family and hurt the relatives who love him deeply.

Sometimes it may be counterproductive to use extreme measures to deal with this kind of thing, especially when you show resentment towards him, but he will not feel the warmth of home, but will feel the good of the other.

Sometimes, don't be too anxious when you encounter things, you have to deal with them calmly, and I wish you and your mother happiness!