I like a boy very much, but he has just fallen out of love for a long time and can t accept me, what

If a man doesn't like a woman, it's a bit of a tragedy, as long as the man is a little bit of an active person.

That's basically how your feelings are confessed.

The love that moves a man and the affection that touches a woman are not on the same level.

Well, what I'm saying might be a bit heavy.

If you want him to have a good impression of you, you must first separate for a period of time, treat it lightly, give him time to get out of the past, and also give yourself time to calm down, and see if you can influence him in the plain.

In short, I think it's very difficult, if it's a man with a little bit of ideas and initiative, basically he will only like what he likes, and not be interested in women who like him.

Girl, you love him, but, don't be anxious, get along slowly, let him feel your little bit of warmth, remember, don't be impatient, don't confess, still reserved and warm, like a cup of light and suitable milk tea, give him the temperature he wants.

If you want to occupy his heart, you have to use your sincerity to impress him, (I once only had more than 10 yuan on me, waiting for a girl, 3 days and 2 nights, when she saw me, that scene I can't forget) I say this is not to let you do this like me, I mean to show your sincerity to move him, soothe his wounded heart, but he can't forget his ex-girlfriend soon, only let him accept you little by little, you will occupy his heart step by step.

Only to comfort him and let him out of this shadow ... Let him know that there are people in the world who truly love him.

Wait for him to calm down, and you're talking to him, or he'll be very irrational about accepting you, and it's not fair to you, and you can care about him, and be with him, and when he's out of the pain, you're talking to him.

While confessing to him and letting him come out of the shadow of broken love.

Move him with your heart and your actions.

He's hurt and it's often easy to be moved by something.

Make him feel like you're more heartwarming than the woman before him.

Don't give up, stick to the end, since you really love him, use love to impress him, and make him feel that you still have you when he is the loneliest. Give him a gift in the name of a friend, landlord, persistence is victory.

Since he still can't let go of that girl, it's better to persuade you to give up on him as soon as possible, even if you are together in the future, you will be very miserable if you always think of another person in his heart.

A lot of friends will meet, I recently saw a diary in a blog that was very well written, specializing in analyzing emotional problems, and I saw it on the NetEase blog!

Speechless, in fact, there are many good men, there is no need for only this one.

Confess to him that you like him!

Hello! Your story is very touching, and you are really a kind and infatuated man. If you continue like this, it's okay if the woman agrees, but if you don't, can you accept that outcome?

If the girl really loves you, you can find a way to continue dating, talk to them well, and don't anger the woman's parents, parents all over the world want their children to be happy, if it's a financial problem, you can tell them that you can't afford it now, but you promise to do it in a few years. The main thing is your actions, seeing your actions, even if it takes a long time to fulfill your promises, but they will forgive you. Communication between people is important.

The definition of love is different for everyone, but it should not be the whole of our life, in addition to girls, you also have your family and parents, parents are the most selfless people in this life, you are still young, work hard. Wishing you happiness.

Friend, after reading this story of yours, I have an inexplicable sad feeling in my heart, I don't know if it's because your dedication to love has infected me, or if your experience has stirred up some memories in my heart...

In fact, I also had a love affair that was not in the right household. At that time, we were young and frivolous and loved so persistently, but our love was never recognized by our girlfriend's parents. Our love has no choice but to turn to underground activities, you should understand that this kind of relationship makes you have an unimaginable tiredness, sometimes both of them are a little unbearable and say to break up, but once they are relieved, they will be together again.

In this way, under heavy pressure, our love withstood the test of the "Eight-year War of Resistance", and in the end, I have to thank my father-in-law for being open-minded and entrusting his daughter's life to me.

When you talk about you, you come to my mind like a movie. You are so amazing, for the queen in your heart, you can actually give up such a beautiful difference as a civil servant and travel with her to the end of the world. In fact, I can imagine the difficult choice in your heart at that time, stay in the county, the love between the two of you can't continue, go to Shanghai, and you lose your advantage, but you still bravely chose the latter, for love.

Friend, in fact, you have done quite well, love has been best interpreted by you, you really have to blame you for not having a father like Li Gang, and you can only blame us for living in such a real society.

So I want to give you a pertinent suggestion, to understand the values of your girlfriend's parents, to see if it is possible to change their minds and accept you, as long as they are not the absolute money worship, then try to find a person who can convince them to persuade them, of course, the premise is that you must use emotion to understand the reason to convince the intermediary first, so that there may be a glimmer of hope. Otherwise, I strongly advise you to retreat as soon as possible, don't fall on this girl, it may be a relief for both you and the girl. If you want this girl to resolutely marry you completely regardless of her parents' opinions, it will be very painful and painful for anyone, this is not a TV series after all.

Finally, what I want to tell you is that as a man, career is really important, with a career you have the right to choose, and only when you have a successful career can you have the absolute right to speak. Work hard, and sincerely hope that your love will be bright.

In fact, it is a mistake for you to give up your job as a civil servant, and the feelings without cheese will not last.

These are two separate issues. For the incumbent, feelings are a matter of 2 people, one is indispensable, since you don't have feelings for you, it's better to give up, and there will be no good results if you barely come together. Moreover, I have always felt that since you don't like it, don't look for a substitute, which is also a sign of irresponsibility to the other party.

