What would it be like to suddenly connect with a good friend from high school?

Updated on society 2024-05-28
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Many times, we lose touch with our closest friends for various reasons. And these friends I met in the future are just friends in terms of interests, and I don't have that kind of intimate feeling anymore. At this time, I often recall the time when I went to school, and the simple and happy time when we got along together.

    But memories are only for nostalgia, and we can never go back to that simple and happy time.

    Often at this time, we especially want to contact our good friend who was together back then, and want to know whether she is doing well, whether she is married, how many children she has, whether she is working, what kind of husband she married, etc. But how difficult it is to find friends who have been cut off. So, after looking for a lot of time, we couldn't get in touch, and we can only remember with deep regret.

    But suddenly one day, in QQ, an old classmate provided the QQ number of this good friend, and we were happy to add each other as friends. At that moment, it seemed that we had a lot of words, wanted to talk to each other, wanted to know what the other person was doing.

    So, during that time, we and our former best friends were like couples in love, and we had endless topics to talk about every day. We got to know each other and talked about how we missed each other for so many years. Although time has isolated us for so many years without contact, it seems that we have no barriers between each other.

    Separation seems like a thing of yesterday. Chatting in QQ, we seem to have found the feeling of intimacy back then. But, after all, the distance of space allows us to chat only in QQ, but this seems to be enough.

    Because good friends are always a spiritual fit.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The mood is happy, excited, and apprehensive!

    When I was in high school, I had a very good friend, Iron Buddy, and we were usually inseparable, going to class, eating, and playing together, and we lived in the same dormitory, so the relationship was really good. Most importantly, we have similar personalities and have common interests and hobbies, in short, the relationship of best friends.

    I went to college and went to different cities, and the contact between the two gradually decreased, and then it was maintained in the situation of getting together for the New Year and sending a blessing on my birthday, but I have never alienated him in my heart, and I still feel like high school for him.

    After graduating, he went to a city farther away, and we had less contact with each other, plus we were both very busy at work, so I thought we might really break off from each other. <>

    Unexpectedly, he came home from a business trip last week and suddenly informed me. I was suddenly very happy and excited, thinking about what it was like to not see him for many years, and I also wanted to know how he had been in the past few years, what he had experienced, whether he had forgotten the friendship between the two of us, and whether he could recall what they had done together before.

    I met with joy and excitement, and the moment I embraced, all worries and doubts disappeared. He is still the same person he used to be, the feeling of the two being together in close proximity has not changed, and he is still as comfortable and comfortable as he was in high school. And there is an endless list of things to say.

    That day we finished eating at noon, sat in the restaurant and chatted until dinner, and then chatted while eating, the waiter served us tea several times, and finally we were really embarrassed, we asked for a pot ourselves, drank it ourselves, and poured it ourselves.

    This is a good friend, no matter how long you have been apart or how far apart you have been, but that friendship will always exist, it has never gone far, and it has not disappeared.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I must have been happier with that feeling.

    If you think about your best friends in high school, it has been a long time since now, when we went to and from school together, played and played, what a happy and happy time, in a blink of an eye, we went our separate ways, if we meet again, I believe that there must be a thousand words in your heart that are difficult to express your feelings at this moment.

    Because the friendship years in the past were innocent and not mixed with any interests, unlike now, when I went to college, they have begun to change, making friends is mercenary, whoever is beneficial to me will make friends and so on, many feelings have changed their taste, only the relationship when I was a child is sincere. <>

    Many of us like to miss the past, but what we miss is not only the past, but also the friendship years, the lyrics in the old boy, the teenagers who used to be in the Quartet, envy the Yan who flew south, and the figures of their respective future hurriedly drifted away. In the blink of an eye, all the efforts were gone, but when I looked back, the man was only in the dim light.

    If you can meet your best friend from high school, don't say anything, it's just a hug.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It was late that day, I was still working overtime to make a report, and suddenly there was a dinging sound in the WeChat group, and then after I opened it, there was a note adding me, and the WeChat remarked: Old classmate, I am Xiaoke, your good friend, add it.

    Suddenly, my mind went back to the time when I was in high school, and the Xiao Ke who used to laugh with me was as pure and lovely as her. So I clicked OK, I haven't seen each other for many years, since the end of the college entrance examination, I filled in the financial management of colleges and universities in northern cities when filling in the volunteers, and she chose the teaching major in the south, she likes children, and often keeps in touch when she is in college, but after graduation, everyone is busy with their careers, and after the mobile phone is changed, it is even more difficult to find anyone. Later it was not clear.

    As soon as the information passed, we began to greet each other, asking everyone what kind of situation they are like, which city are they in now, and the good friends who played together in college are now all in **, are you married and have children? chatted a lot, and finally kept each other's **, guaranteeing that the next time they went to each other's cities to meet and catch up, it seemed that that day would really come soon.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I remember graduating from high school in 2009, when after the college entrance examination, every student's face was filled with excited smiles, because for them, they could finally relax. When I was about to leave school, I also gave gifts to one or two of my high school classmates, including souvenir books and handwritten letters. Because throughout the high school study stage, everyone's communication is very simple, and a few of the best classmates also gave themselves a lot of help, because of the like-minded people that brought us together.

    After graduating from college, several people can be together again, and even share a house together, and for ten years, these high school classmates have not forgotten themselves. So now the best relationship is also these high school classmates.

    From a student to a confidant, it took ten years to prove that there is a precious friendship between us, no matter when and where, no matter who is in trouble, everyone will help each other, and still be able to talk about everything as before, this feeling is precious.

