How did you spend your first year of marriage?

The first year of my marriage was very helpless and depressed, and it has been like this until now, I won't say the specific reason, I will continue to live, because I am already a second marriage, but if this marriage has been consuming me, I will not hesitate to choose to end. Now I found out that most of the men are immature, have no sense of responsibility, and don't know why they got married in the first place, why they practiced themselves, if they are happier when they are alone than when they are together, then why not choose to be single again.

In the year after marriage, there were countless fights, just like two armies fighting, countless times to test each other's strength and bottom line. After knowing where the other party's bottom line is, the two sides make concessions and do not cross the other party's red line. If one party feels that one side admits defeat and keeps touching the red line, one day both sides will lose.

The past is unbearable! Our first year is just in time for the era of agriculture Dazhai fighting heaven and earth, and we are struggling in our respective positions in the vast world. The year included the wedding and the Chinese New Year, and when we got together, there were only seven days in the year, but none of us complained.

Looking back now, I also feel sorry for the other party, but we think it's worth it, we didn't let our youth go to waste, we are fighting for our ideals, fighting for the call of the corresponding party, no regrets!

The first year was very harmonious and satisfying, and the rest was like this, because we have been in love together for six years, and the relationship between the two people has been running in.

quarreling, testing the other party's bottom line, and running in, Mr. bluntly said that his patience in this life was exhausted on me. Now the two complement each other, are willing to accommodate each other, and are doing well.

Quarrel with each other on various issues. It turns out that there will be quarrels in love, but there will still be a little jealousy and reservation, mainly because the other party is ruthless in foul language after marriage.

The in-laws are retired, and their married life is still a two-person world. But soon I was asked to prepare for pregnancy and became pregnant, and it was such a toss for a year, and I finally got pregnant with a baby. Ignorantly faced with various problems during pregnancy, embarrassed to expose his ignorance.

In the first year after marriage, because of the first Spring Festival, I was arguing about whose house the first Spring Festival was spent in, and I didn't know what he thought after arguing for a month, and finally spent the New Year at his house.

I have been married for four months, and now I am ten weeks pregnant, I don't know why it is so fast, and I haven't had enough of the world of the two.

China is a country that pays great attention to customs and habits, and even after its development to this day, it still retains many traditional customs. Therefore, there are some customs that everyone should keep in mind. So, where is the first year of marriage for the Chinese New Year? Whose house did you spend the first year of marriage in?

Where to spend the first year of marriage.

In a patriarchal society, girls live in the man after marriage, which is called marriage, and if they live in the woman, they are called recruiting a son-in-law or plugging in the door. Nowadays, the new society advocates equality between men and women, and they are all only children, so the average family has discussed before marriage that the man is the main body (the girl marries) and lives with the man after marriage, and the woman is the main body (recruiting a son-in-law) and lives with the woman after marriage. It is determined that the girl is married, and the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of junior high school must be spent in the man's side, and the second year of junior high school can go to the woman's house to pay New Year's greetings; If the woman recruits her son-in-law, then the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year should be celebrated in the woman's New Year!

Now there is a new situation, the old people on both sides are in the countryside, and the two young people are working in the city, and it is not very convenient to come and go.

Recommendations for the first year of marriage.

1. Take turns eating at noon and evening on the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve.

Suitable for people: The distance between the mother-in-law and the mother's house is closer, so that the two families are taken care of, which is the most harmonious way.

2. Go back to the family every year and take turns every year.

New Year's customs in the first year of marriage.

Suitable for people: in-law's family and mother's family are in two places, which is the fairest way for two only children.

3. Two families fight together and eat Chinese New Year's Eve dinner together.

Suitable for people: mother-in-law, mother-in-law is willing to get together, now many parents go to their children's homes together for the New Year, so that there is no sense of loss on both sides, after eating Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, you can also keep the New Year together, and you can travel together during the Spring Festival.

Customs for the first year of marriage.

Gifts for both parents: choose some gifts that are convenient to display, clothes, watches, cigarettes, alcohol and tea, jewelry, you know, relatives visit the door during the Spring Festival, and generally say that the new clothes are very good-looking; This tea ** was bought, it was really delicious; The watch in my hand is not cheap or something, at this time, my parents have face: my new daughter-in-law (new son-in-law) brought it back.

Gifts to relatives, gifts are light and affectionate, depending on the economic situation, roughly understand the preferences of relatives in advance, so that the choice of gifts is more targeted, so that people can see that you have a heart. The elders are elderly, and health care products and milk powder for the elderly can be sent. The elders are middle-aged, and they can give cigarettes, alcohol and tea, which is a common gift, and it is also a gift choice that will not go wrong.

