What is it like to have an unreasonable mother?

It would be very helpless to have an unreasonable mother. First, no matter how unreasonable she is, she is also your mother, she raised you so much, taught you common sense, taught you the principles of life, provided you with education, etc., everything you have is given to you by her, so you can't lose your temper with your mother, you can't quarrel with her. The love of parents is the most selfless in the world, always dedicated to their children, cooking and washing for you, without complaints, enduring your willfulness, and silently giving.

Second, as a child, you should have filial piety. No matter what your parents do right or wrong, you must also be filial to them. If they do something wrong, you should communicate with them patiently, talk well, express your thoughts and opinions, instead of arguing with them directly.

If your mother is unreasonable, you can't persuade her, don't lose your temper with her because of this, don't affect your relationship with your mother. It's not easy for a mother, at least everything she does is for you, it will definitely not harm you, and you must have your own ideas when you do things, but there is an error in your thoughts for a while.

There is an unreasonable mother, sometimes she is really angry and annoyed, and there is nothing she can do. Sometimes it's obvious that she did something wrong, you tell her directly, she will say that you are still young, what do you know, children don't care about adults, in fact, we have grown up, the right and wrong of some things are still easy to see, you say that she is useless, it is useless to reason with him, it is useless, it is useless to tell her similar examples, scold, scold, beat, and even worse. I can't get out of my stomach with a lot of anger.

Sometimes it's really annoying, how can I have such a mother, I don't understand others at all, I care about her so much, she doesn't accept it, but in turn she talks about herself for a while.

But, no matter what, you shouldn't be angry with your mother because of this, you can only try your best to persuade her, and if you can't say it, think of some other way, see if you can help her, understand her more, I have a friend, he used to have a big conflict with her mother, because of some trivial things and hated her mother, didn't talk to her, just because her mother said something was wrong, but he firmly thought it was right, and the result was a cold war for a long time. As a result, she died of illness, and in the end, she did not resume relations with her.

Finally, when your parents are still alive, you should cherish it and don't regret it.

In my opinion, there is nothing unreasonable, it's just that Mom is caught up in her own mind, treats you in a way that she thinks is "good for you", and will force you to accept it. But a lot of times, even if her approach is right, you don't want this kind of low-hanging fruit, so there is "unreasonableness".

With such a mother, you will be more or less depressed. When you think that your mother is unreasonable, the relationship between the two people will inevitably not be so good that it will not be good. In this case, it can lead to tension in the family atmosphere.

When you see your friend's family happily playing and shopping together, you will envy them and feel sorry for your current situation. In fact, Mom and you will be very hurt, even if the relationship between the two people is not good, they will still think about each other.

For example, many times, I also feel that my mother is particularly incomprehensible to me. To give a recent example, when I am a sophomore, I can choose to minor in a major, and if my grades and conditions are met, I will not be able to pass my mother's level. I must say that there are other people who have learned, so I am allowed to follow along.

At that time, I felt that she didn't understand me very much, and even blocked what she wanted to do and liked to do. Therefore, the two of them hung up on their own hearts. For nearly a month, we didn't contact me.

It wasn't until finally that my dad called me and asked me if I was angry, that there was communication. On a subsequent **, she told me to ask some students in the neighborhood and none of them had minors. Although the two of them were angry, she didn't forget about me.

I thought about the bits and pieces of the past again.

To be honest, it is quite painful to have such an "unreasonable" mother, and sometimes it is so painful that she consumes the little family affection that is left. However, "there are no parents in the world", and the understanding is mutual.

It is a great blessing to have a family that supports us in our ideas and work. Their support and understanding will make you more daring to try. But if your parents don't always understand what you're doing, their impact on you is definitely not as simple as two ordinary opponents.

I have been a girl who has a passion for art since I was a child, and at that time I was very eager to go to the county Galaxy Boy to learn painting, and even longed to be admitted to our county's art school in high school. Personally, these ideas and interests were enough to sustain me for a long time, but my mom was clearly against it, arguing that going to a major high school and going to university was the way to go. As a child, I didn't have any capital to resist, and as a result, I went to high school, and my grades were like that.

When I applied for college, I had a huge disagreement with my parents. My mother thinks that it is good to study medicine, and there are good job prospects after graduation, and the job income is relatively objective, and the social status is also good. And I don't like it, just because such a future is very much out of my character.

I had a big fight with my mom over this issue, and I still can't understand why my mom always doesn't like to think about my feelings.

During college, my friends around me fell in love one after another, but I was still alone. I secretly tested my mother's meaning, and my mother's attitude was very clear, college is an important stage of studying and taking graduate school entrance examinations, and it is impossible to get married after falling in love, and it is useless. My mom couldn't understand how lonely I was in college.

I'm also used to her being strong.

After graduating from college, I watched that the group of students who studied art either became ordinary teachers in a high school or went to open their own classes to earn some income. The classmates who used to fall in love in college broke up one after another, and most of the classmates who used to study medicine are now really good, and I began to understand my mother's hard work.

Mother's arbitrariness and unreasonableness will cause us a lot of trouble, but if your mother really has her own vision, her unreasonableness may be a beacon that forces you to walk on the journey, so that you always remember what kind of person you are.

