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The person who decides your life is yourself, and the only person who loves you is with you, and your parents cannot accompany you all your life, your parents will slowly grow old, until the real world is separated, and he is your life's dependence, he can give you a lifetime of happiness, so we still insist on our love! Oh.
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Of course, it is to stick to the people you love. It's easy to break up and it's hard to meet a true love again. After all, parents will still ask for your opinion. Don't forget that it's you together, not your parents. But it's better not to argue.
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You can't say that it's completely right, you can only say that your parents want you to live a good life, which is a matter of course. If you were to put yourself in your parents' shoes, you would look at your children's marriages in the same way. It can only be said that you should communicate and coordinate more with your parents to make them feel at ease.
That way they won't be too opposed. After all, parents want their children to be truly happy. If your significant other can be really kind to you, then I don't think your parents will have much reason to object.
Go for it!
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It's rare to meet true love once in life, it's not good enough now, what about the future? There is a reason for his parents' opposition, so let him improve, and there will always be a day when the ice and snow melt. Don't be discouraged, persevere, don't get to the end, give up one day will regret it, love will not regret it.
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As long as you feel good, you should stick to it. But in the future, if you have a situation, your parents will talk about it. The choice is yours.
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I don't think so, since it's the person I love, what about my parents anyway, although what my parents said may be reasonable, but he wants to live with you for the rest of his life, if he only listens to his parents, then wouldn't he not take the initiative to persuade him? Happiness is one's own, and you have to fight for it yourself.
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It depends on whether that boy is worth your insistence, and my parents don't agree with me and my friend, hehe, let's sympathize with each other.
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There is always nothing wrong with the words of your parents, how many years will you live, and how far you can go!
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If you can find better people on your terms, I support your parents' views. An unblessed marriage will not be happy even if it is barely completed! I'm in a similar situation when talking about friends, I choose to listen to my family.
It turned out to be really happy now! Now that I think about it, if I insisted on going my own way, I wouldn't have a place to cry now! Parents are the most considerate of themselves, trust their vision!
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This is a very personal and complex issue that you need to weigh and decide on your own. Marriage is an important life decision that involves your personal happiness and future. Here are a few things you can consider before making a decision:
1.Understand why your parents are objecting: Understand why your parents are opposed to the marriage.
Are their concerns justified? Is the podge based on concern for you and concerns about the possible impact of the marriage? Try to communicate openly with them and share your thoughts and feelings.
2.Self-assessment and introspection: Reflect on your relationship with your partner and the viability of the marriage. Consider whether your values, goals, and lifestyles are aligned. Make sure you've thought through all aspects of your marriage and take responsibility for your decisions.
3.Consider the consequences and risks: Marriage is a long-term commitment that can affect your personal and family life. Consider the consequences of your parents' objections and possible risks, and whether you are willing to take those risks.
4.Ask for advice from others: If there are other close friends or family members who can give you objective advice and support, their advice may be helpful in your decision-making.
The final decision is left to you. Whether you choose to stick with it or compromise, it's important to make sure you can take responsibility for your decisions and understand the consequences and responsibilities of those decisions. Marriage is a big choice that needs to be carefully considered and made with your partner.
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Marriage is a personal freedom that no one can interfere with. However, many people who meet the one they like may want to get married early and enter the next stage. But your own vision is always different from your parents, and due to the difference in life experience, the partner who shines in your eyes is nothing in the eyes of your parents.
It is said that marriage is not something that can be achieved by two people who love each other, many things will be involved, so without the consent of their parents, the beginning of this marriage is not easy, and it is difficult to say whether it will go well in the future. This has also hindered many people's marriages and delayed their progress to the next stage of life. First, you need to understand your parents' worries and worries.
When your parents refuse your marriage request for the first time, don't get angry and angry with them. This will not only fail to resolve the contradictions between the two sides, but will also aggravate the seriousness of the problem.
Parents who have raised you for decades will inevitably want you to find the perfect other half, so their consideration and prudence as children will inevitably feel a little redundant. But these are their love for you, you must be understanding, communicate more, and solve it well. The second point is that parents' suggestions and arrangements should be considered.
Parents will always focus on their children, and they will definitely want you to be happier in your marriage.
And after decades of life and marriage, our parents' perspective on marriage and people is always different from us. Therefore, even if the parents say something unpleasant and completely refused, you might as well listen to the reasons for their rejection first, and then see if the problems they say really exist.
It also allows you to see the side that you can't see when you're deep in love, so you can't refuse the advice you should listen to. Third, many people will inevitably be impulsive for love, and they may be angry when they are chewed by their parents, and the best way to deal with it at this time is to give each other enough time and space to calm down. After all, marriage is an extremely serious matter, and if you end your relationship with your parents because of a marriage, there is no way to make up for the regret in the end.
And it was originally a good thing to scatter and fest, and there was no need to make everyone unhappy. Finally, be sure to keep your head level before entering into marriage. Think about whether you're really ready to spend your life with the other person, both mentally and physically.
