I became a cautious man, and I was depressed

From the above, it seems that you still care about her very much, so you have to talk to her calmly. Seek a solution.

As for you hitting someone, I don't think it's right, if you think her feelings for you are true, then you should believe her, the basis of two people together is trust. If you don't believe her, it's better to break up, because even if you are together and don't believe each other, you will be the one who will hurt in the end.

I'm the same as you, but the experience is different She had an affair with many classmates and finally abandoned me Ambiguous with classmates But told me that she was just a friend Over and over again I slowly lost trust in her Three years have basically quarreled every day, and I also feel that my psychology has changed a lot I have become very sensitive and very cautious Let's break up together, I have a pimple in my heart Very depressed I still think every day I am cranky Once I am unfaithful There will be more in the future.

If I choose to leave.

She's lying to you, there's a man at home so late, don't be stupid, leave; Find someone who is genuine to you!

You can't accept it, but a man has to be like a man, some things are acceptable, and some things have to be decided immediately.

I'm also a man, and there's no room for such things, it's the dignity of a man!!

If you still love her, tell her.

Don't torture yourself.

On a fair standpoint, I don't blame men the way they blame women. The world of men and women is different, men live harder and more difficult than women, whether it is a big heart or a careful eye, fighting heart eye is the way men survive in this society, that is a mode of thinking rooted in their bones, they will use the heart eye in everything that is applicable, from the national community to family life. When used in a large place, it is called far-sightedness and power; It is called a stratagem in a small place, and the performance is very different, and it is necessary to wear a beautiful hat in a high-sounding manner.

Therefore, under the superficial generosity, there is a small character hidden under every man's leather robe, which is far less bright and clear than that of women. There are no so-called generous men in this world, and those generosity are just a kind of conspiracy. So I never believe in the old saying that "the prime minister can support the boat in his belly", of course, the ancient prime minister was more male, on the surface the stomach can support the boat, in fact, the heart "twists and turns", "suffer from gains and losses" The choice is just a kind of power trick to paralyze the other party or want to obtain greater benefits.

I have never believed in the modern nonsense of "men are afraid of their wives" and "good men don't fight with women", when a man easily says that he is afraid of his wife, what is shown in his bones is a kind of pride that everything is under control, and the careful eye is hidden in his pride; When a man uses "good men don't fight with women" to prevaricate a thing, on the one hand, it shows his extreme contempt, and on the other hand, it shows his lack of confidence, which is actually very cautious, and it is far more insidious and "small-bellied" than women.

You're generous. How can you make him lose face. You can do whatever you want. Hehe. But not too obviously. Do it covertly. Let him know. It's not good to be careful.

No one wants to meet such a boy.

dumped him, and broke off friends if they were friends.

1 A cautious man is too calculating, and will argue with you for a long time over a little thing2 A cautious man always likes to speculate on other people's thoughts, and is suspicious of everyone, and many times, he will not trust others except himself.

3 A cautious man always lacks a sunny side, less sincerity and frankness, but more insidious and cunning.

4 Careful men are always too selfish. Such a man rarely puts himself in the shoes of others, and will only see his own interests, but will not put the interests of others in his eyes and heart. In his psychology, his own interests are higher than everything else, and even if his own interests are satisfied, he can rarely take into account the interests of others

In fact, cautious men are basically emotionally oriented.

Because men are very possessive animals.

Don't let him feel that you don't care about him.

Don't behave too much in front of him and other boys.

Ask him more questions.

Men like the girls they like and care about themselves.

At one point, you have to make sure that you really like him.

To love you personally, you have to pay for him seriously.

The important thing in love is to be sincere, sincere, and tolerant.

Communicate more.

Didn't he be careful before you met? Maybe this is the reason why you took a fancy to him at the beginning, and after getting along for a long time, you are not simple, but become extravagant, but think he is cautious, this is just my speculation, if it is really I hope you don't blame him, because he will be very aggrieved, because everything he does is for the two of you.

I think let's take a look at one of them! If you say that you are careful, then you are very happy.

Hehe, reason with him, I think no matter how careful you are, you will understand it. Let him understand, only if he understands, everyone will live a better life.

You start by talking to him about why he's angry.

If you just don't want you to go out and let others see or not accompany him, disperse with this kind of person, you will suffer, not to mention, you don't know what is going on that day, you will provoke him to a man's mother-in-law, mother-in-law, after marriage, what kind of life do you think about.

You are wrong, he loves you, he is afraid that you will betray him, play with him,

This is not something that is cultivated in a day, and it is very difficult to correct it. First of all, it depends on whether you have enough patience and whether he has enough mind to correct it.