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I suggest you don't continue this relationship, it can be seen from this incident that he doesn't care about you that much, and he doesn't love you that much. How can a person who doesn't even care about your safety give you happiness.
It's normal for couples to have a little fights with each other, and it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts after staying together for a long time. But quarrels are quarrels, and it's not good to hurt feelings. As a boy, you should be gentlemanly and generous.
Boys are usually very friendly and polite to strange girls, so why can't they be tolerant and patient with their girlfriends? It is said that if you love her, you will love everything about her, although it sounds naïve, but how can someone who really loves you be willing to make you unhappy. The person who loves you, even if he quarrels with you, will care about everything about you, even if he insists that he doesn't want to care about you.
After arguing with you, let yourself stay outside for a night, not worrying about whether you are safe or not, not caring about what you are doing outside, such a boy cannot guarantee your safety, nor can he give you a sense of security, and has no sense of responsibility at all, how dare you expect him to be good to you in the future.
My boyfriend and I rarely quarrel, and even if we do, we won't ignore each other, and we can't get entangled in any conflicts overnight. I'm not a hypocritical girl, and if I was wrong, I would definitely admit it. Because I know that many times the end of a relationship is often when there is a person who keeps dying.
I always insist that people's hearts return people's hearts. I feel your love, I don't care about face, and I don't feel good when I quarrel. If your boyfriend doesn't want to care about you because he loves face, it's better to just end the relationship.
Does face matter to you?
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There's no need for that. This has proved that your status in his mind is not so important, after you quarrel, he can abandon you when he is angry, as a man, he does not consider you from the perspective of his girlfriend, he is really not a mature man, although one day he will mature, but in your situation, you can't wait for the day when it matures, you can only say that you are the girl who helped him on the way to growth, and you are the only one who suffers, so it's better to break up as soon as possible, don't be soft-hearted, Don't torture yourself anymore.
Once I had a quarrel with my ex-boyfriend, it was at school oh, after school, we walked out together, and then we had a quarrel because of a trivial matter, I forgot what was going on, and we quarreled, our faces were red, and we still couldn't make a noise, and after that, we walked together quietly, and when I passed a corner, I turned around and saw that he had gone in another direction, and did not come with me, at that time my heart was desperate, not to say anything, Be generous when you quarrel with your girlfriend as a boy, what's wrong, why are you so childish, and you're still angry with your girlfriend! Later, when he came home, he didn't apologize to me, I asked him why, and he said what you want to do like that! After that, I didn't pursue this matter so much, and it passed.
In the process of getting along later, this phenomenon has also appeared many times, so I have slowly understood that the boy who doesn't know how to be tolerant when you quarrel is actually not as much as you think, not so loving, so he can't be so tolerant. So for a person who doesn't have you in his heart, why do you still hold on?
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When two people are together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be a little contradiction, but they must also learn to grasp the proportion. Especially boys, be more generous and don't worry about girls. To be honest, your boyfriend's behavior is a bit excessive, and he has a little sense of responsibility.
No, two people quarreled, they only took care of their own feelings, never took into account your thoughts, and left a girl to spend the night alone, such a boy You don't need to continue to fall in love with him at all.
Your boyfriend is a sign of irresponsibility, it is a normal thing to quarrel between two people, as the so-called "bedside quarrel, bedside and", after the quarrel, then this matter will pass, he should also take the initiative to apologize to you, this is the behavior that a responsible boy should have. He left you out for the night alone, completely out of consideration for your safety. Such a boy is too machismo.
He is also bent on getting you to apologize and take the initiative to admit his mistakes. If you live with such a boy, you will definitely not be happy, you will live a very tired life.
I believe that he doesn't take very good care of you in his daily life, and every time he quarrels, he will make a big fuss, and he won't take your feelings into account at all. Boys must be responsible and responsible, so as to give girls a sense of security.
Even if you forgive him now, he will make the same mistake in the future, such a boy is not worthy of your love at all.
I used to quarrel with my girlfriend, and even if I was angry, I wouldn't leave her alone, which is a basic quality of a man. If I threw her away, I would be a beast.
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Such a boyfriend really has to be considered. Didn't he think of the danger you would be in for a night outside? So what if? Seeing your situation, it should be cohabitation, in fact, people now start to live together together, and I don't encourage this.