Uncle Xiao found a good job after graduation, at this time many people came to introduce the object to Uncle Xiao, but Uncle Xiao already had a heart, but his girlfriend was studying abroad, and Uncle Xiao planned to wait for his girlfriend in China for five years, but at this time Uncle Xiao was no longer young, veryMany relatives began to persuade the little uncle again, or break up with his girlfriend abroad, and quickly start a family, still the mother of the little uncle, standing on the side of the son, she said that as long as the son likes it, what is it to wait, With the support of his mother, the little uncle waited for his girlfriend for five years, and the two of them achieved positive results.

I have ever met the most reasonable mothers, who respect their children's opinions, discuss with their children when they encounter problems, and do not make their own decisions.

They are more receptive and supportive of their children's approaches, and even if they have different views, they will discuss with them tentatively.

My mother was like that, even if she knew that I was in early love, she didn't stop it, she just told me to pay attention to safety measures.

My friend told his mother that he was in love with a divorced woman and that she would not marry her, and his mother agreed.

My friend's mother is very rich and never interferes with her son's love life, and she cares about her son's object and doesn't care about her family background.

The most reasonable mother I have ever met is one who respects her child's wishes and supports her child in whatever decision she makes.

When two children fight, and their own children suffer, they will still visit the other child first.

The most reasonable mothers I have ever met, they are very understanding of their children and are considerate of them.

My mother comforted me all the time after I fell out of love, and she didn't say much after I fell in love with a divorced woman.

Because people are also afraid that their daughter will not be able to eat and dress warmly, and they are also afraid that they will not be happy because of the trivial things of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, the second aunt later worked hard all day because the family burden was too heavy, resulting in high blood pressure, and she fainted after a little exertion.

When the grandfather saw this situation, he was also very uncomfortable, his children were not happy or happy, how could the parents feel at ease? Sometimes when I think of my son, my grandfather secretly wipes his tears.

Mom said Dad, don't worry, we will help my second brother, Mom gave the 20,000 yuan that the family had saved hard to the second uncle, and asked him to solve the marriage for the eldest son first, and then plan the marriage of the second son, and slowly everything will be solved, as long as there is hope, don't be discouraged, nothing can not be solved.

This is my good mother, a reasonable, kind and considerate, gentle and virtuous mother, and this feeling is really great.

Speaking of reasonableness, I have to praise my dear mother, how to say my relationship with my mother, my mother is not only an elder that I respect, but also a special bosom friend of mine, I remember when I went to college, because I just went to a new environment, my mother was afraid that I would not adapt, so I "made ** porridge" with me every day, our mother and I chatted every time it was in full swing, so we are more like good friends at the same time, this habit of "making ** porridge" until I work, married, The birth of the baby has continued to this day, and I think the most reasonable behavior of my mother is that she knows how to respect the decisions I make, and I have to mention my dear father, I am glad that I was born into such a family, and my parents respect my personal opinions in my work and marriage.

Speaking of work, in fact, I have always had a heart of progress, just graduated at the time, always with a pioneering mentality, do not want to rely on the family, just want to make some achievements on their own, my mother also respected my opinion, even now I choose to marry far away, my mother even if reluctant to respect my opinion, now think about it, although my mother is very temperamental, but has an empathetic heart, my mother is a typical "knife mouth tofu heart", although sometimes, to you want to cry, But in the end, she does things that make you laugh, I think mothers are like that, or how to say that mother's love is great?

Okay, let's talk about myself, because I'm also a doll mother now, I feel like a mother feels really good, especially when my girl is tired of being crooked, my heart is warm, and my personality is a slow type, completely different from my mother, but my girl's personality is a little similar to her grandmother, and a little grumpy, I'll guess my girl's opinion of my mother, although she is still young, but I feel that she will also feel that I am also a reasonable and good mother when she grows up. Sometimes when I hear my girl say, "Mother, you are the best, and make me a good meal, and tell me stories, and so on, and so on, and my heart is sweet, and my girl's mouth is not ordinary sweet."

People often say that "if you don't raise children, you don't know your parents' kindness", in fact, yes, even if you are already a mother, you always feel like a child who doesn't grow up in front of your parents, because we only have the right to be willful around our parents, and your parents will always look at your willfulness with a pampered eye. Finally, I want to say that it is good to have a reasonable mother, and I also hope that when my girl grows up, she will write an essay praising me, entitled "I have a reasonable mother, I love you, mother".

It's a refreshing experience to have a reasonable mom.

Many of my friends' mothers are very reasonable, friends tell me.

He usually encounters something unhappy in his life. I always tell my mother, and my mother often enlightens him, and his adolescence is spent in the company of his mother, of course, this is a bit dependent on parents, but a child's adolescence is accompanied by parents, isn't it better?

How many teenagers do the wrong thing psychologically during adolescence.

When you have a reasonable mother, she will always enlighten you when you are unhappy, talk to you, enlighten you, and share her sorrows with you.

A reasonable mother, the family will be very harmonious, because she will not quarrel with your father, nor will she quarrel with the older generation, make conflicts, even if there are conflicts, she will be very considerate to solve them, instead of arguing like some arrogant mothers.

She will contribute a lot to this family and contribute a lot to this family.

In life, she is very good at handling family affairs, and she is also very considerate of her husband and cares about her children.

Having such a mother is the happiest thing for all children.