Why is it so difficult for others to understand me and understand me?

One, there may be a problem with the level of communication.

Two, you are not strong and tough enough.

And, there's a catch.

Why should you expect others to understand you and others to understand you?

No one else has the obligation to understand you, to think for you, to think about you from your point of view.

There is a saying that it is love to help you, and it is duty not to help.

God helps those who help themselves.

I don't know how old you are, but I don't think you're too old.

When others can't be trusted, you have to rely on yourself.

You have to be assertive and show a certain amount of aggressiveness, especially on the bottom line.

If you shouldn't back down, if you can't back down, then don't give in.

Being strong is not the same as losing your temper, but showing your attitude and position in a reasonable and measured manner.

In this way, even if others don't understand you, they will compromise and will not wronged yourself.

There is an insight that I think makes sense: someone you feel comfortable communicating with, her emotional intelligence is above you, and she wants to help you.

It is difficult for others to understand you and understand you may be your changeable personality.

Why is it so difficult for others to understand? Before I understood that I didn't answer the question again, I wanted to make a small suggestion, and it was deducted in eight or four days, so it was better to deduct a few dollars, why? Why was the money given?

If you don't give the account, isn't this a waste of people's feelings? It's not appropriate, it's too sad, it's a little bit emotional.

Because no one else can empathize with you.

Because he didn't learn to empathize,

First, I think it's very tiring for human beings. Second, I think that as long as a person has thoughts and feelings, there will be times when he is sad.

Third, I think that you live so the one hand, you think too much, and on the other hand, you don't work hard enough, and when everyone is in difficulty, the key depends on what method and mentality you use to deal with it.

Fourth, I think everyone wants someone who understands them. In fact, we think wrongly, others don't use the same brain with you, how can others fully understand you, not to mention that you are sometimes confused, you don't understand yourself, how can others understand you.

Finally, I think that if a person wants to live a comfortable life, he must first have a good attitude, if he wants to live a happy life, he must rely on his own efforts, do not rely on anyone, and do not expect others to understand you and understand you, you should learn to understand yourself.

Outsiders don't understand you because they don't understand you as a person, and your friends and relatives don't understand you, so you have to communicate with them more!

Hello, everyone longs to be understood, especially if you are wronged, you can't say it, you are wronged, but no one believes in you, this will make you especially want others to believe in you and understand you, but you have to know that you can't ask others to understand you, because no one understands them when they encounter the same treatment, no one in this world is smooth sailing, so everyone wants to be understood, this is a vicious circle, so it is normal to say that others don't understand you, If there are many people who understand you, it is called abnormal, this is also a test for you, and you will mature and grow up after surviving, and you will no longer be afraid that others will not understand you.

What you do is not understood by others, it may be that what you are doing is wrong, and on the other hand, there is that those people cannot accept what you do.

Why do you want others to understand you? What is your psychological appeal? The 7 Instincts of Human Character:

Pride, jealousy, lust (including some of the seven emotions and six desires, but also social needs, etc.), greed, anger, fear, laziness. Pride: including but not limited to self-esteem, self-improvement, self-reliance, self-confidence, inferiority, etc.; Fear:

Fear of people, ghosts, loneliness, water, insects, heights, death, pain, the unknown, etc.; Laziness: Man invented various tools that could save people effort because of laziness... People with hobbies or beliefs have no shortage of friends (8 percent of people who like to sing and listen to songs are not hobbies, for example, there were a few years when I liked to watch basketball games, but it was not a hobby, just because it was enjoyable to watch, just a spiritual need under the psychological sustenance).

If others ignore you, you should find your own reason, is it that you have done something wrong? People will ignore you, and it is impossible for others to ignore you for no reason.

If others don't understand you, you try to understand them, you can be the first person to empathize, and then slowly, others will understand you.

It is normal for each to have a subjective purpose and not understand each other.

One should not worry that others do not understand oneself, but that one should worry that oneself does not understand others. When we encounter others who don't understand us or are misunderstood by others, we need to think about why others misunderstand us, and we need to understand what others think and how they look at problems. If we work hard to understand what others think and how we see things, we will also know why others misunderstand us, and we will be relieved and make the next choices and actions accordingly.

Because of personal reasons, and there is too little communication, mainly a lack of communication skills.

Think about it, can you understand others? When there is a person who does not understand you, ask the question that may be that person, if the others do not understand, you have to find out for yourself whether the problem is in yourself.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

Why don't others understand me? At this time, we don't need to care so much about others, and others don't necessarily pay much attention to people.

If you want to truly recognize yourself, you must have a fair and objective evaluation of yourself, listen to the views of others, recognize your own advantages, have confidence in yourself, and see your own shortcomings, so that you can have a correct evaluation of yourself.

If I can find out my duplicity, I will be clear.

Know yourself. How not thorough Zheng Huiche... Others.

Maybe it's easier for you to understand. Silver clump lead.

I think from the moment you open your eyes every day, you have to say to yourself that today is a good day, no matter what happened yesterday, after all, yesterday is the past, it can't be changed, don't let yesterday's troubles affect today's good mood, everything starts now!

When you are working, no matter how busy the task is and how stressful it is, don't complain about your work, be happy with your work, don't start the day with resentment, and you will have a sense of accomplishment to complete your work step by step!

Don't compare with others, so that you will live very easily, people's biggest enemy is themselves, I think you should have heard this sentence, so, it is not interesting to compare with others, only compare with yourself, in order to always have a struggle or goal.

Don't measure yourself by other people's standards!

After all, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, and no gold is enough!

What others say is right for you to take seriously, and what you say is not right.

You just sing as him, don't take it to heart, there are so many boring people in this world, if you all worry about them, how can you have a good mood!

The most important thing is that no matter how busy you are at work, you should take some time out of your day to do what you love, such as listening to songs, doing sports, etc.

Hope you are happy every day! Good mood every day!