For the rich second generation, I personally suggest that you should be cautious, money is nothing to him, so how much value you give you does not represent his feelings for you, and entering a wealthy family is not as simple as you think, you must be able to accept all kinds of cynicism and ridicule, and there is a risk of finding a new love. If you don't love, why do you do something against your heart? So simple multiple-choice questions are not for you, so keep a clear head, think carefully, and don't make a choice lightly.

Is the rich second generation here to go to the kidneys? Relationships that are not aimed at marriage are hooliganism. On this premise, do you dare to ask, if you don't get married, you can't touch it.

It's not fair to love this thing, there is always one party who pays more. Do you have a normal relationship or are you obscure? Material satisfaction means that you don't feel stable, you are socializing here, and you feel the material satisfaction of the rich second generation there?

Is it appropriate? A man woman enjoys the material satisfaction of another man, what do you think? If you want to choose, you can choose, and if you choose, you can find an opportunity to ask out for coffee and other things to clarify your heart and have a formal relationship.

First of all, no matter whether or not your current boyfriend is pursuing you, especially the rich second generation or something, you have to learn to observe by yourself, whether he is playing with you or really likes you (I personally feel that the rich second generation plays mostly, because that little material may be valuable to us, but they may be just the recent pocket money), is there no boyfriend you are with this rich second generation? ? He can't let go of the past means that he is not a half-hearted person, you have to help him forget the past together, only remember you, you have to be confident, don't blindly focus on him, and then have a showdown with him.

A person who loves you, a person you love, how do you choose? From my standpoint, I will choose to love me, at least I won't get hurt, and if I have more contact over time, I will naturally have a good feeling.

..You're taking advantage of it. He's just grateful to you. You must be right. He's just grateful to you. There will be no affection, and even if they are together, they will be like other couples, but the difference is that there is less dependence between couples.

Hehe, this female friend, seeing what was said above, gives us all the feeling that this boy is a very serious and responsible person for his relationship, he broke up with his girlfriend and did not immediately go to a new relationship, which shows that he still has a very strong relationship for his ex-girlfriend! For you, although the relationship between you and him is completely established, please remember that he is in a sad period, so even if you see his current pain and want to help him, you should pay attention to a scale and time, I think you can only give him the right amount of comfort at most, and it is best not to mention the words that let him start a love again.

As a boy, I also know that I have the pain of falling out of love, my beloved girl can't get it, or that my beloved girl has thrown herself into the arms of others, that feeling is unthinkable, the pain of falling out of love is not only a big blow to girls, but also for boys, it will make people want to commit suicide!

However, it is true that falling out of love will bring a blow of near destruction, but time will also act as a tool for healing, and the pain caused by falling out of love will slowly disappear as time goes by, people often say that if you can start a relationship again, you can forget the pain of the past, and it is true that the truth is true, but I personally think that the current pain is not something that can be eliminated in the short term, or give the parties a certain amount of time to turn around, What he needs most for such a boy is a girl who can talk to him (of course, it doesn't necessarily mean that this girl will become his new girlfriend, I think if you want to act as such a girl, please remember not to let yourself lose yourself, because at this time he just uses you as a stand-in for his ex-girlfriend, and it is quite stupid and worthless to lose yourself at this time), this boy is someone you have admired for a long time, you can enlighten him more at this time to be his loyal listener and friend, He will be grateful to you, it is what I said above at this time you should also pay attention to a measure, if you do things in proportion and do not immediately mention the new love matters, he will feel that you are a general knowledge, quality person, until he completely forgets his ex-girlfriend (or forgot most of it), then you can put forward your own ideas, I hope you grasp it, I wish this boy a speedy escape from the sea of suffering, landlord, you also love smoothly!

If he is out of love, if you still love him, accompany him and let him come out of love. Everyone's heart is not iron, there is always a moment of pain, he will always be moved by you and slowly accept you. Finally: I wish you all together.

Time is the most testing of a person. Impress him with sincerity, if you really like him.

Hehe, maybe he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, or maybe he doesn't want to be in a relationship now, so he didn't give you a negative answer.

Now, don't confess for the time being, you think your relationship is deep, you can have a little ambiguity with the object, and he didn't refuse, that's the opportunity to confess.

He meant to give him some time, he wasn't ready yet.

Isn't this simple? It means that he is hinting to you that he is now single, and may not have come out of his last relationship.

Maybe he doesn't like you, it's just an excuse to reject you.

You have nothing else to do but comfort.

It's hard to explain the emotion, and if you don't contact him now and keep a certain distance, I'm afraid you won't be able to do it. Because you like him now, there will definitely be all kinds of reluctance! But I think it's best for you to stop contacting him now!

Is a man who pedals two boats worthy of such a liking from you? He is still with his current girlfriend, so it means that he must still like that person, do you want his love to be shared with another person? I don't want my partner to look at other boys more, let alone a situation like yours, people are selfish in their feelings!

Can he do this to his current girlfriend, even if he follows you, can you guarantee that he can do this wholeheartedly to you, and will not do such things behind your back again? I don't think it's worth it, if it's a true feeling, it will hurt people, so it's better to break it off now, so as not to be unable to extricate yourself in the future! Now you should ask some people who are older than you, you should ask them what they think, and remember, always remind yourself to be sensible!