Why is there no one who can understand me?

To understand the cause of this situation and solve it, it is necessary to consider two aspects:

1. Self. 2. Others.

Say yourself first. First of all, you are a relatively autistic person who is not good at communicating, or you have not revealed your true heart to others at all. If you don't give your heart to others, how can others understand you?

So I guess you don't have many friends. If this is the case, you should communicate with others more, talk to your heart, talk to each other, and find someone who can really understand you.

The second is others.

In fact, these two points are similar, and only by integrating these two points with each other can the problem be solved.

On the other hand, all you have to do is find someone who understands you, and that's something you have to look for. So far, there are only two people who can really understand me. Therefore, this kind of person you have to wait slowly, don't rush, of course, in this process, you need to take the initiative and take the initiative in order to have a chance.

I don't know if this is the main reason why others don't know about you.

However, when it comes to this kind of thing, just keep one thing in mind:

Can you understand yourself? If you can, just wait in the initiative and you will definitely find your soulmate!

Note: I don't know if I can help you, because my language skills are really not very good. But that's it, in general. I hope the knot in your heart can be untied soon

It is estimated that your personality is not good for people to ponder, and you should try to understand others more, so that others will understand you.

Because you don't understand others either!

Because you think you know yourself.

1. No one understands themselves because they don't tell others their thoughts;

2. No one understands you because you subconsciously don't want others to understand you;

3. No one understands themselves because they may not understand their own thoughts, and even others have understood themselves, and even in some aspects they understand themselves more comprehensively and deeply than themselves, but they don't know it;

4. No one understands themselves because other people's opinions conflict with their own views, and they feel that others do not understand themselves;

5. No one understands themselves because they have strong self-esteem and are unwilling to express their needs positively.

1.Not expressing ourselves well: Sometimes, we don't express our thoughts and needs clearly, which leads to others not being able to understand our true intentions.

Therefore, to make others understand you, you need to express your thoughts and needs clearly and make sure that others can understand what you are saying.

If others don't understand you, it's likely because they lack the basic information to understand you or can't understand your emotions and thoughts from their own perspective.

3.Not getting attention and recognition: Sometimes we feel isolated and not understood, which may be because we don't get enough attention and recognition.

In order to let others understand you, it is recommended to communicate with others more and actively participate in social activities, so as to obtain more opportunities and resources, and improve your influence and recognition in the group.

4.Emotional problems: If you are in a state of low mood or depression, it is likely to affect your communication and communication with others.

At this time, it is recommended to pay more attention to your emotional condition and seek psychological help and support in time in order to better understand yourself and thus better communicate with others.

To sum up, sometimes we feel that no one understands us, which may be caused by a variety of factors such as unclear expression, different perspectives, lack of recognition, or emotional problems. Therefore, we need to learn to analyze our situation from multiple perspectives, find the reasons and take corresponding measures, actively seek help and improve the situation, and finally get better communication and understanding.