Is it possible that you will never be friends again after breaking up???

Updated on society 2024-05-03
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some people can be friends, I have a classmate who broke up with her boyfriend, and I still be friends with him. But some people can't, since they broke up, don't be friends again, because that will be very embarrassing, because this will always remind people that you were in love, but you couldn't be together again, it will be very sad to think about it, it's not good to be friends naturally, he also wants you to break up with you like that, don't think about the past anymore, if you are friends, it will inevitably be unpleasant, not to mention that if you fall in love again in the future, it will make each other even more sad!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After a breakup, you can be friends because you don't love each other anymore!

    After a breakup, what you can't be friends with is still in love with each other!

    If your lover breaks up with you and can't be friends with you, please forgive him, because he still loves you deeply, and because he loves you deeply, he can't be friends!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Vary. Some people think goodbye is also a friend.

    Some people think goodbye is no longer a friend.

    Maybe. Now he is saying such things, but he is just arrogant.

    As long as he has loved you and cares about you.

    There's no way he'll forget you.

    You exist in his heart, whether it is only in memory.

    Or never mention it again.

    But. He'll still be your friend, too.

    But. Now that we've broken up.

    Just don't ask to be friends anymore.

    Go with the flow. What can meet again is fate, which proves that your fate is not over.

    If you can't see each other again, then bless him.

    Isn't his happiness also your happiness?

    After all, once loved.

    Broke up. Be a stranger.

    Maybe it's also a blessing to each other, a kind of tolerance.

    Bless you all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I can't let go, I choose to be a stranger. Many times it is not because of emotional problems that break up, but because reality forces them. Whether you're doing well or not, he's not going to be happy.

    Because your laughter is no longer because of him, and seeing you sad, he will also be sad, and he will not feel good in his heart no matter what—it is better to stay away and not know anything.

    Maybe one day, when each of them has a significant other by their side, they can smile at each other when they meet again

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on the reason for the breakup

    If you have a grudge, you will definitely not be able to be friends, such as who is sorry for whom.

    If it's nothing, it's just that you can be friends with an ordinary breakup.

    And I think it's better than being a lover!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you apologize sincerely, I think you can still be boyfriend and girlfriend.

    If you really don't plan to continue to be boyfriend and girlfriend with him, but ordinary friends, then I can tell you responsibly: that can't be!!

    But I'm sure he still loves you.

    I found out that I knew such a thing, and from now on, I began to impact the love experts! )

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After a breakup, you can be friends

    After a breakup, you can't be friends because you still love each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, they can be friends, but why torture each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a breakup, it is impossible to be friends because they have hurt each other.

    It is impossible to be enemies, because they have loved one another.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not really. You can also be friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In many cases like this, it will be awkward to meet again.

    So as soon as I broke up, I deleted the other party's **, and QQ was blacklisted.

    Become a stranger who never touches.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because your boyfriend can't let go of you, he still ...... you in his heart

    It's just that one of your breakups annoyed him

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're going through the same thing as I'm now, and you've thought the same thing, except I'm a man...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can't continue to be friends after a breakup, because no matter whether the other party is happy or sad, you can't treat it with a normal heart.

    Anyone who wants to be friends after a breakup still has illusions about this relationship, hoping that the old feelings will be rekindled in the future.

    But breaking up is not a person's thing, and wanting to be together again is not a person's thing。Wanting to be friends after a breakup was a wrong idea from the beginning.

    The two of you have loved each otherYou used to be coquettish in his arms, and you used to walk hand in hand with him. If you are still friends after breaking up, can you just watch him walk hand in hand with others, and others coquettish in his arms?

    If you can do that, then I can only say admiration. In your world, there may not be the word embarrassment at all, and you may not have loved him at all.

    And if you can't, what's the point of having such a friend? Do you just want to quietly watch him be happy? Or be a pair of friends who never contact each other and lie quietly in the address book?

    The two of you have hurt each other, you made a hole in his heart. You're not here when the blood keeps flowing, what are you doing as friends? Are you trying to rub salt in his wounds?

    Every time I see you, both of them will have bad memories. Did you become friends just to continue to hurt each other and tear open your scars again and again?

    Maybe you want to say that being an ordinary friend is nothing special, but if you haven't loved each other and never hurt each other, why should others agree if you want to be friends?

    Since they have already thought about breaking up, and the relationship can no longer be maintained, then it should be broken. The more the relationship drags on, the more it is cut and unorganized.

    Don't be friends after a breakup, I can allow you to walk in and out of my heart, but please don't go back and forth. This is the least respect for the relationship, and it is also the last protection for the person you once loved.

    If you break up, you will be neat, and if you still love, you will find a way to redeem it. Don't make life so complicated, just keep it simple.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many people ask after a breakup: Can we still be friends in the future? I don't think so, because I used to love, so I can't continue to stay with him as a friend, I can't see him loving others, it will hurt and be sad.

    A netizen asked me, "Am I being too careful?" I obviously said that I wanted to be friends, but when I saw him hanging out with other women, I was very angry, I couldn't be calm at all, he didn't belong to me for a long time, and I was not qualified to question him!

