Should my boyfriend and I continue?Am I cheap?? 5

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Well, since you feel like you're very "cheap", then it's good to be cool this time, and break up when you break up. The person concerned is fascinated, you are just blinded by love.

    Give yourself some time to take a rational look at your feelings, is he really that good?What are his merits?What are his shortcomings?He's **attracted you?Then you'll find out that you don't have to be him.

    Sometimes it's better to give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not that you're cheap, such a person will kill him with one kick, and he's not worthy of the person you like.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You all said that you have been quarreling together for a year, and you have been divided and merged n times!Do you still think you two can have a good time together?

    In case you get better this time, why will it be the same as this time in the future, isn't it sad again!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Alas, don't try to reconcile with him, do you think there's any point in reconciling?Right?It's better to work hard, maybe you'll meet a boy who is better than him!Stop thinking about him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I advise you to let it go and stop thinking about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My advice: go out for a walk, find a big mountain or the sea, look at the mountains and water, and think it out for yourself. Originally, good things are grinding, and if you want to deal with it, just do it. Emotional matters are known only to oneself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Little sister, you are still too young, if the relationship is still at your stage, you need to calm down, no one in this world has to be anyone, as you said, the gap is very big, if your relationship is very sure that maybe it can continue after years of running-in, but now it is so cloudy and uncertain, it is not appropriate, quickly cut through the mess, hit ** ask him, if a man does not have this determination and courage, it is not worth you to do this for him.

    The key depends on this person's character, are you sure you feel safe with him?Again, ask yourself, is he the right person to live with you for the rest of your life?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hey!You're starting to wonder if you're cheap. It just means that you have developed a dislike for him. If you can't let go, you can't let go of it in your own heart, for fear that your family will say that you are not, or you are afraid that your friends may make fun of you in the future.

    And I'm afraid that I won't be able to find a better man in the future!Someone who is better than his first love!~

    I want you to respect yourself and not let yourself like him and feel self-contained.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How can you say that you are cheap, you are just a girl who pursues true love, very serious, very good!

    However, I want to remind you that first love often gives people an illusion. The object of first love, whether it is so good or not, will always be beautified by his subconscious and become the prince charming in his mind So, let me, an outsider, see that the reason why you love him so much is because of --- immature first love.

    Girls are going to hurt. If lovers can't give you sweet feelings, but instead hurt you, it means that you are not a suitable couple.

    Waiting for his **. See what he has to say!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's go out and take a look There are a lot of good men out there that you haven't noticed.

    It's really my own experience.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know why you want to be with him so much, if it's just the first love, then I don't think it's necessary, the key is to see the other party's heart in **, if the heart is really in you, then continue to dating, take the initiative to hit **, but if you can make up your mind the best, give him one last chance, just the last time! If her heart is not with you at all, then leave the ba.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There's no need to say that you are like this! In the field of love, there are no words such as cheap and shameful! Because you love him and care about him, you will try your best to save this relationship!

    You can see that you love him very much, and 30% of it is that he is your first love. 30% is that you love him. 40% is that you have been together for a long time, you have feelings for each other, you are used to each other, and you can't do without him!

    A woman who has just started a relationship is more bullish than a man because she is not emotionally invested! Men take the initiative more, but after a long time, once a woman falls in love with this man, she will find that she is the only one in the world, but the man will feel that he can only follow this one woman! By looking closely at your description, I personally think that his love for you has faded, and talking about personal family conditions is based on the person who loves each other!

    The conflict between the two of you now is that the relationship is unstable, and you yourself said that as long as he can be nice to you, right? So I said, give him up because he's changed now, and even a reluctant return of love is far-fetched! A man who relates in a little thing will make you very tired later.

    He's really not for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    (Because I went out to KTV with my friend to sing, he knew that he would not forgive, and no matter how much I apologized, it would be useless).

    Narrow-minded, based on this alone, you don't need to be with him, let alone the rest, addicted to online games all day long, and have no sense of responsibility, not worthy of being a man.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Although the first love is beautiful, it also depends on what kind of man. Don't put on a show like your boyfriend and wish you happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's hard to say that it depends on how you perform in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It seems that she treats you very badly and doesn't care much about your ......I hate people who don't cherish good girls.,So I think you should leave him.,But love is not clear.,Since you think he's bad.,You should try to leave him.,Time can say something.。

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    With a girl like you, maybe he is also under a lot of pressure! But what's the use of you saying this now, when you enter the society and have more contact, you may change your opinion of him, you may feel that he can't give you anything and is not self-motivated, it is estimated that he thinks so psychologically now! In fact, it will be happier to find one that suits you, and you should be happier if you are in love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Parted! ~!

    Such an irresponsible man is not worthy of love.

    A man's vocation is to love his wife, his family, and his parents. Instead of only caring about their own feelings, all people who indulge in online games are irresponsible.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Women, even look down on themselves, how can a man look down on you?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Just addicted to the Internet, do you still like him? Addicted to the Internet, how can there be any thoughts on you, you say? If it's divided, it's divided, find someone better than him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Landlord, your boyfriend is not self-motivated and addicted to games all day long. To be honest, he is not worthy of you, and he is still worthy of your love for him so much, maybe it is difficult to give up the first love as you said, but you have to understand that the mirror with a crack still can't set off the perfection of your love, after all, the melon is not sweet. Start over and find your true love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let's talk when we have time.

    I'm better than him. Hehe.

    It's a joke. Love is short-lived, and marriage is a lifelong thing. A matter of both sides.