    In my heart, high school classmates are more important than college classmates, because in high school, everyone communicated very honestly, and although there were many good memories in college, I didn't find many confidants.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Still in touch because I feel very close and have had the best times and happiness together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Contact, but not particularly often. Because everyone has their own new life, new circle. He doesn't know your situation, and you don't know his situation.

    There are fewer topics, but the feelings have not faded. It's just a matter of words, as long as you say it, it will definitely help you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I must have been in touch all the time, because these people feel very good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'll tell you the truth, I had a group of good friends in high school who could go crazy together. At that time, it was particularly non-mainstream to form a family. I also gave everyone a very unique name, and I was promoted to the patriarch, and it was a funny thing to have a group of non-mainstream friends.

    When I was in high school, I had to go down every day to do exercises and runs, and we were all day together.

    Sometimes I wonder what makes us what we are now, not as intimate as before, I later understood that maybe time, space, and distance make us no longer confined to one place, some people need a bigger place to develop, some people just want to settle down and live a dull life, so in the end we may never contact or even forget each other in the rivers and lakes, but don't be sad at this time, some people want to leave and you can't stay, and some people will stay by your side forever.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    High school friends, now they are all different from each other, everyone applies for a different university, the distance is far away, and the relationship is gradually fading!

    I don't like to be too far away from home, so I chose a university close to home, and I have a friend who is also in the same city as me, although the two of us are very close, we rarely go out to play, if I don't ask her, she rarely looks for me, slowly, I don't bother to look for her. It's just that during the holidays, if the time is the same, we will make an appointment to take the car home together, and when we are in the car, we will talk about our worries at school, and the strange roommates in the dormitory. But the feeling is different, I don't have the same comfort as before, and I can't open my heart anymore.

    Moreover, they are far away, they all report to outside the province, and it is usually difficult to contact them once, they should be very busy, after all, they are all excellent. Only during the Spring Festival when everyone goes home will they make an appointment to get together once, and after eating, drinking and playing, they will go back to their respective homes to find their own mothers.

    Sometimes I also think about why our relationship has changed, it has not changed like before, and it has not changed as quickly as we used to be. I cherish friendship very much, so I treat my friends with sincerity, but I am also very sensitive, as long as I can feel the slightest change, and I don't know where to start. I feel that distance should not be the main reason, as long as that friendship is there, it will not change, even if I haven't seen each other for a year or two, I will still be that old friend and confidant when I meet after many years.

    I'd like to go over and maintain it, but it's a foregone conclusion, so it's better to go with the flow. have their own circle of friends, if others don't care about this friendship, there is no need to be persistent.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In high school, there are actually two stages that test feelings. At the beginning, the freshman classmates faced separation after only one year of getting along, after all, the arts and sciences class is also very important. At this time, if the friends are separated because of the class, the relationship will also be tested.

    Looking back, I seemed to have a lot of relationships with my classmates, who could be considered friends, and I haven't had much contact with them since then.

    Later, the second stage is the university entrance examination, and people in the same class will go their separate ways because of the college entrance examination. In fact, at this time, even since the sophomore year of high school, I have had a two-year relationship after all. But the cruelty of the college entrance examination is reflected in the fact that everyone's abilities are different, the universities they go to are different, and in these different places, everyone's social circles are different.

    The most embarrassing thing is that when you come to a party to talk and laugh, you will find that your friends who used to talk about everything may not be able to talk together, and you will lose the common topic.

    Now that I think about it, ordinary friends in high school really have very little contact now, but fortunately, I have a friend who has been in the same class for three years and is still in touch, and I can always come out to get together on holidays, chat about gossip, and spit out. This also proves that only more contact can maintain a good friendship, not that the role of friends is only reflected in the common words, but when you are happy and sad, there is such a person by your side to accompany you and enlighten you. It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, and I think compared to love, the maintenance of friendship is also very important.

    The feelings of high school are actually very pure, and college is a small society. If you have such a friend who has been in high school until now, you must learn to cherish it and don't give up your old friend because of a new circle.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is less contact, and there are also those who do not contact at all. It all started when I went to college!

    Good friends in high school, call her A! A was in the same dormitory as me in my freshman year of high school, in a different class. She and a few of my other roommates came from the same school, and it was strange that we got acquainted with each other, going to the classroom together every day, going out to buy groceries after school, and going home together on the weekends.

    The relationship between the two of us is still very good. The sophomore year of high school is in a class together, and it is the relationship between the lower bunk on the same table. If you want to say that there is little contact, it is because her family has moved to other places, and although I am in college, it is very troublesome to go to her house.

    Usually she goes to work, I go to class, and sometimes I can't talk a few words. Slowly, there will be less contact.

    And her, one of the few people in the third year of high school who can be considered good friends. I don't want to mention it in my senior year, I live in the next class and don't have much communication with the people in our class. She was a repeat student, because when I first went to school, I sat at the front and back desks, and the relationships in the class were basically incompatible, which had a lot to do with my personality.

    Then the two of us came together. Unlike the other repeaters in our class, they look like they're on top. She takes care of my little sister like a big sister, and she looks for her if she doesn't understand something.

    But we belong to the category and have nothing to say except studying. Usually, I usually go to school and eat alone, except for going back to the dormitory at night. Later, after the college entrance examination, she went to Zhuhai, and we rarely chatted with each other.

    Actually, I think I have my own problems. I'm the kind of person who only speaks when people come to me. But in the face of junior high school classmates, they will not, after all, they are too close to each other.

    I think the estrangement from my high school friends is also due to different interests. And I don't have any feelings for high school, it has to do with the fact that I changed two schools.

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