I don t know if we re fit or not, why aren t we?

To find a husband, you need two very simple conditions: (1) self-motivated (2) can love you.

The first determines the happiness of your quality of life, whether he has money or a good job now, if he has such a standard, then he is a good man, and one day you will enjoy a happy life.

The second determines your emotional happiness, it is very, very important to find a man who really loves you and loves you, it is also the glue of the relationship between the two people, and you will always feel happy with it.

From what you said about your boyfriend with both conditions, it should be a good boy, he sometimes says that you are stupid that he likes you, don't misunderstand, and at the same time you can show his manly meaning, from this point it can be seen that your boyfriend is still a little machismo, this kind of man is not likely to find a girl who is smarter than him, in short, this boy is good, but there is another point is that you like him from the heart, love him? If yes, then the two of you are very suitable, bless the world with lovers!

I think it's very good, my husband is seven years older than me, and he always says I'm stupid, stupid and cute, he has to travel a lot, but he still treats me very well and loves me very much. He said that you are a little girl, that is to love you, like you will say that, you don't have to be deliberately mature, I believe that what he likes is the natural you.

At that time, it will not be good for two people to be together often, and both people will love and cherish each other more when they are busy.

The two problems you mentioned should not be a big problem, often overtime, this is a very normal thing at work, young people should work hard; If you are greedy for enjoyment now, you may have to suffer later; Besides, in the future, you may not have to work overtime if you are promoted, which should not be a big problem.

Saying you're stupid is actually liking you, you don't have to worry that he won't protect you; Because he has a "silly" girlfriend, he will feel very sorry for you.

Take control of your happiness.

Hehe, you can't think he's not suitable for you just because he said you're stupid Traveling a lot As the saying goes, "a little don't win a new love" Hehe As long as you really love each other, you won't care so much Bless you guys

Shakespeare said:

Love is not sweet words under the shade of flowers, not honey words in the peach blossom garden, not light tears, not even rigid compulsion, love is based on a common language.

It's up to you! Do you love him? Does he love you? If yes, why think about it so much!

I'm such a person, and I'm a victim, and I really shouldn't like a girl like that.

A lot of boys like silly girls

Whether it is suitable or not, only you know.

Then you also act smarter, aren't you worried that he will like other women?

You can't always have to eat, drink, and have fun rolling the sheets in a relationship, and when you see those flaws, you think to yourself, "We are not suitable", why is it not suitable, can you tell you a specific thing or two? Have you tried to use communication to run in and work on this relationship? If you haven't tried to run in, how can you use the absurdity of "inappropriate" as a reason to break up in a determined tone?

What is the premise of using "inappropriate" as a reason to break up? The premise is that you are both willing to solve it, and you have worked hard to communicate about it, and then you find that these problems have not been erased, and they are not suitable and cannot be reconciled.

If not, don't use the excuse that you're not in the relationship, and lose interest in continuing the relationship. To put it bluntly, you're just using "inappropriate" as an excuse to escape.

It is true that inappropriate will slowly consume likes, but you can't say that it is inappropriate because you don't like it.

Besides, what should you do if you have already run in, but still can't put together the puzzle pieces of the two?

Then it is normal and correct to break up at this time, and indecision is fatal.

Some things can be mended, some can't, and after two days of hard sewing, they are still pulled apart, and you can't sew them countless times for a lifetime.

At that time, it's time to stop the relationship.

At that time, whether she loves you or not should no longer be used as a cage to lock the relationship, because even if you continue to be with her because she loves you, it will only make the relationship more and more devastated, and everything is no longer mutual, but unbalanced. When two people are running in parallel, one person is walking faster and one person is slower, or one person is running and one person is walking, which is not appropriate. Because of the habit of walking from childhood to adulthood, it is difficult for a strong person to completely change.

And the only thing you can do is to match the speed and rhythm of the other person on the premise that you will not be uncomfortable.