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I feel like he's at a low point right now, and everything he looks at is gloomy and negative. At this time, you should stop asking him to consider your feelings and let him make you happy, which will only worsen your relationship. Men also have fragile times, at this time you should be an intellectual woman, first of all you can change your space mood phrase or write a journal specifically for him, the main thing is to the effect that you will never abandon him, face all together and so on.
Let him feel that you are with him, and then guide him to express his dissatisfaction in life and work, you have to enlighten him and untie his knot. I don't know if your time allows, I think you should go to his place now, and don't tell him in advance, after you go, you must not be emotional, if he is really wrong something, you also have to remain intellectual, you can be like his boyfriend when he is strong, like he is unreasonable, but when he is at a low point, you have to play the role of his pillar, which is not only important when falling in love, but also in future marriages. Hope to hear good news from you.
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It's all about how you look at the relationship between you and him, if you think it's worth it for him like this, then go ahead, I know that you must be sincere to him, you must be paid for him, but you have to always care about his feelings, stand in his position to think, since he has no time to coax you now, then you can care about him, and when he recovers, let him cherish you more. Don't leave the internet too soon and move towards reality.
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If you still don't understand him so much, even if the two of you reconcile this time, you will break up in the future.
It's a long-distance relationship, you still don't trust him, and you always mention your ex-girlfriend, don't you just don't want good benefits.
Besides, he's worried about his work now, what are you doing, what are you doing to block him?
If you don't change your own problem, I advise you to divide it.
It's good for everyone. You're suspicious here every day, and you're not in a good mood.
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The two of you can find a chance to talk, anything can be solved, or you can think about it for the time being, if he really loves you!
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Long-distance relationship, something went wrong, and the relationship is not so good.
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Why are you looking for him? Ignore him for now and let him think for himself.
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Give me some time, everyone, if everyone is still like this... fen
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Summary. What do men mean when they say we are not suitable? What a man means when he says we are not suitable:
I don't love you anymore, don't pester me, let's break up. Emotionally, men will be subtraction, and catching up with you is the most emotional time. In terms of feelings, women are additional, from no good impression to slowly deepening good impression.
What does my boyfriend mean when he says we're not suitable.
What do men mean when they say we are not suitable? When a man says we're inappropriate, it means: I don't love you anymore, don't pester me, let's break up.
Emotionally, men will be subtraction, and catching up with you is the most emotional time. In terms of feelings, women are additional, from no good impression to slowly deepening good impression.
First: I don't love you anymore. When he loves you, all your flaws are strengths, your willfulness is lovable, and your carelessness is an asset.
No matter how many times you tell him that we are not suitable, he will smile and tell you that we are a good fit. But, ironically. At first it was he who said it was suitable, but now he says we are not suitable.
In fact, the reason is very simple, I just don't love it. He didn't want to tell you so directly, so he told you that we weren't suitable. You are perfect in front of those who love you.
When he doesn't love you, the little shortcomings he can't stand.
Second: Don't pester me. When you're in love, I don't want to be separated from you for a minute.
Now that I don't love it, I tell you that we are not suitable. The implication is, don't bother me. You are right when He loves you.
When he doesn't love you, you're wrong. His heart is no longer in you, it is useless for you to do more, the only thing you can do is let go of him and let go of yourself. Although it will be difficult for you to leave him, those painful moments will pass one day.
Third: Let's break up. Emotionally, many men are reluctant to propose a breakup.
They'd rather waste time emotionally than let you go. At this time, if you have a little bit of retention and are unwilling to let go, then it will be yourself who will be hurt. Men will use cold violence and will do cruel things to you, or say some ruthless words.
For example, we are not suitable. You should understand that he wants to break up, but wants you to take the initiative. At this point, the more affectionate you are, the more disgusted he will be.
On the contrary, if you let go, it will undoubtedly give him a fatal blow. All giving, we must meet the right person, and all love must be given to the deserving person. For the rest of your life, don't keep the wrong people with tears.
For the rest of your life, don't go after the wrong people with your actions. Feelings need to be paid and reciprocated.
I thought about it for a long time, and we really don't fit. I decided not to try anymore and my problem was not solved. I don't have to say anything, I don't want to hear anything right now. You're good, it's not your problem. That's how he sent it.
Yes. He probably wanted to separate.
In fact, the sand that can't be kept might as well raise him.
There is no need to force those who can't be retained.
It's better to bless each other.
The phenomenon of letting go of this relationship and keeping it in his heart. Image.
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Some people will understand "inappropriate" as the other half is disgusting and belittling themselves, thinking that he looks down on himself and wants to abandon himself and find another branch, so he found such an unconvincing reason;
Some people will think that the other half has changed his mind and feels that they are "inappropriate" with each other because they don't like themselves, and they think that he likes someone else, so they use the excuse of "inappropriate";
There are also people who will agree with the saying "inappropriate", two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and also avoid being with someone who doesn't like us. Maybe you don't know if he's your Prince Charming, maybe you don't know if he'll treat you the same in the future.
In a long life, there will always be a few unsuitable people passing through our emotional world.
So, how can we be sure that he is the right person to be gentle and considerate? How can you find your true love? It's just sweet talk, don't.
I believe that the method of coaxing is used by many girls.
When the girl said she was unhappy, he said: Kiss and hug your dear. When the girl said that she wanted to work hard, he said: Come on baby. When the girl stayed up late to watch the drama, he said: I will feel distressed in this way, don't stay up late next time.
However, he is only talking. He never urged you to study hard with you while you were in bed; I didn't turn off your phone when I stayed up late to let you go to bed early; It never takes you to vent your emotions when you are sad.
Actually, she liked you very much at first, but later, when she found out that you had no personality, she was a little forward-looking, thinking too much, the two of you don't have much time together, if you want to continue this relationship, you'd better get along with her a lot, travel together, two people, I don't say anything else, you also know what to do, remember to have a better temper. >>>More
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If you're sure that your relationship is developing normally, you won't ask questions about whether you're a good fit or not, but if you're just asking for fun or insecurity, then as your boyfriend, maybe he won't know if he hasn't thought it through for a while, after all, men don't care too much about this kind of problem. As a girl, it's better not to always be entangled in whether it's suitable or not, whether he likes me or not. If you really want to enter the marriage hall, you have to consider more, but more are some practical issues, such as family concepts, conditions and so on. >>>More
It's better to give up, I have the same experience as you, and I also have a temper, and he also said that he had something to tell me, but he didn't say it, so I forced him to say that he would break up. >>>More
We can have no contact, we can contact occasionally, or we can keep in touch for a long time, but no matter what, the feelings between us are constant, the friendship is eternal, and our hearts are always together.