    Probably many people have had a similar experience, after the breakup, stay by his side in a different identity and watch his life, so that although they are not together, they will not be completely disconnected, and they don't want to communicate with each other, but when they really face him as a friend, even if they know it clearly, they are not qualified to participate, only to find that this is a torment.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is no fixed answer to the question of whether two people can be ordinary friends after breaking up. Because every person and every situation is different. Some people can do it, some people can't.

    First of all, it depends on what the reason for the breakup is. If it is because of some small things that cause a quarrel, then there is a good chance that two people will become good friends again after a period of calm thinking. After all, these little things don't affect each other's feelings and friendships.

    But if the breakup is caused by serious betrayal, cheating, etc., then the trust between the two people has been destroyed, and it is difficult to return to the original state. Even if they were able to continue their joint hail bondage, it would be difficult for them to be as close as they used to be.

    Secondly, the loser depends on the personality and emotional state of the two people. Some people are naturally more cheerful and open-minded people, and even if they break up, they will not have too many emotional entanglements with each other. Others, on the other hand, are more sensitive and emotional, and need a certain amount of time to adjust their emotional state after a breakup.

    If both people are able to accept each other's personality and emotional state, then it is still possible for them to become ordinary friends.

    Finally, it depends on the relationship between two people and the frequency of interactions. If two people are already good friends during their relationship, it is easy to maintain the relationship even after a breakup. But if two people don't have a deep foundation of friendship during their relationship, it will be difficult to become ordinary friends again after a breakup.

    In addition, if two people interact with each other very infrequently, such as only occasionally saying hello or texting, then it is difficult for them to become good friends.

    In short, whether two people can become ordinary friends after breaking up depends on many factors. But in any case, we should respect each other's decisions and feelings, and not force each other to do things that we don't want to do. If two people really have fate to become good friends, then Chashu time and fate will bring them together again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you break up, you can't be friends again, otherwise it will only hurt the two people more.

    When two people go from knowing each other and falling in love to breaking up, the relationship between two people is no longer lovers, and it is no longer possible to become friends. You can no longer face each other with a peaceful mind, a person who has loved and hurt you deeply, can only become a passerby in your life.

    Friends need time to get along with each other, but lovers after a breakup should no longer intersect in life. I have some very good friends in my life, and we see each other every once in a while, and we occasionally have dinner together. But my former exes have long since disappeared from my life, whether it is the heartbreaking first love that I once cried about, or the breakup lover who later said that we could become friends, we never crossed paths again.

    I think this is the norm after lovers break up, if two people can become friends with a smile after breaking up, then it is doubtful how much sincerity this relationship gives.

    You can't be friends after a breakup, and you can't face each other with a peaceful attitude if you love and hurt each other. After I broke up with my lover before, it took me a long time to come out of the shadow of broken love, and I don't know what I would do if I met him during this time.

    I think I won't be able to control my emotions, and I think I'll have some conflicts with each other, which should be what happens normally after a breakup between couples who have been in love.

    The person you loved so much is standing in front of you, and I don't believe you can have a heart like water; The person who hurt you is standing next to you, and I don't believe you really have no waves in your heart.

    This is actually human nature, not that we can forget if we want to, nor can we let go if we want to. It takes time for people to forget, but the soil for two people to become friends has long since ceased to exist.

    Not bothering each other after a breakup is the last thing you do for each other after a breakup with your lover. Become a passer-by in each other's lives, leave a little memory in your heart and taste it alone, this may be your youth.

    Don't be friends after a breakup, a broken heart won't allow you to be friends with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After breaking up, it's best not to be friends, because after breaking up, you have to make a decision immediately, don't break the thread, there is no need to be friends again, it is enough to be a friend who meets and nods.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ask why.

    Don't block and delete me.

    Questioned, but I blocked him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's still separated, I have those friends around me who are in love, break up after many years, and usually have dinner together. But there shouldn't be a way to be very, very close kind of friends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, because it will be awkward to be friends again after a breakup, and when the relationship is close, there will be reverie, wondering if the other party is still in love with you, and you will feel lost when the relationship is far away.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, you can be friends after breaking up, and if you break up peacefully, then you can still be ordinary friends.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can also be friends after a breakup, as long as two people respect each other, the relationship is still relatively good.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't think we should keep in touch anymore since we're breaking up, because every meeting will be very awkward, it will remind us of the old days, and it will not be conducive to starting a new life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you break up, you will definitely not be able to be friends again, because two people have already broken up, and even if you are friends again, it will be particularly embarrassing, so it is best not to associate with each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not necessarily, it mainly depends on the attitude and open-mindedness of both parties, if you feel that there is nothing unpleasant, you can also be an ordinary friend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's hard to be friends again unless you haven't had true love; After many years of wanting to be friends, each other has their own new feelings, and they may slowly let go, no longer resentful and regretful, but it is difficult to really be friends again.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, they will still become friends, because they are the people you once loved, and even if you break up, you are reluctant to break off contact.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In my opinion, yes, we broke up, but the memories are there, and the things I have done are like fish bones, like a fish in my throat.

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