Living together, most girls live by looking at the boys' faces. He left you alone all night, but he fell asleep in the house, if you said that you went out to cool down for a few hours after a quarrel, it was acceptable, but now that you are being kicked out, do you think you still need to continue?
Women are also dignified, not to mention that there will be a second time if there is a first time, since he is so not thinking about your safety, you also have a bottom in your heart, and it is a good choice for you to leave. I often say that a man who beats a woman and leaves a woman ** out is not a good man.
Women must be rational, not emotional, and not compromised. In this way, if you get married in the future, you will not be very happy. If you get married in the future, do you want to spend the night outside like this after you quarrel? How much your parents will feel sorry for their daughter.
A good man, if he loves his woman enough, will not do this. I once watched a ** movie where a man and a woman quarreled, and the woman ran out crying and sat in the small park across the house while crying and getting drenched in the rain.
At this time, the man ran out with an umbrella, but he was soaking wet, but hurriedly ran to the woman's side to cover her with an umbrella, and with a sense of anger on his face after the quarrel, the woman smiled. Yes, if a man really loves you, he will definitely put you first, put you first in everything, even if he is still angry but still worried about you, this is love.
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Personally, I think that this should be said on a case-by-case basis, because feelings are a matter of two people, you can't just consider your own feelings, you always feel that it is your boyfriend's fault, after all, when facing feelings, everyone will make some mistakes, in this way, it may be your mistake at this time, or it may be your boyfriend's mistake, so that you will have such a thing, and there will be a lot of contradictions in your heart, feeling why you will be abandoned, you must reflect on this matter. <>
If you usually have a very good relationship, and he is also very good to you, then it means that you have made a mistake that makes him extremely sad, because a man will not leave a beloved outside, he must be forced to do something, you have done something that makes him very sad, he is uncomfortable in his heart, there is no way to believe you, there is no way to heal himself, so that he will make such a difficult but unhappy decision, let you be alone outside, which is very sad, Therefore, you should also reflect on whether it is your own mistake now, and don't make a decision blindly.
Then there is your boyfriend's mistake, if you are quarrelling, but both parties have mistakes, he should accompany you, before he will call you **, ask your safety and other issues, this is also an opportunity for him to admit his mistakes, if he didn't ask you, your relationship is estimated to be coming to an end, so that your relationship will not be able to maintain it well, after all, he has indulged you, so that he will not care too much about you in the future, and you will not experience the good feeling of being a girlfriend.
In any case, you think about it according to the situation, the matter of feelings is very serious, and you are making a decision after thinking clearly.
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I had a fight with my boyfriend, he threw me out the door, will he still look for me?
In this case, whether he will come to you depends on the specific situation. If he realizes his mistake and regrets it, he may apologize to you and seek reconciliation. However, if he continues to insist on his behavior and does nothing to resolve the dispute, then you may not be contacted either.
In any case, don't give up your claims because of his actions, remember to stick to your bottom line and the original rules to protect your dignity and interests.
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Summary. 3.If there is a contradiction, try not to quarrel in person, you can calm down first, or even have a cold war, don't blindly turn around and get angry and leave.
My boyfriend left after a fight with me and got angry, only to find out later that he was secretly following me near me.
It shows that your boyfriend still cares about you and cares about you.
Angry is angry, and I still have to care about you.
I guess I followed you secretly because I was afraid that you would be in danger.
Let me give you some advice.
1.Your only boyfriend must care about you, and it's more of a problem to see who you're arguing with. If it's a temper problem with the center, you have to change your temper, and if it's his problem, you have to communicate with him as much as possible.
2.In the future, you must be calm when you meet Changtan, especially if you quarrel and endure it, you must not drill the horns of the bull, and you must empathize more, after all, two people are new individuals together, and they must adapt to each other.
3.If there is a contradiction, try not to quarrel in person, you can calm down first, or even have a cold war, don't blindly turn around and get angry and leave.
4.If you can't understand him, you can communicate with him more often, and when the two of them are calm, think more about the reason for the quarrel, and talk about it with an open heart, and don't be silent Sun Qing.
He is married, if he keeps you then he is asking for trouble, it will be painful for you to break up, but for him, the pain is only short-lived, he is probably afraid of the trouble after the East Window incident, and he will not keep it, so ending it is a relief for him!
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