    I kind of look down on people who are obsessed with games, and to put it mildly: hurting your lover's words: a social waste without responsibility.

    He doesn't care about you, why should you care about her?

    You're not cheap. It's silly, it's been"Love"Blindfolded.

    It's not that you can't live without him, it's that you haven't met a better, better, of course. Just play games against your boyfriend. He's not great!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why are you girls like this?

    Breaking up and breaking up is on the lips.

    Your boyfriend is probably dying because you have said that you broke up many times, I have experienced it, I think it is still forgotten, you don't love him, because you think you are better than him, if you really love, you will not have this kind of thought.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When two people are together, they don't even want to kiss.

    That's when you break up. Is it true that the 8th floor says this? I'm a man, I met with such a thing, she said it was the weather, looking at my unbelieving expression, very unhappy!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    He already felt that he was not worthy of you, and of course he was not happy that you were still like this.

    But for an unmotivated person like him, you have to think about it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He may simply think that he is not worthy of you, you are a different person from him, think that you are worldly, because he is afraid that you will leave him because of financial problems, so he gives up leaving you, you should clearly tell him that you love his person and will not leave him.

    Fight for your happiness.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Do you think it's interesting?

    You should know the answer in your heart.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Meeting someone you shouldn't love at the wrong time, and not someone who loves you in the end, it's just a joke from God. Think about it carefully, and after you leave, you may learn and understand what happiness is.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Maybe your friend is right, he doesn't seem to be worthy of you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is a rift.,Even if you reconcile, you can't reach the way it used to be.,Suggest the landlord end it.,It's hard to reunite after breaking the mirror.,You've been quarreling.,It's not suitable for you.,I have the same experience.,My girlfriend broke up very resolutely.。

    I think it's hard for you to break up if there is no third party, maybe he likes other girls in his heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If one of the two people proposes to break up, then at least one of the parties has lost hope in the relationship, since this is the case, why force it, I have also had an experience like yours but didn't leave in the end? Even if he is willing to be with you again, then there will be a time to break up in the future, isn't it more painful at that time? Rather than doing this, it is better to do it earlier, so as not to be more sad in the future.

    You tell me?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let's break up, it's really not interesting to be together like this! It won't last long, and the girl should plan for herself.

    Don't waste your youth and regret it!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you really love, don't hurt each other, breaking up is not child's play, and everyone doesn't care too many times.

    I'm upset, too.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Have you had enough of him? Then you don't have capital!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    LOVE is mutual trust ... His excuse for not believing you ... A man's self-esteem is very strong, he is not as good as you, and he feels that he is not worthy of you, and his suffering.

    You're good, really, but don't put pressure on him, make him feel like you're a guy to live with.

    Friends who can share the joys and sorrows ... If you don't want to be a lover, you can say to him, Wei Xiaobao said that a good friend is righteous, and there is no blessing to be your girlfriend, I am willing to be your good brother with joys and sorrows, and love cannot be forced, nor is it based on grievances.

    REDUCE THE DISTANCE BETWEEN YOU ... Remove the shadow from his heart ...

    Persistence is victory... For the sake of love, nothing is worth it or not worth it ...

    What is Cheap? LOVING HIM IS YOUR CHOICE ... Say what is someone else's choice ... You can't interfere with others ... is telling you that no one else wants to interfere with you ... I'm sticking with you...

    I hope God doesn't let down such a good girl...

    Send me a message if you have any questions, don't keep it in your mind.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Feelings that are too big a gap will not be happy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Love is love, nothing is cheap.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Are you reluctant The first love is reluctant, break up as soon as possible, you are used to him.

    Is there a problem with your boyfriend making friends like this?! Let's break up!! Since you don't even know what you love him, is it worth it to make yourself miserable like this?

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Oops, I used to be addicted to online games, why can't I see such a love that has lost itself Hey, my first love and early mother have a shadow, people will change after all, but her first love is still in my heart, although she is not as good-looking as before, she still makes me worship when I like her, I like smart people, first love is always first love!

    It only takes an hour to like someone, it only takes a day to fall in love with someone, and it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't believe in people's appearances, that will deceive them. Don't rely on wealth, that will disappear.

    Count on you to laugh. Because just that smile makes the dark sky seem bright. There will be moments like this in life.

    When you miss someone, you will talk about them in your dreams, hug them, dream what you want, go where you want to go, be who you want to be, because you only have one life and one chance to do what you want. May you have enough happiness to make you happy, enough grinding to make you strong, enough grief to keep you human. There is enough hope for you to rejoice.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You have to understand him, think from his point of view, and that's the best way to do it.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You're too headstrong, don't feel superior.

    You have to really love him, respect him and communicate with him more.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If you really think you can't give up, then try to do it, but I also want you to think about it yourself, if you really get together, will you have the confidence to stick with it until the end? Don't be afraid to hear him say no, if it's really irretrievable, letting go may be another good start.

    Anyway, I still hope you will be happy!!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Boys love face very much, remember to be more tolerant, very fragile, sometimes remember to give him courage

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Your choice is a lifetime. Don't care. Let's be casual.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    ...Sometimes letting go is also a form of love

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Oh There is no distinction between high and low in front of love, if you want to pursue this love, then don't think so much, do whatever you can, you are pursuing your own happiness, what does it matter to others.

    I think it's normal for him to worry about that, after all, your conditions are better than his, for a healthy man, there will be some pressure, especially from relatives and friends around him, tell him what you think, let him think about it, after all, love is a matter of two people.

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