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Marriage is a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, marriage is a big event, not a small matter, when two people get married, it must also be approved by the parents of both parties to achieve real marital happiness. If two people are in a relationship, and both parents do not agree, then it will be very difficult for both people in the whole relationship.
1. Marriage is a responsibility, so we must be cautious in the face of issues like marriageMarriage is a responsibility, so you must be cautious when facing issues like marriage. After all, for everyone, the quality of marriage determines what their quality of life will be in the future. Don't underestimate the importance of marriage, if your marriage is unhappy, then your life may be ruined in this marriage.
Second, feelings are a matter of two people, and it must be something that no one else can interfere withFeelings are a matter of two people, and it must be something that no one else can interfere with. But for issues like marriage, parents have the right to pay attention. After all, as the marriage of their own children, parents will definitely be very concerned about this matter.
Many times, as children, they will be very repulsive to their parents, so why interfere in marriage? After all, parents have a sense of responsibility for their children, so they will pay close attention to their children's marriages. <>
3. A marriage that is blessed by parents will be happyA marriage that is blessed by parents will be happy. If you don't get the blessing of your parents, then happiness is definitely half of happiness. After all, parents are also people who need to live with themselves for a lifetime, and they must care about the opinions of their parents, who are the closest people in the world.
The quality of life in marriage actually requires two people to maintain it together. But for a question like marriage, it must be about the opinions of the two families. After all, it is not easy to raise children, and if you don't respect your parents' opinions from the beginning, you will never be able to feel actual happiness in your marriage.
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Marriage is all about wanting to be blessed and supported by your parents. This kind of marriage is the happiest, if your marriage is not supported by the man's family, then you will feel sad and uncomfortable. After all, if you are not supported by the other party, even if you get married, you will have a pimple in your heart.
There are many reasons why parents oppose their children's marriage, but generally speaking, there are such as whether they are the right person, whether they dislike the poor and love the rich, whether there is a problem with the other party's conduct, the problem of age disparity, the problem of work, the problem of separation between the two places, etc.
No matter what the reason for the parents' objections, children should calm down and consider their parents' opinions, after all, their parents' life experience, understanding and wisdom are much more practical than any love theory in books.
Secondly, don't be in a hurry to blame your parents, as your blood relatives, no matter what they decide, they are good for you, so don't blame them for not understanding at this time, but reflect on whether there is really a problem in your relationship. Your parents' opposition to marriage may be due to the fact that they do not know each other well enough and judge you as unsuitable, so they will prevent your marriage. At this time, children should create more opportunities for each other to understand each other, so that parents can believe that your love can last.
Another reason for the opposition of parents may be because of a misunderstanding of something that happened in the process of getting along before, so it is necessary to re-sort out the ins and outs of that matter, and redeem the parents' prejudices in a salvable situation, and if it is irreversible, you can try to use another similar incident to make the parents change their views of each other again.
The opposition of parents is never unfounded, they all say that love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. When your parents disagree, you should seriously consider your previous relationship from all aspects, look at this phenomenon with a rational attitude, and deal with it in a rational way. This situation is a test for your relationship, but also a kind of growth.
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For marriages that are opposed by parents, refer to understand the reasons for parents' opposition, sort out your real needs, and then make a decision that is faithful to reality and wishes.
Parents' preferences cannot replace our preferences, and our parents' more experience and experience in seeing people are also worthy of our patient reference, and we can also distinguish that parents are parents and we are us, and we do not give up at will because we obey our parents, nor do we take responsibility for our own life, emotions, emotions and needs in order to oppose our parents, take responsibility for our own lives, emotions, emotions and needs, and make decisions that are loyal to our own wishes and choices.
The process of mental growth and emotional intelligence is that we can learn to think in a complex way, constantly be faithful to realistic assessments and re-evaluations, and make smart decisions.
Those who obey their parents are unwilling to take responsibility for their own lives, so leaving the choice to others is a sign of rejection and avoidance of mental growth, and it is difficult to be a mature lover and handle their own life.
Those who do whatever it takes to rebel against their parents, the knot of the original family has not been resolved in the process of growing up, and they will eventually have to pay a heavy price for it.
Please realize that our lives are only our decisions and responsibilities, and we do not live for others, so we do not need to be swayed by other people's opinions and opinions. As long as you are willing to take responsibility for your life and think soberly, every choice is an experience that is true to your will and has no regrets.
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They always want you to find the best and don't do it on purpose.
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Parents have a lot of experience and look at the problem comprehensively, all for your good.
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For the marriage that was opposed by their parents at the beginning, some will live very happily, and some will choose to divorce. Hongrang's parents are both from the past because of Bi Dong. So when it comes to marriage, they have experience.
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At that time, your parents didn't talk about how to persuade you to close up, and you were using life to prove it.
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If the parents object, I think this stove can be considered again and earlier.
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Influence from my father: forgiveness, forbearance, perseverance, from the beginning. Influences from my mother: meticulous, optimistic, straightforward, eclectic.