Our side is the man to go to the woman's house for the New Year, and the girl can also go back to the man's house with the man for the New Year, I don't think this is special, as long as you have a good relationship, the New Year is not the New Year? The first year of my marriage was also spent at my husband's house, my husband's family was out of town, we spent the first year at my husband's house, and the second year we spent it at our own house. In fact, it is okay to celebrate the New Year in **, as long as two people are together, whether it is in **New Year, it is the same.

I think as long as two people are together, there is no difference in the Chinese New Year. In the first year of marriage, we spent the Chinese New Year at the man's house, because my husband was from out of town, and we spent it at his house.

Married for one year: paper marriage;

Two years of marriage: cotton marriage;

Married for three years: leather marriage;

Married for four years: Huaguo Marriage;

Married for five years: wood marriage;

Married for six years: sugar wedding;

Married for seven years: Mao Marriage;

Eight years of marriage: bronze wedding;

Married for nine years: Tao Wedding;

Married for 10 years: tin marriage;

Twenty years of marriage: magnetic marriage;

Twenty-five years of marriage: silver wedding;

Thirty years of marriage: pearl marriage;

Thirty-five years of marriage: Coral Marriage;

Forty years of marriage: Ruby Wedding;

Forty-five years of marriage: Qingyu Marriage;

Fifty years of marriage: Golden Wedding;

Fifty-five years of marriage: Emerald Wedding;

Sixty years of marriage: diamond diamond marriage;

Seventy Years of Marriage: Platinum Wedding!

One year of marriage is a paper marriage, two years is a cotton or cloth marriage, three years is a leather marriage, four years is a silk marriage, five years is a wood marriage, six years is an iron marriage, seven years is a bronze marriage, eight years is an electrical marriage, nine years is a pottery marriage, ten years is a tin marriage, eleven years is a steel marriage, twelve years is a hemp marriage, thirteen years is a lace marriage, fourteen years is an ivory marriage, fifteen years is a crystal marriage, twenty years is a porcelain wedding, twenty-five years is a silver wedding, thirty years is a pearl wedding, thirty-five years is a coral or jasper wedding, forty years is a ruby wedding, forty-five years is a sapphire wedding, Fifty years is a golden wedding, fifty-five years is a jade wedding, sixty years is a diamond wedding, and seventy years is a platinum wedding.

Hello The first year of marriage is: paper marriage, which describes the marriage relationship is relatively thin. The second year is:

Cotton marriage describes a certain willfulness in the marital relationship, but it is not yet strong. The third year is: leather marriage and spring matching, and the marriage relationship has resilience.

The fourth year is: silk marriage, and the marriage relationship is as flexible as silk. The fifth year is:

Wooden marriage, the marriage relationship has a certain degree of tenacity and can withstand small turmoil. The sixth year of Mori and the marriage relationship is much stronger.

The seventh year is: copper wedding, the marriage relationship not only has hardness but also resilience. The eighth year is:

Tao marriage, the marriage relationship is as delicate as ceramics. They need to be pampered by each other. The ninth year is:

Willow marriage, a marriage relationship, can withstand all kinds of wind and rain. The tenth year is: tin marriage, as strong as pewter, not easy to break.

The eleventh year is: the marriage of steel, as hard as steel, unchanged in this life. The twelfth year is:

Chain marriage, like an iron chain, is heart-to-heart. The thirteenth year is: lace wedding, colorful, diverse life.

The fourteenth year is: ivory marriage, the marriage relationship is white and flawless. The fifteenth year is:

Crystal marriage, the marital relationship is clear and transparent.

Hello key slim annihilation! After my inquiry, the first year of marriage is newlywed, which is the stage when couples begin their married life. The relationship and mutual understanding between the couple during the newlywed period is very important, and it is necessary to cooperate and understand each other to face the challenges of life together.

In traditional Chinese marriage customs, there are usually some customs and etiquette during the wedding period, such as newlywed wine, flower candles in the cave room, worship ceremony, and welcoming relatives. There may also be differences in the customs of different regions and different ethnic groups. The Marriage Law stipulates the definition and validity of marriage, and both husband and wife should be equal and mutually beneficial, and should respect each other, support and help each other.

The above information** is available in Xiaohongshu.

After three years of marriage, we start to get tired of it, and I think that generally about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and tired of each other.

Not long after we got married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I didn't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law's house for a while, and then I felt that my husband and my husband slowly began to be estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, The cooking is not on time, and my father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it is useless to say it, and at this time he always says that I am not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that he is unwilling to call him to say these things.

Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was too sick of pregnancy and vomiting, and my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he could not come.

Later, we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit a stool Xun, at first I and he will be a day **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up **, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we have been separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, when the first empty waited for us to be married for just three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.

We have been almost 3 years since the end of October, and we have not been happy since the next day, mainly because we live with our in-laws, and his brother's family has taken advantage of not living with my in-laws, and he has taken advantage of hunger, and he also talked about sending his children over every day, and bought his current house when he almost divorced.